I don't know if this is just my girlfriend or all girls, because I've only been with 1 girl ever.. but do all girls have HUGE moodswings everyday?? One minute she hates me, the next she loves me, and the next she wants to kill herself. I dont know if this is normal or not, and its scaring me and I dont like it. I would understand if she was having mood swings during her period or pms, and i know that girls have a hard time during that part of the month.. but this is happeneing everyday. is this normal at all?
2007-10-01 18:08:05 · 21 answers · asked by Maxwell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She just got on birth control about 3 months ago.. could that be part of it?
2007-10-01 18:17:07 · update #1
sometimes it is. but not EVERYDAY!!
2007-10-01 18:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the pms thing most of the time is just an excuse to be a b****. This isnt normal. Normal is maybe there being a fight that she was mad about but then you kiss and make up and every things ok. That should be the only significant change in mood if any. Thats very weird. Maybe she has bipolar disease or is mentally depressed. Or maybe she likes being different throughout the day driving you through a crazy roller coaster!!
2007-10-01 18:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bella ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This is not normal behavior for a woman. It could be that your girlfriend needs help. Depending upon how you feel and if you can bring the subject up to her, she may want to go to counseling. It sounds like she has some form of depression to me, but I'm not a therapist. I just know from friends of mine who have also experienced mood swings like what you are describing.
Just make sure that you are very supportive as you bring up the idea of counseling. Explain to her that you love her (if you do in fact love her) and that you want to help her through the horrible feelings. If she truly feels like she wants to kill herself, then she really should go into counseling ASAP.
You are obviously a nice and caring boyfriend, but she might need to talk things out with someone who is impartial and who can give her advice on how to help herself.
Good luck!
2007-10-01 18:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Natalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman due tend to be emotional but your girlfriend sounds like she's having bigger problems than just her hormones. She may suffer from depression and unless someone has evaluated her she herself may not know she has a problem. The whole hating you one day and loving you the next could be chalked up as immaturity, but wanting to take her life is not normal!You didn't mention her age but if the two of you are still in school a guidance counselor could be a help. First i would try encouraging her to seek support through a counselor or parent. However, if she's unwilling and you fear for her safety don't hesitate to go to her parents or school counsler yourself. This could be one of the best things you do for her. If you care as much as it sounds like than definately get her to seek professional help.
2007-10-01 18:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by horsewhisperer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have a brain the same size as men, the problem is that 50% of their thought process is influenced by the female hormones that create different emotions, and logic is completely lost.
I like girls physically but not mentally, that's why I don't have female friends.
2007-10-01 18:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by avillax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds extreme but it could be a mental thing. Most girls are not that bad.How old is she, what is her home life like? There can be many things causing this.She may really need help. Just don't let her get mean with you. You may have to break up with her if it keeps up.Have you tried to talk to her?
2007-10-01 18:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ava 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not normal! There might be something else going on with your sweety. She should be seen by her physician. Is she aware of her moods? I had similar symptoms and I had a few tests run and found out what my problem was. It was taken care of and I am alright!
Good luck to you and your sweety!
2007-10-01 18:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by marti_woody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like she is bipolar or something because that doesn't sound very normal to me maybe she needs to talk to a councler or something because she has some kind of problem and she needs some kind of help before she does try to kill herself i know she would probaly get mad at you for this but she will get over it soon enough tell her parents so maybe they can get her some type of help i wish u the best of luck and if you need some one to talk to im here for you
2007-10-01 18:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by jolynn c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes mood swings are normal, but they seem a bit excessive. I'd get her to talk to someone
2007-10-01 18:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Emma S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we do have moodswings...but it sounds like hers may be a bit excessive...I'll admit I'm a bit moody myself from time to time...but if her moodswings are severe, and may threaten her own safety - tell her parents or yours...or someone...
Good luck! :)
2007-10-01 18:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by swampysgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it happens to all girls, Ive been there in those moody days and still going through them lol
But really, we do love our lovers. We just stay away from them so dont take our angry out on them when we're pmsing..
2007-10-01 18:11:40 · answer #11 · answered by Becca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋