permitted you to give his consent to build-up extra-marital affair in your choice, would you go for it or instead deny yourself to enjoy your sex life because you respect him to much?
I had to ask this question to know how people react on the situation of two spouses. They were married happily less than 10 years and blessed with a son. The husband has been incapable to entercourse to his young pretty wife due to car accident. He love and understand his wife too much and he instead persuaded his wife to find ways to enjoy her sex life to find a guy in her choice. He promised he still love her and never been jealous if she let him watch as they make love and if they use the guest room for their lovemaking.
2007-10-01 17:32:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it will be perfectly OK. If my husband can not perform, sure I have a right to get it from some where else!! If it is understood between the husband and wife it should not be others issue. Sex is very important for health and happy life. When u try to satisfy U r self with other methods its never complete satisfaction. A man is never equivalent to a toy or tongue!!
Humans are not monogamous by nature. Over 60 percent ppl cheat in their relationship.
2007-10-01 19:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you women are crazy. if your husband couldn't perform you would cheat. bottom line no doubt about it. it would not mean that you don't love him. I think to jump out there and say (hell no I wouldn't do that) is stuipid. what if you were a 25 yr. old woman.are you trying to tell me you are going to give up sexual contact for the rest of your life. he probably would just use the guy as a live sex toy. that is why he wants to watch and fantasize that he is doing it.
2007-10-02 15:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I couldn't do it. I love my husband to much. And I wouldn't want to set that example for my kids, they know everything that goes on even if their parents don't think they do.
Sorry but they make toys for things like that, and I would find some way to still be close to my husband.
2007-10-02 00:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by cris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love sex would not be that important and you can have other types of sex. i would never bring another person into the relationship. My husband would be the only person I would be with. That is the point of marriage.
2007-10-02 00:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by <Carol> 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that there are other ways toys movies fingers mouth, that you can satisfy your wife without bringing in another person. what would be the difference if they werent well endowed or no longer physically attracted....if everyone decided to have another person if they werent sexually satisfied most people would have a lover on the side. would you really feel comfortable having sex with someone;s spouse while their disabled spouse watched..........
2007-10-02 00:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she does not have to engage in extramarital affairs just to satisfy herself. if she truly loves her husband and wants to remain married and true to him, she can satisfy her sex life in many ways besides having sex with another man.
hes probably so low and out if he suggested such a thing. i dont think he wont get hurt if he sees some guy making love to his wife. i think any rational man would be very jealous and hurt and mad if he watches them have sex, to think that hes not capable of satisfying his wife.
the future of their marriage depends on the wife's decision now.
2007-10-02 01:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by bubblebiatch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never sleep with another guy if I loved my husband, even if he was paralysed. I know deep down in his heart he would be hurt. He sounds like a really selfless guy, wanting to please his wife above himself. There are so many other ways for her to obtain sexual release than with another partner.
2007-10-02 00:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry you marry in sickness & in health. If my husband could not perform his husbandly duties, I would stand right beside him. Sex is not the source of the marriage, love is.
2007-10-02 00:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well thats just wrong in my book.. she can enjoy sex with his hands and tongue and toys.. why would you want to go outside of the marriage.. it will ruin it for sure up the road..she could go and fall in love with someone else and end up leaving him anyway.. its something they should work out between them selfs. good luck
2007-10-02 00:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. I took wedding vows, to love honor and cherish my husband... for better or worse.
Permission or not, I would still feel guilty, that I would be cheating and breaking my vows to my husband.
2007-10-02 00:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by linda_c_44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋