Family & Relationships - 1 October 2007

I cry during sex.

2007-10-01 17:56:11 · 1 answers · asked by Emo Soul 1 in Singles & Dating

When I 1st got married I had a brief affair 14 years ago for a month!
I broke it off when I realized that I was hurting my marriage, but it was too late my husband found out and wanted to divorce me. We separated and a lot of counseling we got back together, in fact I think our marriage was even better then before because we really had to work at it.

One of the thing I had to promise was NEVER to see or call , or contact the O/man, and if contact was made inform my husband straight away and be honest about it.

This is the problem because of what I do ( investment negator) I found myself working with the o/man for past 6 weeks, and because I did not want to give up my commission (110K) for half a years work I did not inform my husband.
He has every right to be angry I know but nothing happen it was all business!

My husband found out and got a Legal separation and I can't stand the thought of losing him because of money what can I say to him to rebuild the trust I through out?

2007-10-01 17:55:10 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so heres the deal, 12 years ago I walked out of my ex's life for good! He tracked me down a couple of days ago. We have been talking and we both think we still love each other. Problem is, 1 we have been apart for a long time. 2. I just let my ex move back in, Any suggestions?

2007-10-01 17:51:49 · 12 answers · asked by Dnaleri 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I lied to my boyfriend about drinking. He thinks I have never been drunk before in my life. And I actually have but only once. Should I tell him I lied or just keep quiet about it?

2007-10-01 17:51:07 · 12 answers · asked by Paigeykinns 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he do not hear my speaking?

2007-10-01 17:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So why does everyone on yahoo answers go on and on about how sex is for married people only? I mean, if marriage is about LOVE and not just sex, what does it matter if one enjoys the pleasures before they tie the knot for the rest of their life? Shouldn't the man, woman, love their spouse for who thay are, and not for the cherry or virginal pieces?

2007-10-01 17:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by lirpa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

she wants to get away from her bf and she wants me to help her, thing is, her bf will probaly start fighting. do i do it?ps i love the girl to death.

2007-10-01 17:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can suffering from depression make you feel distant from your partner and make you feel as though you have no love?

2007-10-01 17:46:10 · 8 answers · asked by jeremy_scherr531 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My younger brother was married last year. Not too long ago my siblings and I threw a party for our parents' anniversary. An oversight on our part we forgot to invite his mother in law. Now they are upset with us for not inviting her. Are we obliged to invite her to family celebrations? If I decided to throw a birthday party for my dad for example do I have to invite her? I know it would be a nice thing to do but is it obligatory?

2007-10-01 17:45:14 · 7 answers · asked by r2sue2 3 in Family

friends for years and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with BUT "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made you us drift apart and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)

We're in the process of being close friends again...In the beginning when we first met, we "clicked' right away and could be able to talk to each other about anything and everything. We would always see each other in and out of classes, have lunch, and talk to each other almost every night. That was 3 years ago and obviously, THINGS change, PEOPLE change, and we change but it's not that we're growing apart - we're just growing up while adjusting to all this change...
It's different and i get scared that we'll lose our "closeness" but someone told me, "true things are never lost..." CAN WE STILL DO OUR OWN THING AND BE CLOSE? We used to talk all the time and now we don't call each other; not sure if it's a "guy thing" where they stop talking on the phone, we're both busy, or he's changed alot from the his friend's death...i'm sorry i'm just venting - THOUGHTS? I'd really appreciate it! THANKS

2007-10-01 17:45:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Grandparents credit card debt is left, who is liable for that debt? Is there a statue of limitations on that debt in Texas? Should i hold out the amount of the debt from inheratance payable to heirs?

2007-10-01 17:42:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

because i always was the best on my team.
i am a junior and way to busy. but he wants me to try out because i was so good. i use to love soccer but i am more concern about my grades.
so should i try out?
or should i just work on making my grades better, they arent that great.
should i do it to make him happy, because i would love to play soccer but i just have to much stress in my life with family and school
and im also getting ready for colleges and the SAT's

2007-10-01 17:40:45 · 7 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Family

I know my man once flirted with this younger girl before behind my back a few yrs ago. And I also know that before we hooked up, he cheated on almost all his other gfs. But we've been living 2gether for 4 years now...could he have changed? He was in his teens when he cheated on all those other girls, now he's 24.
Can I trust him?

2007-10-01 17:40:15 · 28 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating

permitted you to give his consent to build-up extra-marital affair in your choice, would you go for it or instead deny yourself to enjoy your sex life because you respect him to much?

I had to ask this question to know how people react on the situation of two spouses. They were married happily less than 10 years and blessed with a son. The husband has been incapable to entercourse to his young pretty wife due to car accident. He love and understand his wife too much and he instead persuaded his wife to find ways to enjoy her sex life to find a guy in her choice. He promised he still love her and never been jealous if she let him watch as they make love and if they use the guest room for their lovemaking.

2007-10-01 17:32:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I felt that I failed to guide them through the right direction because I'm to lenient to them.

2007-10-01 17:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I never know what to get him for his birthday. He has lots of clothes and shoes . He doesnt need any jewlery or anything like that. im so frustrated!!! help me his birthday is in 3 days.

2007-10-01 17:23:45 · 10 answers · asked by avilax5 2 in Family

Ok so I’m super good friends with this guy named John. We went out like 3 years ago, but it was just kinda modest. I didn’t fall for him or anything. But now I’m dating my current boyfriend and have been for 8 months now. We both have fallen in love with each other. But he thinks I have too much of a “special bond” with John. Honestly I don’t like John at all, he’s just always been there, I’ve cried on his shoulder many of times. He’s my good friend, and I’m in love with my boyfriend. But he’s worried that John and I have something more going on, since one of John’s text messages said “I love you” to me. Which my boyfriend saw and got worried. John has told me before that he really really likes me, and has for a while…
How do I convince my boyfriend there is nothing going on with John and i?

2007-10-01 17:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need i deas for my wedding motiff

2007-10-01 17:21:28 · 8 answers · asked by noshie07 1 in Weddings

hes extremely busy thats why he only calls me once or twince during the week....but we meet every weekend and I know hes not cheating on me....
when we talk about the phone issue he says hes not a phone person and his conversations with friends r usually 3 mins long
but in ALL my past relationships talking on the phone has been VITAL...so this bothers me alot...
how IMPORTANT is talking on the phone in relationships????
(we've been together 8months and he talks about marriage , we r both 25.)

2007-10-01 17:14:22 · 9 answers · asked by kera 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 17:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by S C 1 in Singles & Dating

Yeah theres this guy, a close fren, nothing much..apparently last weekend he wanted to watch movie but i wasnt in...didnt ask me straight but came a few time to my house tht day to find me...got to know this from my housemate, which is a guy..but whts confusing me is that at the same time he asked my housemate to go together with us which is rather confusing me..

when im finally back tht nite, he keep asking where ive been and why didnt i invite him..and suggested we go the next day for the movie..unfortunately ive another appoinment the next day...so in the end he decided not go anymore.

the question is,if he likes me more then a fren then why drag my housemate together? if he dont like me, then why keep finding for me to go together..he can always go with my housemate or with other people?any answers?

2007-10-01 17:11:45 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie Y 3 in Singles & Dating

ok am just kinda frustrated right now so please read and tell me if am just wasting my time on this guy..PLEASE.Ok so this guy and I used to talk and we both liked eachother and even went out and hung out at my house a few times but we never did anything..not even kiss. I have never been in a serious relationship and am 20(he's 20 too). Anyway so one day I finally asked this guy where "we" were going with "us" and he said he had something to figure out with his ex..that got me kinda confused so I didnt call him until he called me one random day(2/3 weeks later) and I really was TRYING to get over him so I was being sorta mean..so that convo ended pretty fast. So anyway, about 2 weeks went by again and we hadnt spoken until I called him to thank him for the B/day gift he sent me which then got me thinkiing 'why would he send me a gift if he didnt want anything to do with me?' ..that convo was better than our last but I cut it short cause I honestly didnt know the right words to say...

2007-10-01 17:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Cilantro 5 in Singles & Dating

well, i am 18, she's either 19 or 20...
so...
what's your opinion?

2007-10-01 17:07:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanted to know if love in the movies is like that in real life like all the passion and the beautiful relationships.. is love like that or is it one of those things u just see at the movies?

2007-10-01 17:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by cheli_luvr24 3 in Singles & Dating

do guy's really like skinny girl's with no boob's or butt no shape or would they rether a lil bit chuckyer girl with big boobs and a nice butt with a gr8 shape im lost what do they like better

2007-10-01 17:04:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so we were jsut frineds, going to the clubs on the weekend and things hanging out ( alone and with friends ) so one night he stayed over and we had sex. this was going on for over a month. so last saturday i called his cell phone and another boy anwserd. said for me to stop caling his boyfreinds cell phone and that they were together for over a YEAR! i was soo hurt i loved this guy and he did this too me. when i first found out it was like 3am and i cried untill almost 7am i have never been so hurt by any otehr guy like this before and i cant get him off of my mind. as i am wrighting this right now i am crying. its jsut im so hurt and confused.. i need advise pleaseeeee :'(

2007-10-01 17:04:26 · 4 answers · asked by david_johnson_04 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-01 17:01:46 · 5 answers · asked by ted_ard2 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy gabriel that i am currently talking to is 18 i am 16 we have not had sex but we have dryfucked which some of you may know but some may not we've done this once and messed around several times. last time i talked to him was two days ago and he said he thinks about me everyday and he wants to call me but he knows my parents don't like him. is he making excuses?? we don't get to see each other very much so when we see each other we both get shy and then after about an hour we start talking more and more till one thing leads to another what should i do. please give me an honest answer. i love this guy more than anything and he means the world to me. and i just want to know what is going on in his head.

2007-10-01 17:00:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-01 16:54:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in that way only problem is I dont see her that way what should I do if she tells that she likes me

2007-10-01 16:54:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships