thought i was dating this guy for over a MONTH when he had a boyfreind for over a YEAR! HELP PLEASE :'(?

Question

ok so we were jsut frineds, going to the clubs on the weekend and things hanging out ( alone and with friends ) so one night he stayed over and we had sex. this was going on for over a month. so last saturday i called his cell phone and another boy anwserd. said for me to stop caling his boyfreinds cell phone and that they were together for over a YEAR! i was soo hurt i loved this guy and he did this too me. when i first found out it was like 3am and i cried untill almost 7am i have never been so hurt by any otehr guy like this before and i cant get him off of my mind. as i am wrighting this right now i am crying. its jsut im so hurt and confused.. i need advise pleaseeeee :'(

Answer 1

Well nobody like to find out like that or find that someone they love is cheating on them, but the reality of it all is that if he really cared about you, he would have been up front with you from the beginning. Since he wasn't then hurt him by being the bigger person and move on. Don't be his little sex puppet. You're in control now, the ball is in your court. Play the game and win. Move on, let him go. It hurts now, but when you meet someone better, it's all worth it. Good luck!

Answer 2

There are some wicked people in this world. Just be glad that you had not invested more time into the relationship. I am so sorry this had to happen to you. In time you will find the right partner for you. Take care.

Answer 3

That could have been his pissed off roommate trying to get you to have some consideration for other peoples sleep schedules. Why dont you call and ask at a reasonable time?

Answer 4

talk to the individual directly. in person if possible, could be a huge prank or sick game to someone who got ahold of the cell phone.