Ok so heres the deal, 12 years ago I walked out of my ex's life for good! He tracked me down a couple of days ago. We have been talking and we both think we still love each other. Problem is, 1 we have been apart for a long time. 2. I just let my ex move back in, Any suggestions?
2007-10-01 17:51:49 · 12 answers · asked by Dnaleri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I left him because, I was young and stupid, didn't know how to deal with comitment
2007-10-01 18:00:32 · update #1
wow might be to soon to have him move back in already.. you really don't even know this man anymore after that many years.. just cause you was with him yrs ago don't mean its a good idea to move him in then find out hes still the same way and nothings changed but your ages. i hope it works out for you but i do think you've moved on this way to fast. i would of wanted to get to know him better by dating him for a while so you could see how he interacts now days with you.. either way i wish you luck
2007-10-01 18:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years is a long time, but if neither of you has hooked up with anybody else then there must still be a spark of love there. If you Love something set it free if it come back then it was meant to be. Take your time get to know him all over again and follow your heart. Time can bring about a change.
Now if you just let your ex move back in then you seem to be having trouble already, so If you think that you really LOVE your Ex husband give it a try. Just take your time and make sure that things are right this time around. Pray about him and God will lead you in the right direction.
GOOD LUCK
2007-10-02 01:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by LovelyChoc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did he track you down is my first thought? For security so he can sit on his butt and let you work! This Man is there for a reason Miss. He was denied by another Women and you have taken the bait. Wrong move..........What is even worse what new habits has he brought into your life that you are not aware of? To the curb..........
2007-10-02 01:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you have both grown up a lot? I still am in love with the love of my life and haven't seen her sence Dec 20, 1975.
2007-10-02 01:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not an expert in this area, but I would have to say no.
What you are feeling is probably nastalgia. There is a difference.
But I do believe you can fall back in love with someone. If you give it a chance.
2007-10-02 01:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depend on what happen to make you part for 12 years.
if it can work out then any thing is possible but dont rush back
in to something . he was an ex for a reason
2007-10-02 01:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't fade with time. If your present circumstances in life allows you to be together again, why not?They say love is sweeter the second time around.
2007-10-02 00:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Libay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's weird. I don't think I'd let my ex move in. You could have at least dated or something first. Are you broke or desperate?
2007-10-02 01:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on why you left in the first place. if he was a jerk then you might be in trouble. if it just wasn't working it's probably worth a shot. good luck!
2007-10-02 00:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOUR FEELING MAY NOT BE LOVE BUT EMOTIONAL FEELINGS YOU HAD FOR HIM IN THE PAST.
I THINK YOU CAN ALWAYS HAVE A LOVE FOR SOMEONE, BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN IT WILL WORK.
2007-10-02 00:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by kathy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋