If yes, how did this happen for you ??
2007-10-01 06:58:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have fallen in love with my now husband, and I sure wasn't attracted or interested at first. I broke it off after a couple of dates, and he kept pursuing me with sweet e-mails, gifts, etc. Finally, he convinced me to give him another chance and three years later we are husband and wife. We will be married a year this December, so, yes, it happens.
2007-10-01 07:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ida T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will always remember when I first saw my now wife of 10 years. I thought she was married and the way she strutted around inside her dispensary (she is a chemist) and looked really strict and stern. Boy! I thought to myself,"imagine being married to her, I'll bet she has her husband right where she wants him and the kids wouldn't put a foot out of line, she would run her house with military precision, everything at home would be in its place" we eventually got to talking and she told me she wasn't married and we grew on each other. we are both happily married and yet we both laugh about it today as sometimes first impressions can be so wrong. We met while we were both working overseas in papua New Guinea and married there. She is really very soft and sweet and I'm lucky I have her!
2007-10-01 07:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by mandbturner3699 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My current girlfriend of 3 years (working on making her my fiancée). We hated each other at first. She thought I was a player, I thought she was a stuck up prude. We got to know each other and realized we had misconceptions about each other. She was so sweet and she realized I wasn't a player trying to get in her pants.
We talked a lot and became good friends by hanging out on college campus, walking through the park, sitting on a park bench on a sunny day. Hardly ever going out at night. This showed her that I truly cared about her. We didn't touch at all, not even hands for at least a year. We would talk for hours on end about life, social issues, religion, family, our career and life aspirations. I asked her for her favorite things: color, pets, food, drink, clothes, favorite place to visit, where she would like to go.
I can say over the last 3 years I have been giving her gifts that include all of those things that she told me about, which of course makes her feel loved because it shows i was paying attention back and then and still remember.
As long as that person is not looking below your eyes, is not constantly wanting to hang out at places where YOU know for a fact people go hoping to get laid - club, late night booty dancing. Why I say daylight? Anything that involves great conversation, you can learn so much more about another person if you aren't kissing each other half the time not knowing if they are the one.
We didn't get kiss for a year after we started officially dating. I'm telling you the attraction to each other is incredible. We adore each other.
Time and patience. Get to know them for who they are, realize if you will get bored of them over time and you'll know if you are good.
2007-10-01 07:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by thelatin82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love tends to accumulate after well spent time together. However, I do wish to state that love also develops into responsibility which also helps with the Bonding. Sometimes just touching other skin could test your real feelings. Don´t sum it up yet !!!!!!
2007-10-01 07:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex and I were friends for four years before we began dating. And then, one day we were sitting in our history class and I looked at him and thought, 'wow, he's hot'. Apparently he thought the same and we ended up going out for over a year. It was really cool actually, because we already knew exactly what the other person was like so we didn't have to hide anything from each other or anything like that.
2007-10-01 07:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and da guy {fernando}dat im dating, well we met 3 or 4 years ago.... i had recently had left my ex husband... i wanted to make friends and go and party. Well i have a friend {angela} that i stared to go wit alot, well one night she called him so we can all hang out da guy {fernando} dat im now dating we met and became friends, i gave him my num.... but once again i didnt want to have a relationship. So we met up again in my friends house just to chill about a year and 1/2 later, and for some odd reason i fell in love wit this guy... to me wen we met he wasnt attractive to me at the time but now it's different! I would have never thought me and da guys would date or anything, but im glad we met up again...... Things happend for a reason!!! Im sooo HAPPY!
2007-10-01 07:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on how the guy i became in love with felt approximately me. i'm certainly a fighter yet no component in battling for somebody that wasnt fascinated. solar- Aquarius Moon- Pisces Venus- Pisces
2016-10-05 22:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by osazuwa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt fall in love with the guy, but I did start liking him alot. I met him on MYSPACE, he hit me up but I was really feeling someone else. Eventually me and the other guy stopped talking and the guy I really wasnt interested in was there to talk to me and called me and stuff. He ended up being really sweet
2007-10-01 07:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i have not and i want to know how that feels to be in love with some one that you DId not like at firs. but yeah i start going with someone that i thought that i would never go with
2007-10-01 07:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by kendra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, love is a strong word, you can't fall in love w/ a person you hardly know. i have to like the person first before i fall in love w/him. don't misuse the word "love"
2007-10-01 07:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Adrienne L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋