i wanted to know if love in the movies is like that in real life like all the passion and the beautiful relationships.. is love like that or is it one of those things u just see at the movies?
2007-10-01 17:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by cheli_luvr24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can be like that for a while...but the 'full-on' spark & passion can fade over the years if you're not careful.
2007-10-01 17:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by emskimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is different for everyone. if you had to take someone's courtship and falling in love and cram it into an hour and a half movie designed to make people feel emotional it is obviously going to seem more perfect than real life because they cut out the less fun parts of a relationship.
you are also thinking about romantic movies- there are movies that show awful relationships too.
I know this will sound lame but if you want a good idea of love you should turn to the bible(i know- sounds crazy)
1 corinthians 13 describes what love means to me- you don't have to be religious to appreciate it because it is pretty nondenominational and general- I'm not even religious!
1 If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.
3 And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant,
5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered,
6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away.
9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part;
10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away. 11 When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things.
12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known.
13 But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.
2007-10-02 00:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The movies make things seem diff. then they really are. Like in movies it kind of shows that if a girl gives a guy sex, that is the way to his heart. But in real life it is the complete opposite, he will lose all interest if you give it to him before marriage. That is just an example!
2007-10-02 00:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ritaaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not like in the movies. but love is still wonderful...it's both better than in movies and takes more work than the movies show....but remember it takes two people and unless both people work at it, then it won't be what you are wanting. love can be amazing!
2007-10-02 00:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies!
They ruin everything. Trying to make everything awesomer. The only thing that isn't awesome in the movies is the .... yeah lol.
2007-10-02 00:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not like the movies but when you meet your true love you will no it i meet my love 26 years ago as i walked into a store for a coke !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! at that time i was not even thinking of or looking for any one so that tells you that you never no were you will meet that someone just for you ! good luck and god blass
2007-10-02 00:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be if you take the time for each other --- fall in love again and again ---- rekindle the passion as often as possible ---- actually i suspect that it will be better than the movies ---- best wishes
2007-10-02 00:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is what u make it. love is different for everyone.but yeah true love is simply amazing.
2007-10-02 00:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by brittany m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it can be like that. but it is hard to find.
2007-10-02 00:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋