my husband has benn cheating on me with my sister for 5 yrs and its my turn to get even sholud i have sex with his brother or not
2007-10-01 02:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure, andn while you're at it, I'll call Jerry right away!
2007-10-01 02:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why lower yourself to your husband and sisters level; you will be no better than they are. Respect yourself and know that you are capable of being loyal and faithful, unlike them. There is 'no turn to get even' as you will only be hurting yourself. You haven't said how you are handling all of this; if you left him or are willing to work on the marriage. Also, you know how it felt to have your own sister betray you; would you really wish his brother to have to live with the fact he betrayed his brother in such a horrid way? Be better than they, hold your head up high and realize that you are something they can never be - faithful.
2007-10-01 09:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby has been cheating for 5 yrs? Dump the bum, He doesn't appreciate you, Jeeze! You put up with his cheating for 5 yrs? You should have left him years ago! Don't cheat, 2 wrongs don't make a right, just leave hubby and find someone who will appreciate you!
2007-10-01 09:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been going on that long, why not leave and find happiness with someone who will be true to you?
Revenge is never a good answer. It doesn't bring lasting happiness. Sometimes, it even makes the situation worse.
2007-10-01 09:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you want to become as low as him and your sister. Wow! Not a good idea. In the end, what will that prove? That you can do it too? And might end up with disease, pregnant or something, let alone guilt. The only person you will be harming is yourself. Not worth it!
2007-10-01 09:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will do what you want to do but let me tell you, two wrongs do not make a right.
If you do this you will be no better then the scum they both are. Your sister is in the wrong to. Divorce him and walk away from a sister that would do this. There is no LOVE in any of this!
2007-10-01 09:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some self respect and simply get a lawyer. Divorce is the best revenge.
2007-10-01 09:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nawww, you can do better than that. Go and get yourself a big ole black dude, you know one of them thugged out types and tape the raunchy sex and then leave is somewhere where one of his family members can find it.
2007-10-01 09:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by bettercockster7 c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... just get a divorce... two wrongs don't make a right... he obviously didn't care enough about you to stay faithful... why would he care if you did his brother? Grow up and call an attorney
2007-10-01 09:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by daniegirl917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T........ you dont need to sink to his level. like some1 said the best revenge is to DIVORCE him.
2007-10-01 09:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by BabyDoll8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋