He told me that sometimes he thought murder would be easier then marriage.... he has been married 25 years.... and if he murder her, he would have gotten off with 15 years with good behavior. LOL
His wife just sat there rolling her eyes. LOL
Do you have an gems or words of wisdom to share?
2007-10-01 06:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ROFLOL, that's too funny! It sounds like something my hubby would say. Yesterday he had 2 "gems" of wisdom:
Sometimes you're the bug, and sometimes you're the windshield.
If at first you don't succeed, parachuting probably isn't for you.
You want words of wisdom for marriage: OK, seriously now.
I would say not to keep secrets from each other. You're a team, so whatever is said to one is said to the other. Only in very select cases (like one spouse is an attorney or minister or psychiatrist) should a spouse keep something from his/her partner. This becomes even more important once you have children--kids will ALWAYS try to play one parent off the other. If you have the kind of marriage where you share information freely between each other--they can't do that.
Hang in there Bubs!! Good news though--my youngest sister got engaged over the weekend (finally!) and is planning a Jan 26, 2008 wedding!
2007-10-01 11:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are words I will never forget...Always remember to be in with love you hubby even though at times you may not like them. This also came from my grandparent they wil be married 50yrs this year.
When my grandmother tells every one that "this year will 50 yrs we have been married" most people say "how wonderful and not common these days". she replies " Yeah well he married me because he thought I had money, I married him because I thought he had money. Then we realized we were both poor and cant afford a divorce" Then she laughs and says "just kidding"
They have quite a since of humor. Well in there own way. Best wishes and good luck to you.
2007-10-01 08:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by typicalcagirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
always trust each other,show respect for each other,never forget why you married to start with,know when to just listen and when to talk.give each other a little space and know that just because your married doesnt mean you have to like the same people and other things,its ok to not have everything in common.and at night even if your angry never go to sleep without saying you love each other.good luckoh and that advice came from an aunt who had done been married happily to my uncle for 47 yrs.it works to im on 20 yrs now and still going.also choose your arguments carefully and remember once spoken words cannot be taken back.
2007-10-01 16:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by mamanana9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents just celebrated their 25th anniversary last year. My dad is 48 and my mom is 45. They told me the secret to a long marriage is always eating dinner together as a family every night (inforce it), and never forgetting to kiss each other goodnight!!!
They said those simple things have kept them going all these years because the kiss reminds them how much they love each other right before they sleep!
That old man needs to get a life haha!
2007-10-01 08:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 22:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by osazuwa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! I just love elderly people,. they come up with the funniest things. A lot of what they say is good advice as well.
One woman told me "Never marry the one you can live with. Marry the one you can't live without."
2007-10-01 07:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You know how they say to argue naked? It just doesn't make any difference. If you don't get fairly used to seeing each other naked, there's a problem.
2007-10-01 09:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by flirty_smurf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i work with eldrely people. they are so sweet! and funny! he has probably been telling that same story to people for years and she is just tired of hearing it!
2007-10-01 06:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO Too funny
Yeah, I think this is gonna be me and my husband (I can only hope!) It's hard to top that. :)
2007-10-01 06:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
how about this one from the words of my father, ''Bubbles, Don't do any Dumb ****''
2007-10-01 07:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by JillardG 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋