I have done something wrong. I am engaged to a guy who I have two sons with. Well a friend called me over the week to tell me she saw this guy I USE to talk to chasing some girl out of the club they were at. So me being as dumb as I am, I texted him and told him, I was like "hahaha-my friend saw you chasing some girl out of the club-too funny". Well to say the least my fiance found out and is SO mad and dissapointed. He thinks I cant getover this other guy. But that is not the case, I guess I just thought it was funny and didnt use my head. I dont know how to get my fiance's trust back into me and show him I didnt mean anything by it. I love my fiance more then life and I am so mad at myself for messing us up. What do I do???
2007-10-01 06:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk it over. Have a major heart to heart. Put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself how you would have felt had he done this?
Just let him know he is your #1 and try to work past it!
Sounds like you really really love him.
Good luck!
2007-10-01 06:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance stays mad for too long & says he wants to break up over this, then that means that he is just looking for a way out. Tell him once & for all I'm sorry, it was immature & it will never happen again so drop it.
By the way, how did he find out? If he's checking your phone then you should think twice about marring this guy. That sounds like more trouble to come with this controle freak.
2007-10-01 07:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by shellysd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grrrr! So what if you texted a guy? Your fiance has got issues if he thinks that you're doing something wrong. It's so stupid that he would get mad about that even if he is your ex. It's not like you're cheating or flirting. He sounds like a control freak to me. Actually I was married to one, so I know he is.
2007-10-01 07:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay calm, breathe deeply and go back to being the devoted partner you were. Do not bring it up again. If he does, tell him you just thought the incident was funny and wanted to tease the guy. Teasing does not mean love; it can even mean you do not like someone.
2007-10-01 06:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is too much drama in your relationship. I have read some of your other questions and you really need to focus your attention on being the best mom you can be.
Stay away from all of the garbage. Your fiancee has cheated on you and of course he is not going to trust you.
2007-10-01 06:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"I did something wrong"
"Being as dumb as I am"
"...didn't use my head"
"mad at myself for messing this up"
I find it fascinating that you're here asking others what to do. Pretty obvious you can't be trusted to do what's right anyway. Especially with this bone-head play. I have a better idea....what do YOU think you should do? Try excercising that lump of gray matter between your ears this time. Maybe you'll come up with the correct thing to do for once.
Think woman...think!
2007-10-01 06:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2017-01-02 21:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there,
I think that you need to tell him exactly what you have said in the above question. Maybe you should show him your question even, that might help him see the situation in another light. Good Luck.
2007-10-01 08:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life lesson #1: Don't text messages to other guys when you are engaged or married.
2007-10-01 06:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time, It doesnt seem like it was that big of deal, but men have a lot of pride and he probably doesnt like you contacting your ex. Just be extra nice and have sex with him alot, he'll forget about it eventually.
2007-10-01 06:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋