The man i've been talking to for almost a year, (we never really stated that we were official, but it IS a relationship nonetheless) called me today. I hadn't heard from him for a little over a week (give or take a few days) and to be honest his call was unexpected.
We had a normal conversation and after a while he brought up the fact that this month will mark a year since we met. I was genuinely surprised he brought that up. He really sounded different today, other times he'd be distant and I would have to poke for conversation, but he sounded so calm and relaxed, with so many things to talk about.
Are these some sort of signs that indicate he might be falling for me? I've already fallen for him.. Should I tell him? or is it too soon (soon as in i'll freak him out if I say it) Or should I take the leap and just let him know how I feel towards him?
2007-10-01 14:46:49 · 10 answers · asked by Patty melt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl he is falling for u, but I wouldnt tell him how I feel bout him till he tell me how he feel bout me
2007-10-01 14:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You state that you've been "talking to" him. Does this mean that you have never met? If this is the case, it sounds like time to set up a meeting.
If I am mis-reading your comment, ask him out on a date...dinner and a show. You'll soon have your answer.
2007-10-01 14:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him how you feel. Just let things develop naturally. If you think he's starting to feel more comfortable about you, a sure way to make things uncomfortable is to have a "relationship conversation."
2007-10-01 14:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by nondescript 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats tough. id say hes falling for you..cuz hes acting dif from when he used to right? i say tell him..you only live once..but dont stress over telling him or how he`ll feel about it i mean hes common that he`ll feel the same about u but if he dont its alright but atleast he knows where u stand in the relationship..but give it time..when ur ready tell him..dont hurry up and say it just cuz ur feeling it now..take ur time to tell him..when ur readyy..good luck hun
2007-10-01 14:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no... you should wait a little longer...
really this "relatfionship" that you are in should be based on true feelings... if you are concerned with him falling for you... then you aren't in a "relationship"....
holy crap did he actually remember a date? most men forget things like this... birthdays, anniversaries, their own kid's names... etc... its good that he remembered... its better that he brought it up....
its too bad that you doubt yourself...but i think youll be fine....
2007-10-01 14:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by GamersEye 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's been a year what do you mean too soon go for it if it works great if not then you know a can move on
good luck
2007-10-01 14:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by Eric M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, tell him how you feel. Most if not all people always want to know if someone likes/loves them.
2007-10-01 14:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by H S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
start dropping hints his way. if he does like you, which i am pretty sure he does, he will pick up on those really fast. and boom, an established relationship in no time
2007-10-01 14:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by The Giver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and be honest ayear is along time maybe not enough to get married but reationship yes
2007-10-01 14:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by mushroom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a year, that pretty full on, tell him.
Hope i helped
2007-10-01 14:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋