friends for years and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with BUT "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made you us drift apart and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)
We're in the process of being close friends again...In the beginning when we first met, we "clicked' right away and could be able to talk to each other about anything and everything. We would always see each other in and out of classes, have lunch, and talk to each other almost every night. That was 3 years ago and obviously, THINGS change, PEOPLE change, and we change but it's not that we're growing apart - we're just growing up while adjusting to all this change...
It's different and i get scared that we'll lose our "closeness" but someone told me, "true things are never lost..." CAN WE STILL DO OUR OWN THING AND BE CLOSE? We used to talk all the time and now we don't call each other; not sure if it's a "guy thing" where they stop talking on the phone, we're both busy, or he's changed alot from the his friend's death...i'm sorry i'm just venting - THOUGHTS? I'd really appreciate it! THANKS
2007-10-01 17:45:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You'll meet alot of "friends" in your life but when you go through hard times, you'll realize all those "friends" were really aquiantances and there's only 2 left that are really there for you...
he's one of them...he's one of those "closest" friends...and i knew from day 1
Or maybe he doesn't know how to act because we "got together' and kissed? Or maybe there are still feelings?
Is this because we're growing up and maturing? (not growing apart)?
2007-10-01 17:45:45 · update #1