We have been together for almost 9 years. i want to take him for everything he has. this is a form of abuse to tell your wife you wish she would die? right?. i hope it will help the judge see things my way:)
2007-10-01 12:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by SouthernBelle504 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually there wasn't any fighting going on. it surprised me.
2007-10-01 12:35:31 · update #1
i think your husband is a selfish pig. because he said something so stupid please do not get bitter and do something that may cause you to loose your blessings. Why? Because he is so not worth it. now, what you should have done was placed your hand on his shoulder and said to him "you no what honey you are absolutely right i should be dead for messing around with a looser like you. and also little do you know to say something like that you are already dead. and then of course you smile and walk away! Trust me he would melt right away like candel wax.TRY IT!
2007-10-01 12:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by shini g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey, I hate to assert this, yet record for divorce and flow on. If he's continuously dishonest, and mistreating you and your children, the courting is already over. there is not any fixing a dirt bag. I wish there replaced into something else i might want to assert, yet on your sanity, you want to flow on alongside, and not seem decrease back. i wish this all works out for you. it might want to take a miracle, yet i'd favor to hearken to that you adult men were waiting to fix issues thoroughly. besides the undeniable fact that, actually, i do not see that happening. :/ tell him it is the only top straw, Your son is having major surgical procedure, and all he can do is cuss at you and carry up on you. tell him you're performed. tell him you'd be filing for divorce. perchance if he sees that he won't be able to easily take care of you want that, he will do a one hundred eighty.. yet like I reported, I doubt that in many circumstances is the case. I wish you each of the perfect.
2016-10-20 04:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think he was just very angry and opened his mouth before thinking about what he said. Am sure he really doesn't wish for you to die. Just let him know that it is a horrible thing for anyone to tell another; think before he speaks.
2007-10-01 12:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very strong statement and it worries me that he would say this to you. Do you have a restraining order on him? I would be afraid that if he feels angry enough to say that, he just might make it come true. I would be talking to the police and asking them what to do if you think he is being serious.
2007-10-01 12:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it was not a nice thing to say...I don't think it is a form of abuse....it was probably said out of anger.
2007-10-01 12:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was just really angry.
I mean, you've been with him for 9 years. so just roll your eyes and think 'oh brother'to yourself.
If however he said it with a certain... disgust.. then tell him truly that you really didn't like what he said to you.
ALWAYS be open in your relationship.
2007-10-01 12:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MEN ARE A@@HOLES ALL OF THEM...... IF YOU'VE BEEN WITH HIM 9 YEARS, YOU GUYS BOTH ARE ANNOYED BY EACH OTHER... AND HATE EACH OTHER FROM TIME TO TIME.. BUT REMEMBER...THE WAY IT USUALLY WORKS IS YOU TRADE IN THE ORIGINAL A HOLE AND GET ONE WORSE IN ITS PLACE. BE CAREFUL YOU MAY BE BETTER OFF WHERE YOU ARE AS LONG AS HE'S JUST AN AHOLE AND NOT ABUSING YOU. GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER.
2007-10-01 12:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by tammy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well...it's a terrible thing to say, but please think about 'taking him for everything he has'...that's awful. Worse than words. YOU will then be the bad guy. I know your emotional, but try to be fair and have compassion. It will serve you better.
2007-10-01 12:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by prekinpdx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there are two sides to every story. Especially when I hear that you want to "take him for everything he has".
2007-10-01 12:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Was this said before or after you decided to take him for everything he has??
2007-10-01 12:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by cautious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋