ok see i was dating this guy for like almost 5 yrs and well about 3 yrs ago he cheated on me and about 1 yr ago he got the girl pregnant. well we aren't together but he keeps telling me that he wants to be with me and wants me to be around the kid and that he don't want nothing to do with the mom. i still love him but i'm scared that if i go back to him i will get hurt. he was my 1st love and he hurt me so bad that i don't trust guys no more. i want to believe him but i don't know if i can. i haven't gotten over him creating a baby behind my back and i know deep down i would not be able to be around the child without wanting to hurt it. he tells me that his life isn't complete with out me and that he wants us to get married someday and have kids but i don't know. i'm confussed and don't know if i should give him another chance or not? what do u think? should i just leave him alone or go back and see if we can work things out?
2007-10-01 01:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by bluedevilsgirl07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay he is playing you for a fool, be smart don't do something stupid, that you will regret for the rest of your life.
2007-10-01 03:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you a would make a list of the good things that yall had together, and the bad things that happen in yall relationship. If the good out weighed the bad then try to give him one more chance. And let him know if he mess up again then there wouldn't be anymore chances. But If the bad out weighs the good then its best for you to try to move on. It wont be easy at all trying to move on, just keep your head up and move on with your life.
2007-10-01 11:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mama07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you half the time you were together, he'll keep cheating on you if you take him back. He's a liar. Leave him alone, find somebody who is not. It's just that simple.
2007-10-01 08:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by nkasoff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on searching and don't look back
2007-10-01 09:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by itsjunglepat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that its hard, but pls let your head (and not your heart) do the math.
2007-10-01 08:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by The Sage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else....so many others ard..y go after this cheat.....
2007-10-01 08:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by kopioh2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2007-10-01 09:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't he'll get you drunk and knocked up...
Trust me......
2007-10-01 09:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋