Please explain to me how a man can make out with a female friend and then proceed AS IF NOTHING HAD HAPPENED? Doesn't he feel anything for her beyond a friend. Important: they had been flirting for the longest time before.
2007-10-01 06:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So...you expected him to turn into a completely different human being then?...isn't that a tad naive?
Of course men have feelings, it is just that they are taught as children not to express them and then when they grow up they are confronted with ignorant women who think the world is only what they want it to be.
I remember walking down the stairs 3 days after I got married and being confronted with a load of boxes and packages. I asked what they were and was told..."It's the new kitchen...you can fit it today!"
I had never done anything remotely like this in my life and the stupid cow I married obviously thought I had become a DIY expert in my sleep!!
If you think it possible that men have no feelings...the problem may well be with you.
2007-10-01 06:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a kid and young teenager, I did. However, they were nothing compared to what I feel for guys. At the time I thought it was a straight-up crush I had with these girls. As I grew up thought, I came to realize that they were nothing more than just admiration of their personality and appearance, it wasn't anything sexual at all (even then I knew that I didn't like vaginas or breasts). I thought that I could be with a girl's boyfriend, but I know now that I would never be truly happy with a woman. Also, it wouldn't be fair to the woman. If you're falling for a guy who might be gay, be extra careful. Know your boundaries, don't force yourself at other people.
2016-05-18 01:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men do have feelings even though the world thinks he shouldn't they do and get hurt as often as women do. I have even seen a group of women laugh and call a guy a loser because he asked one of them out and they turned him down.
When a guy is turned down when he asks a girl out he is hurt and the girls think it is funny but he is really hurting and most women don`t experience turn downs often but the ones that do get hurt also.
A man can make out with a female friend and sees it as lust or playing around or wants only a sexual encounter .And it is wrong to do this and go off and be happy about it as he has hurt the girls feelings etc But the sad thing is a lot of guys do this and even have sex with her and then make jokes about her and call her a **** etc because they only wanted a notch in the belt and once he gets it they go.
But both sexes do use each other for what they want and it is wrong,both female and males must respect each other and be honest as to their intentions.
2007-10-01 06:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, men have feelings but many times we hide them inside and only let them out when we feel respected and around a safe person. At times our feelings may be intense so we keep inside and mull them over for a while to let them cool off so when we do talk about our feelings we won't blow up.
Guys also compartmentalize things so making out isn't always connected to his emotional feelings. Much of the time it is but not always. Women tend to be more integrated then men generally speaking.
2007-10-01 07:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am a man (i know i suck) but every man has feeling but only that is cover with a tick layer of rock dirt slam and other stuff and its hard for a female to go inside. the resend maybe that this person does not like u or maybe he dose., for man doing this kind of thing s is not really out of the othernery because there is really no 1 to tell them that this is wrong even if they know give hem a chance tell hem that this is not going to be assented again. and NO i don't think that he has feeling for this girl because he is just trying to get in her pans and i dont think is going to take to much time to hem to do tyhis
2007-10-01 07:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by diegoswheels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea! yes! and yes! and oh yea, yes! they do!! sometimes i think more than we do...difference is, they choose to control them. It all depends on where your looking for a guy really.
I can tell you from real experience that if a guy's first approach to you is flirting then he's a shallow jerk an you'll just get sex outta him --you'll only be seen as a "hit an run" (thats a quote) His first reaction to you tells you his straight up intentions. they're open books! And just as complicated as we are ...sometimes.
here's wisdom straight from a guys mouth:
"Guys are always thinkin about sex. the only time we're not thinkin about sex is when we have to stop to think about what your talkin about so we can respond so you dont think we're thinkin about sex."
Be wise. Shut up an listen to him talk for a max of 60 min or less an you'll know hon. you'll know.
"A man's thoughts are best shown by his actions."
2007-10-01 07:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Becka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i do think men have feelings, maybe its
just hard for him to show them, maybe
he wasnt intrested in more than one night,
which would make him a complete loser, but
maybe you should talk w/ him, ask him how he feels,
find out if the flirting before was just for the one night of
sweet romance. Just talk to him!
2007-10-01 06:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men have feelings, maybe you should find different guys or stop looking at the bad guys on what you think of all them!
2007-10-01 06:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have feelings don't kid yourself. He wanted to give it a test drive and see if there is chemistry. You didn't rev the motor the right way so you're out.
It's not how it should be but it is what he appears to be doing.
2007-10-01 06:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Do men have feelings".
I've been asking the same question for years now and the most I've learned is that most men only know one type of pain...physical.
(Sighs)
Good luck getting a satisfying answer!
2007-10-01 06:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Wicked Wanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋