My problem is even though everyone assumes were 2gether, we aren't but i don't know why? Over these three years we've become best friends, and I don't want 2 lose him, but I feel like he shouldn't get boyfriend benefits if he not my boyfriend. What Should I do?
2007-10-01 11:49:33 · 4 answers · asked by Maria L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you type in "does he/she like me" in the question search you'll get over 300,000 results for that question not including the answers. Try that.
I don't know you are him so how thefuckwould I know
I'm soooooooooooooooo sick of this question. If you have to ask you're to young to be trying to figure it out
xxx
2007-10-08 22:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, while you still can..He'll come running after you if he's really into you. But i don't see the reasons why a guy can't make a commitment with you, isn't he afraid that somebody else may take you from him or is he just too complacent because he's availing all of the benefits with strings attached..I've been in the same exact situation and there's this book, "He's just not that In to You" which helped me a lot. And now Im so thankful that I have moved on from him and with someone who would risk losing everything but me. You deserve more than what you're getting.
2007-10-08 19:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist impressions tell me he just wants the sex. Doesn't matter that you do everything other couples do because most couples are dysfunctional so don't think thats a saving grace. That aside the lack of commentment is usually a big sign that neither of you is really be completely honest about the way they feel, which means you have a pretty stagnant relationship, with well if its like other relationships with a stranger that you pretend to actually know, but you don't.... sorry if you can't talk to him about this, it pretty much MAKES me right about this, sorry, when commication brecks down, the realtionship follows. SO talk to him honestly about the way you feel, and base your choice on that..... to stay or to leave, who knows maybe having sex every once in awhile with a guy you can pretend to be in a relationship with rocks your boat! and maybe not.....
2007-10-04 09:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the next step. Boyfriend or just friend. Make that decision.
2007-10-09 06:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Christian Heavy Metal Bassist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋