my wife recently left on a saturday at 1pm and did not return hm until sunday at 4pm. she then admitted she and another girl went with 2 guys out of town and went out and then rented a double hotel room 4 the night. she and a guy on one side and the others on the opposite. she swears she didn't sleep with the guy however also admits she has some mixed up feelings 4 him bc she finds him interesting. then the other night I checked her text messages and found him writing her, telling her this "I'm going to bed now, all alone : (" What gives? I know I am wearing my blinders on this bc I know she had 2 have slept with him 4 him to say something like this. Ladies.... tell me what u think about this?
2007-10-01 02:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even if she didnt sleep with him (which i do find hard to believe), she betrayed your trust for her by going out with another man, by getting a hotel room with said other man, and at least lying in a bed with another man. That seems like reason enough to feel betrayed to me. Even she was honest about it, its at least something thats going to take some work on. She obviously is for some reason unsure of your marriage because shes having mixed up feelings about another guy, and continually communicating with after she knew she did something she knew was wrong.
I think you need to decide if you can trust her and where you want to go from here, I definitely suggest a long discussion and possibly couples therapy.
2007-10-01 02:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she went out of town with another man! That would be enough for me to open my eyes, wide. Second of all she's full of crap if she says they slept in different rooms. I'd say her and this guy have boned. I'm sorry to hear that, as I've been cheated on myself. The signs were there but I just kept my eyes closed. You deserve better than that. Tell her you did the same thing, but don't really. See how she likes it!
2007-10-01 02:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's some techniques that you will know if she is cheating on you asking yourself about this:
1- Did she look at your eyes when she told you about the hotel? if she is not she is lying to you, cause when someone lie needs to find some answer looking around the room to feel conftable telling you about it.
2- Did she swallows alot when she is talking to you? When she get nervous you will notice when she swallows alot her saliva.
3- Did she move some part of her body alot? When the person need to liberate the pressure because have to answer the question move constantly one part of her body alot.
4- Did she move her eyes away abrouptly? Is one of the techniques and don't feel in danger to catch her in the lie.
5- Did she answer you with another question when you make the question first? It means she don't will answer it bucause she did it.
2007-10-01 03:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Charmed_Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but she slept with him! clue #1 she went out of town with this guy. Clue #2 She has mixed up feelings for him. Clue #3 she finds him interesting Clue #4 the TEXT give it all away.
2007-10-01 02:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by BabyDoll8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think at this point, it's immaterial what she did on the phone.she stayed out more than 24 hrs and has admitted to being in a hotel room with another.
what gives? she does. to someone else. get out while the gettin's good.
2007-10-01 02:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She slept with him.
2007-10-01 02:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Spring 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she maybe cheated on you...lol..
you know what a guy want for a woman..?????... lol
if she cheated on you, do u want to forgive her..?? or move on with your life..lol
2007-10-01 02:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋