Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

In less than 1 year I seen one committed blonde woman neighbour next door and her man got out of the tenement building where I live - she is cute and I am one of the few tennants living alone. I really feel attracted for her but I don't melt seasons unless she opens her guard. I have felt this awkward feeling her man decided to change their address because of her and me. I feel strange in imagining that where I go alone I provoke changes like that.
The little deli where I use to eat meals everyday got managed by an attractive non-committed under 40 gorgeous healthy brunette being her ex the responsible for renting the whole building where it is located and he lets her run the restaurant biz.
Now he threw her out of the business management locking the premises and hiring her employees.
She came to my place almost in tears accounting this development.
What am I doing to me and to people's lives?
Why do I bring changes like this?

2007-10-01 07:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by triximetric 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to hear positive or negative stories about what its like living in a big family.I have five kids at present and would like to know how it must be for them.My oldest is fourteen and my youngest is two....i also have four year old twins and a son of twelve....this question is just out of interest...thanks for the replies.....

2007-10-01 07:17:03 · 20 answers · asked by dotty 3 in Family

me.......ummmmmm..........
about...4 or more!!!


but now i just kiss..my b/f!!!!

2007-10-01 07:14:56 · 21 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

After first date( you`ve never seen before- only mails) if he said " since now i got your number so i`ll call " it means that he won`t.
I think that if he really means and wants it - he would ask you if you want to see him again.

2007-10-01 07:05:30 · 14 answers · asked by mimi26 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with a guy for about 2 months now. I am really falling for him hard. I am afraid to tell him though. I feel it will scare him away. He just went through a divorce and I don't want him to feel I am moving to fast. Any advice?

2007-10-01 07:03:03 · 19 answers · asked by Marilyn M 3 in Singles & Dating

You've been dating this girl for a while and then you had sex for the first time (she was a virgin). I call her two days later to see if she liked it and she didn't make it seem like it was a big deal. In fact when I told her that "all she did was lie there." She told me that "I didn't know what I was doing." I get mad and we hang up. she calls me during the week to check up on her and I hang up because I am still mad at her. Then she literally deletes me out of her life after she realized that I wasn't going to give in. I try to contact her but only to see if she still likes me because she wasnt being as clingy as I thought she would be. We had lost contact because she told me "never to contact her again". Then she comes back after two to three months, what seemed like forever. I was actually glad to hear from her and I do care about her. But I just didn't want to make it seem like i wanted her back in my life, not like it was before. After she told me that she still cared about me

2007-10-01 07:02:30 · 10 answers · asked by . 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He loves to eat, but he doesn't just want a quick little sandwich he wants a meal--a real meal. I want to please him, but I work everyday and cooking every evening is a bit much, and one day of the weekend, too. Am I being mean? How often should I cook, once, twice, three times, everyday?

2007-10-01 07:00:03 · 17 answers · asked by Ida T 4 in Marriage & Divorce

did anyone out there get married abroad child friendly and for a small wedding

2007-10-01 06:59:54 · 13 answers · asked by lynsIreland 1 in Weddings

I want to get the girl but if i tell her she's going to be sad and if we get together its like im going to be the rebound guy. but if I dont tell her hes gonna keep cheating IM struck

2007-10-01 06:59:15 · 14 answers · asked by busta 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really sorry for making you feel bad, i've not acted very nicely over the last few months, didn't mean to make you feel bad. Sorry. I hope that you can forgive me and that in time we can be friends again. I hope that you don't hate me. i'm going to miss you as you're my best friend. I didn't mean to talk about the relationship, for some reason i couldn't help it, was just so scared of losing you and couldn't bear life with out you. I hope everything goes ok for you and that you get the job you're looking for. Sorry it turned out like it did. I love you..

2007-10-01 06:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If yes, how did this happen for you ??

2007-10-01 06:58:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted a question asking if "do relationships go in cycles/ live with some", I received 4 answers and one was voted best answer. I took her advice. Needless to say I TOOK THE WRONG ADVICE.

I am now wearing a sling on my right arm (fractured elbow and shoulder), wearing shirts to cover my neck to hide the choke marks, and living in a house full of broken furniture, while trying to explain to my 3 children what happen to mommy arm, and why mommy have on that shirt and its hot outside.

To anyone out there, if your are in a relationship that you have to second guess, if it's healthy or not, does he or she love me or not, should I go or should I stay, he or she say they are sorry and it will never happen again, what should I do?.......Take it from someone who has been there.......YOU NEED TO LEAVE!!!!! ASAP.

Thank God I was able to hit him with something, grab my cell phone and run down the street, I may not would have been here to share my story.

2007-10-01 06:56:51 · 18 answers · asked by Winter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when she is done talking on the phone she hangs up without saying good bye and she does this to everybody...she thinks it's normal...am i making a big deal out of this????

2007-10-01 06:56:25 · 15 answers · asked by Tx Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a great boyfriend. Actually he's amazing. The sex is amazing....everything is....but there is this guy at work that i just...Im moving 1000miles away in one week..Im not a slut...i actually hate the guy but its like i have to get this guy out of my system by being with him one night...crazy i know...someone please talk me out of this. I mean my boyfriend and i are breaking up when i leave although "WE PLAN" to get back together when i move back..He's the one. I know he is even if we never get back together. I love him...why do i want to sleep with this other guy HELP!

2007-10-01 06:56:10 · 11 answers · asked by ~Mrs Ali~ 5 in Singles & Dating

Recently, my fiances friend moved in with us. I was completely against the idea, except we can use the extra money. It is not like we need it to get by, but it is helping because we are saving it up.

THe roommate is driving me NUTS. Everything he does annoys me. It has been 4 months, and I really put in an effort to get along, but I just cant.

I dont think its natural for a couple (who are getting married next year) to be living with a bachelor. I hate it, and there's nothing I can do. Asking him to move out would cause a riff between him and us, and what else can I do but suck it up and deal with it? We are moving to a new place this spring so I just have to hang in there til then...

It is causing problems between my fiancee and I. I am trying so hard to live with his guy but he is just extremely annoying. I don't want to go into too much detail, but there is just a huge long list of things he does that drive me batty.

How can I deal with this better?

2007-10-01 06:54:59 · 7 answers · asked by LifeLove 3 in Friends

2007-10-01 06:52:48 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Me ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 06:51:07 · 22 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He told me that sometimes he thought murder would be easier then marriage.... he has been married 25 years.... and if he murder her, he would have gotten off with 15 years with good behavior. LOL
His wife just sat there rolling her eyes. LOL

Do you have an gems or words of wisdom to share?

2007-10-01 06:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-01 06:50:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just read a question from a girl complaining how she doesn't want to pay for anything in her relationship w/ her boyfriend, and that he should pay for it all...is this what the world is coming to? People wanting to live for nothing? I realize that is considered welfare but since when did a boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife become the social services handout? My god! These people (my opinion) should be used for guinnea pigs in labs. Agree??

2007-10-01 06:50:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have done something wrong. I am engaged to a guy who I have two sons with. Well a friend called me over the week to tell me she saw this guy I USE to talk to chasing some girl out of the club they were at. So me being as dumb as I am, I texted him and told him, I was like "hahaha-my friend saw you chasing some girl out of the club-too funny". Well to say the least my fiance found out and is SO mad and dissapointed. He thinks I cant getover this other guy. But that is not the case, I guess I just thought it was funny and didnt use my head. I dont know how to get my fiance's trust back into me and show him I didnt mean anything by it. I love my fiance more then life and I am so mad at myself for messing us up. What do I do???

2007-10-01 06:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so there is a guy i have been talking back and fourth with for about a month an a half.. well i finally went and stayed all night with him, and he was so sweet to me.. i have never had someone be so sweet to me b4. even tho i dont like to cuddle, i cuddled with him all night, while he held my hand... the whole night.. everytime i would move he would grab me , kiss the back of my neck, and grab my and, and go back to sleep.. i am really starting to have feelings for him, but i dont want to be the one chasing him.. he works a ton of hours a week, and is always wore out an tired...he has told me on he doesnt want to get hurt, he has also been married 2ce. ...i guess my question is, do u think that if someone doesn't want to get hurt, then they are distant? just dont know.... should i even waste my time on someone who is so very closed up, or help him become more open? he doesn't call as much as i would think he would, considering he has told me how much he likes me...

2007-10-01 06:46:36 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are just classmates..he did not show any interest in me before..but last week we came across in the hallway and he asked me out for a movie(very casual)..

then at a party, he said to two female mutual friends: hey L(my name), did you tell them we went to see a movie together yesterday?

and my female friend said: you and P(his name) went out for a date! I responded: no..it is not a date..just hang out...

then he said: L(my name), you can not say it does not mean anything...

what does this mean?!?

then today we met in the cafeteria..he invited me to his new house for thanksgiving and also house warming...(of course there are other friends...)

so I do not get him...is he interested or just I think too much?
be frank..thanks!!

2007-10-01 06:46:25 · 3 answers · asked by milk 1 in Singles & Dating

im 17 and i live in laurel mississippi. can i move out of my house legally without my parents consent?

2007-10-01 06:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by abbigailpollock 1 in Family

I have this thing for this guy i work with and he has made it more than clear that he likes me alot too but he's alot older. He told me 2day that he's been offered a job in another store and im soooo worried about him leaving. He keeps basically saying that he'll stay if he's got me to stay for - wot should i do?? X

2007-10-01 06:42:49 · 10 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Singles & Dating

I've hugged him and he knows I like him a lot, but my last boyfriend went too fast and freaked me out. I dont want to do this to my guy now. Any suggestions/comments/ideas?

2007-10-01 06:42:37 · 5 answers · asked by shopaholicsareanonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

I went on a first date with a girl the other night and I wanted some people persepctive about how it ended, especially a girls perspective. I met her in a parking lot that was half way and we drove to dinner in my car. We went to a nice sushi place, the conversation was good and after dinner I was getting a good vibe from her and the date as a whole. Afterwards we met her friends and her friends new BF to see a movie. Before the movie we shared a bowl of ice cream and talked and once again I was getting good vibes. During the movie we obviously didnt talk much but even then we said a few jokes back and forth. Towards the end of the movie I was thinking this was going well and was planning to ask her on a 2 date when I droped her off. BUT after the movie when walking back to my car she says shes tired and asks if its ok if she just goes with her friend cause she'll crash at her place, hugs me, says its been fun and takes off. So is this over? Should I let it go or call her???

2007-10-01 06:42:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

give me an idear or something that will not imbaress me

2007-10-01 06:41:31 · 5 answers · asked by Marry 1 in Singles & Dating

Please explain to me how a man can make out with a female friend and then proceed AS IF NOTHING HAD HAPPENED? Doesn't he feel anything for her beyond a friend. Important: they had been flirting for the longest time before.

2007-10-01 06:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my husband a month ago with my 5 year old daughter. He was drinking excessively, lying to me about many things and we were fighting way too much.He refused counseling. I know it takes two to ruin a marriage. We both agreed it’s over. At first he acted like he was just fine. He picks up my daughter when he wants to and gives me money when he wants to. Feels like he calls all the shots. I work full time and I have no family around but I take care of her the best I can. But when he feels like I’m doing ok and moved on…he comes and hugs me and says he misses me and asks if I found someone. Then the next day he acts like I don’t matter. It’s like a roller coaster ride.I can’t afford a lawyer.he hides his money. I have my daughter all the time except on weekends. When he picks her up if he can. I just want to find a way to stop playing into his games and not feel sorry for him when he acts all sad.

2007-10-01 06:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by no name 1 in Marriage & Divorce