my boyfriend of 3 and a half months ased me this question last night ! is he trying to finish with me? how can i try prove to him were in love?! thanks x
2007-10-01 02:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by askkate2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If it needs proving, it aint there.
Love is unconditional. you either are in love or you're not, there is no middle ground.
2007-10-01 02:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's too early to say it's love after 3 and a half months, wait until you have been together for a long while, if he's asking you that maybe he not sure if it's working, and beside you shouldn't have to prove to him that you love him, it should just show, words are so easy to say. If he is asking you this in such a early stage what he going to ask when he been with you for a long while. Why don't you ask him, why he asked you that question? I have been with my husband for 9 year's and he never asked me that!!
2007-10-01 11:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are just now kind of entering that phase and we've been together for 5 years.
I like the other answers though....love is unconditional and unquestionable. If he loved you, with his whole heart he wouldn't be thinking that way...especially after only 3 months!
Now that doesn't mean he doesn't care about you...but let's try not to confuse caring with love. They are both very different.
Plus...since it's only been 3 months wouldn't it be better to find out these things now? Believe me, it's hell when you've spent 5 years together and start questioning if you should even be together
2007-10-01 11:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by InquiringMinds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the equivalent of asking a priest to prove the existence of god.
The only response I can give is:
Real love is unconditional it is not questionable. That is not to say that he does not love you..
Perhaps he holds you in such high regard it is hard for him to accept you feel the same way about him. Feelings of insecurity and self-esteem can create this issue. It can also lead to paranoia and issues of trust if it is not attended too. Try not to be hurt by his words but instead focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and reinforce that. Tell him what he means to you and what you love about him. This will give him the boost he needs.
Guru Nanak has spoken.
2007-10-01 09:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wayne Kerr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't prove to someone else that they're in love. that doesn't even make any sense. 3 1/2 months is pretty early to be in a comfort zone.
2007-10-01 10:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of early in this relationship for that question to be asked, but hey it happens. If you still want to be with him, just spice up the relationship a bit. Maybe he's, no offense, bored. Go out on random dates to random places, make love spontaneously, show him bits of affection, spruce it up!!! Make sure you guys talk too..ask him what he wants out of life, out of a relationship, etc.
2007-10-01 09:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by melly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 months you may not even be sure that it is love?!
2007-10-01 09:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he thinks too much, or .............. well I don't know. It's a weird question to ask after 3.5 in fact at any point.
2007-10-01 17:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by ZimHon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend of THREE>............how sweet
2007-10-01 09:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by **tomtom 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋