Girls I need your advice, end of the date move the other night???

Question

I went on a first date with a girl the other night and I wanted some people persepctive about how it ended, especially a girls perspective. I met her in a parking lot that was half way and we drove to dinner in my car. We went to a nice sushi place, the conversation was good and after dinner I was getting a good vibe from her and the date as a whole. Afterwards we met her friends and her friends new BF to see a movie. Before the movie we shared a bowl of ice cream and talked and once again I was getting good vibes. During the movie we obviously didnt talk much but even then we said a few jokes back and forth. Towards the end of the movie I was thinking this was going well and was planning to ask her on a 2 date when I droped her off. BUT after the movie when walking back to my car she says shes tired and asks if its ok if she just goes with her friend cause she'll crash at her place, hugs me, says its been fun and takes off. So is this over? Should I let it go or call her???

Answer 1

Oh, call her if you feel like it. There isn't a book somewhere that says EXACTLY what she's supposed to do at each moment of a date, and if there IS one, she hasn't read it.

Assuming that she's over 21 and able to make her own decisions, why do you care if she's too tired to drive home and wants her friends to help her?

Answer 2

The girl could have been worried about what you might expect at the end of the date, and used crashing at her friends place as an excuse not to be put into an awkward situation. It could be that she does fancy you, but the only way you are going to find out is to call her, or even text her, and ask her out again. If she says no, then she has decided that you wont work together as a couple, so move on. If she says yes, then bear in mind that she might not be ready for a full-on relationship, and would rather take her time getting to know you. She may have really been tired. Just ask.

Answer 3

So first, you started off by parking lot pimping then you take her out to eat sushi---->yuck. Sorry, I am not a sushi fan =)
Dude, who shares ice cream with the unknown? I get kinda get grossed out just drinking from another person cup, unless it's your other half or someone you have dated for a while, or an extremely hot man..So is this over? is what over? Is all the ice cream gone or what? Should I let it go or call her? If you don't call her then you will never know....

Answer 4

She could have panicked. Depends on what kind of girl she is. Personally, I'm shy. So I panic with the whole end of the date part. I'm afraid of the kiss being awkward. I just freak a little. Doesn't mean anything necessarily that she went home with her girlfriend.

However, if when you call her and ask her out at a time where you know she is most likely free and she prevaricates, then it's over. If you say, "Wanna go to the fair on Saturday?" If she says she can't, well, that's no good. You didn't say what time on Saturday. It's unlikely that she is busy the WHOLE ENTIRE day.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Give her a call. It was your first date, sounds like you two had a pretty good time. The first date I had with my fiance, I had to cut short also due to work stuff...I felt bad but what could I do, I was actually surprised that he called me back for a second date but here we are two years later and getting married next June.

Also when you do call her back for a second date, don't do the movie dinner thing again...makes you seem repetitive and boring. My fiance and I live in San Francisco area and for our second date we walked across the golden gate bridge...I was hooked after that (very romantic).

Good luck.

Answer 6

in reaction on your question, as a woman i do no longer think in calling the guy after a date lol that would desire to be his activity. Now, while a guy waits those 3 days i discover it gets a splash strange, yet strategies you it somewhat is that in case you do no longer communicate on those 3 days. Now, the guy would desire to attend the three days for the subsequent date if the girl isn't asserting something if she makes obtrusive feedback or maybe brings it up herself, of course do no longer make lame excuses thinking you will desire to attend those 3 days. She looks extraordinarily involved and you will desire to text cloth her perhaps a "i additionally rejoiced" or merely undeniable hi. See the way it is going. stable success! (:

Answer 7

Wow - well that wasn't very polite. In my opinion, it seems like she used her friend as an escape in a way, or in a perfect world, she was just tired. So I would say call her to see what is going on? It seems weird to go to her friends, when she could have just gone home after you dropped her @ the car meeting place. Yah I would call her... no harm in trying.

Answer 8

Call her, why not? She didnt say it wasnt a good time! Dont think about it so hard honey, if you call and she's brushing you off or something, then I'd say "hey you might wanna reconsider this thing". But as of now, you seem like such a gentleman, call her and tell her you enjoyed her company and you'd like the chance to get to know her even more. I wish you the best!

Answer 9

She may have just wanted to hang out with her friend. I wouldn't not call her just because of this. I would call her and just say. "i had fun the other night and i was wondering if you want to go out again some time". It cant hurt, i mean she could only say no. I know rejection is no fun but you will regret not trying. Nothing comes to those who wait...........Give her a call.

Answer 10

I would definitely call her and ask her out for a second date. She may have just been tired from all the fun you two were having. :) Give her a call. The worst thing she could say is no.