Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

has been acting very strange with her husband who is also the god father for my daughter. I felt because of the things she has done in the past that she is jealous of me and her husband. This weekend i became the god mother of my husbands niece and in the party celebration she acted really strange once again with her husband and me. I confronted her and now i feel horrible. I felt it was time to confront her because this situation has been making me feel really uncomfortable for a while now. I am afraid now that this will cause a great deal of drama in the family and furthermore, i feel so bad about it but i have no regrets. any advice?

2007-10-01 02:48:38 · 4 answers · asked by Trying to help 2 in Family

What's the correct way of doing it.. in official documents..

For example:
Sunita Rao (girl)
Rajiv Shah (boy)

Does the girl become Sunita Rajiv Shah?

I am confused, that's what my husband wants, while in my family, it would only be Sunita Shah.

I'll appreciate your opinion. Thanks.

2007-10-01 02:47:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have a boyfriend but i like this other guy who treats me way better and doesent pressure me to do anything but he lives so far away but he tells me he loves me and that i'm beautifull and my boyfriend tells me he loves me to but i really dont think he does

2007-10-01 02:47:09 · 9 answers · asked by brittney s 1 in Singles & Dating

When you go out on a date with a man and your teeth are crooked, could that be a reason for him to not wanna date you anymore?!?! Because i need braces really bad and i really have a complex about my teeth!!

2007-10-01 02:45:32 · 9 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

What age were you? Survey

2007-10-01 02:45:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend has supposedly fathered a child, tried to use protection but the condom split and the girl said she would use emergency pill but didn't. Now pregnant and claimingthey should be together, he's the dad etc. Thing is this girl was with another man for three weeks the week before the 'accident' happened. My friend has said he wants a test when the child is born, the girl has now become physically and verbally abusive to my friend. They are not together and hopefully never will be!!!!

2007-10-01 02:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by JOANNE C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I show my boyfriend affection.. Even if were just sitting there watching a movie?

2007-10-01 02:40:26 · 5 answers · asked by Dr.DRE 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 02:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife recently left on a saturday at 1pm and did not return hm until sunday at 4pm. she then admitted she and another girl went with 2 guys out of town and went out and then rented a double hotel room 4 the night. she and a guy on one side and the others on the opposite. she swears she didn't sleep with the guy however also admits she has some mixed up feelings 4 him bc she finds him interesting. then the other night I checked her text messages and found him writing her, telling her this "I'm going to bed now, all alone : (" What gives? I know I am wearing my blinders on this bc I know she had 2 have slept with him 4 him to say something like this. Ladies.... tell me what u think about this?

2007-10-01 02:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't want anyone to feel bad for me on here! so don't think that's what i am trying to do ok!! i went to a party friday night!! i met up with a guy!! but he has a girlfriend that i knew!! ok i got drunk off my *** and we connected!! i used protection!! i may have been drunk but im not that stupid!! ok she isn't one of my friends i just know of her!! ok but i still feel bad and i expevt to i just need to know if i should just forget it or what?

2007-10-01 02:25:54 · 2 answers · asked by Charlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

If you wanted to cheat on your partner, and if he found out and you knew that you would not be able to sit down for a week once he got through with you, would the fun of the affair outweigh the soreness of the backside?

2007-10-01 02:18:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

who has exciting ones who has boring ones

2007-10-01 02:16:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok well i like this guy alot!! and he is a few years younger than me but we have talked about it and he said to him age is just a number and i feel the same but i was just wonder what everyone elses opinion is about this....

2007-10-01 02:15:14 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Singles & Dating

He asked me to come over the past couple nights but has stopped seeing me since he started his second job. When I confronted him about it he just tells me he will see me. But last night when he asked me to visit he said I am passing out the back door is unlocked, to me that was so rude now he wont say sorry

2007-10-01 02:13:34 · 5 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-01 02:11:49 · 19 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband has benn cheating on me with my sister for 5 yrs and its my turn to get even sholud i have sex with his brother or not

2007-10-01 02:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a big problem because I fell in love with this guy yet he doesn't feel the same anymore. I only time that he calls me is when he is drunk or wants phone sex. I don't know why I love him so much. What should I do?

2007-10-01 02:11:10 · 4 answers · asked by windexsosmooth 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very worried about my boyfriend.

The link is a picture of him.

I am 23 (Female) and he is 22. He owns and operates several businesses with his father including gyms, nightclubs and resturants. He works very hard and has a very hectic life style, always been called away in the middle of the night to sort something.

Recently he has changed quite a bit. He seems to get upset for no apparant reason and he tells me that he's ugly and he doesnt deserve me.

I have found anti-depressants in his jacket too. He is losing weight too and we are not as close as we were.

My main fear is that his father is retiring next year so his will have the sole responsibility of running practically an empire.

2007-10-01 02:11:05 · 3 answers · asked by moon 1 in Family

I told my wife last night, its okay, if you feel like fantasizing, other "Hot" men. Everytime, I do this, for some strange reason, she gets in the mood, even though her sex drive is completely dead as a door nail.

2007-10-01 02:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am on a course with this girl I am good friends with, and I wanted to change one of my modules (u take two modules a term each on a different subject) because it was too like another one i am doing and the one i was going to change it to sounded so much better. i told my friend i was changing and she was like aw no dont leave me. then the next day she said she wanted to change too. apprently she emailed the person who changes it a few hours before me, got the last place and now i cant change at all and i really really wanted to.
we were both in the persons office when we found out there was one place and i was literally pleading for a place for me too, and he said no. if i was the other way round and i had the place and my friend had said she wanted to change before i did i would have let her have it. im pretty mad at her.
do i have any right to be mad?

2007-10-01 02:05:40 · 9 answers · asked by ribenacreep1 3 in Friends

I'm scared it will never be the same. He's gone and moved out with his wife. I'm not sure how to cope with this change. He has lived with us since we were born.

2007-10-01 02:03:32 · 16 answers · asked by CC_Boobcock 2 in Weddings

my sis has changed over the past few months. She wrote on mydeardiary.com that me and my family including our friends don't understand her. She is only surviving because of her boyfriend. And i'm just hurt to hear that. And what if i show my mom what she wrote. I'm she my mom would hurt even more. My sis is like keeping a secret from all of us. Even when i or my other sis or my mom asked, she would just ignore. what should i do?????

2007-10-01 02:03:23 · 4 answers · asked by TeaRS && FLoWeRS 2 in Family

my boyfriend of 3 and a half months ased me this question last night ! is he trying to finish with me? how can i try prove to him were in love?! thanks x

2007-10-01 02:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by askkate2 1 in Family

My husband and I had a daughter and we were very strict with her when she was growing up and she wasn't allow to do hardly anything. When she was 17 she met a guy and he asked our permission to date our daughter and we said yes. My husband and I found out they were having sex and we handle it badly. We called our daughter names and made things even harder on her and stopped her from seeing her boyfriend. When she turned 18 she moved out and we went 1 year without seeing and talking to her. One day I decided to go see her and she had moved away. We had no idea where she moved to and since then my husband has died and I remarried. I hired a PI to find my daughter and the PI found out where she lives and gave me the information. I want to see my daughter so badly and apologize to her and beg her forgiveness for how I treated her. Do I have the right to contact her?

2007-10-01 01:57:04 · 10 answers · asked by genie 1 in Family

Hello.
This is my first time using yahoo answers. :)
Okay, so there's this situation going on, and I need advice.

I live with my parents and siblings (9mnths, 6yrOld, & 13yr old) in a 3 bedroom apartment. I'm 15 btw. My siblings and I used to attend a private school, and then we had to transfer out due to financial problems. My mom assured me that everything would be okay since we wouldn't have to pay for our tuition anymore. But, we just got evicted. I'm not really sad or anything, I'm just extremely uncertain of what to do in a situation like this. Mind you, my parents don't know that my sister(the 13 year old) and I know about this. I don't think my parents want to tell us that we got evicted. But, anyways, is there anything I could do to help out my parents?

I'm also a junior in highschool, just thought i'd let you know. :)
[In case you were to suggest something time consuming, I have loads of projects and stuff these days]

2007-10-01 01:57:02 · 3 answers · asked by crankdat.kellyanne 1 in Family

Hi,

I am 23 (Female) and I live with my boyfriend who is 22. I have known him for five years and we are very happy together. I am a nurse and he owns and operates sveral businesses with his father inclduign gyms nightclubs and restaurants. We have very large and close families and always gave lots of people around us.

He works very hard and has a very hectic life style, he is always been called away in the middle of the night to sort something.

This is a link to a photo of him

http://www.friendsreunited.co.uk/
fr.asp?wci=gallery

Recently I have noticed some changes in him. He gets very upset for no apparant reason, he tells me that he thinks he's ugly..and that he doesnt deserve me. I have also found anti-depressnats amongst his things.

He is also losing weight and not eating as much. He refuses to talk about it and it just causes a row when I bright it up. His father is retiring next year so he will be soly in charge of all the companies...so lots more work for him

2007-10-01 01:56:12 · 2 answers · asked by Aly 1 in Friends

Hi,

I am 23 (Female) and I live with my boyfriend who is 22. I have known him for five years and we are very happy together. I am a nurse and he owns and operates sveral businesses with his father inclduign gyms nightclubs and restaurants. We have very large and close families and always gave lots of people around us.

He works very hard and has a very hectic life style, he is always been called away in the middle of the night to sort something.

This is a link to a photo of him

http://www.friendsreunited.co.uk/
fr.asp?wci=gallery

Recently I have noticed some changes in him. He gets very upset for no apparant reason, he tells me that he thinks he's ugly..and that he doesnt deserve me. I have also found anti-depressnats amongst his things.

He is also losing weight and not eating as much. He refuses to talk about it and it just causes a row when I bright it up. His father is retiring next year so he will be soly in charge of all the companies...so lots more work for him

2007-10-01 01:55:15 · 2 answers · asked by Aly 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old.I have a boy friend who is 3 monthes older than me.2 years ago I got freind with him.His father bankrupted 1 year ago and almost at the same time his mother got breast cancer.From that time he has been always preoccupied with their problems.Both of us are university students .on holidays he spends his time with them.The situation of his family gets worse day to day and I have no hope that things get better even in the future.I feel sorry 4 them but most of the time my boyfriend leaves me alone to go and give a hand to them.He is fickle too.Sometimes he asks me to see eachother 3 times a week and sometimes even 4 1 week he does not phone me.He had this behavior even before his family problems arise.2 times I tried to interrupt our relationship, but he insists on cotinuing.I know He loves me more and less,he is kind and faithful,but this problems bothers me I have gotten so depressed.I talked to him about this many times but no use.We have not had sexual relationship.

2007-10-01 01:54:40 · 13 answers · asked by Ara 1 in Singles & Dating

ok see i was dating this guy for like almost 5 yrs and well about 3 yrs ago he cheated on me and about 1 yr ago he got the girl pregnant. well we aren't together but he keeps telling me that he wants to be with me and wants me to be around the kid and that he don't want nothing to do with the mom. i still love him but i'm scared that if i go back to him i will get hurt. he was my 1st love and he hurt me so bad that i don't trust guys no more. i want to believe him but i don't know if i can. i haven't gotten over him creating a baby behind my back and i know deep down i would not be able to be around the child without wanting to hurt it. he tells me that his life isn't complete with out me and that he wants us to get married someday and have kids but i don't know. i'm confussed and don't know if i should give him another chance or not? what do u think? should i just leave him alone or go back and see if we can work things out?

2007-10-01 01:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by bluedevilsgirl07 2 in Singles & Dating

We are taught at a young age, or to most it is COMMON SENSE, that staring is RUDE. But mexican men stare women down at wal-mart and everywhere they see them and some times they smile and talk in spanish at us. I know they are saying something dirty. Why do they do this?

I ask this because yesterday I went to a resturant with my friend and they place was full on them and everytime we looked around they were staring us down. Thats so rude I want to scream at them, but they would have done no good because they wouldnt understand me anyways!

2007-10-01 01:47:18 · 28 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating