my sis has changed over the past few months. She wrote on mydeardiary.com that me and my family including our friends don't understand her. She is only surviving because of her boyfriend. And i'm just hurt to hear that. And what if i show my mom what she wrote. I'm she my mom would hurt even more. My sis is like keeping a secret from all of us. Even when i or my other sis or my mom asked, she would just ignore. what should i do?????
2007-10-01 02:03:23 · 4 answers · asked by TeaRS && FLoWeRS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maby she is depressed. Its so easy to get into this state. She could come out of it or she might not. Maby you could ask her bf how you guys could help her.
2007-10-01 02:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by *WEDA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answerer who said maybe your sister is depressed... depression can cause us to feel alone and as if no one cares (even though they DO care).
If your sister is only surviving because of her boyfriend, well, this isn't good news, either. We shouldn't depend on someone else for our happiness... it's nice to have someone special in our lives, but our world needs to revolve around a variety of things, not just a partner.
maybe talk to your mom about how you think your sister has changed, when your sister isn't around? i think that your sister might need to talk to a doctor about they way she feels right now.
depression can be a chemical imbalance... it's NOT the individual's fault if they become depressed...
take care and all the best.
2007-10-01 09:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she scare your family give her more pressure after she told what happened.
so, i feel you should ask her personally (without other people attendance)
Tell her that you're very worry about her,you love her, and you want just share her desperate.
Pledge her if she insist keep silent.
Tell her that you will keep her secret even your parent(don't break your promise).
If she want crying, let she cry on your shoulder (comfort her and not make her more sad, don't even force her to accept your solution of her problem).
But you can remind her about what of the consequence.
hope this can help you
2007-10-01 09:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by edisonteck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tell you all it won't be a secret any more give her a break she will come around.
2007-10-01 09:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋