I think i'm ok looking guy. tall, into sports, smart. But why can't i find a girl? Please don't say you haven't found it yet or it'll happened. because I been looking and rejected by girls for almost 3yrs. I wanna know what i'm doing wrong.
2007-10-01 18:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem and I am good looking. I have seen that in order to hook up with girls it doesn't matter if you are smart, athletic, rich or good looking. That won't help if you don't know how to seduce.
Some people are natural at seduction, I have known some people that have learned to seduce through sites such as www.fastseduction.com, that has helped me to get some succes, such as making up at bars and clubs, but I still have to work on my phone game as it is called, because a girl wont go out with you if you're not good on the phone.
It's sad how women don't get that there are so many hjandsome, cool guys out there, that just don't know how to seduce.
In fact a guy who is always attractive to girls, always cheats on them, and a guy who just want one girl, never gets even one.
2007-10-01 18:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by avillax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 10:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Martin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you may not be doing anything wrong at all. Ima tell you what I tell every person I give advice to that are single. If you havent tried this approach please try it and see how it works. Okay from now no dont go out in to the world searching for a girlfriend. Go and search for girls that you think can be kool friends. So many people start relationships off from being friends. Why? Well when you are friends with the opposite sex. You tend to be comfortable, if you go into it trying to attract each other it isnt going to work because you dont let your true colors shine. Well anyways when you find some female friends, just talk and find out about each other, learn what her likes and dislikes are in guys or just certain people. Find out what type of guys she has dated in the past, and what made the relationship not work. You can then get a feel of what type of person she is and what type of guy she wants. Anyways thats the best that I can do. Its all up to you. I wish you the best of luck. And I dont know if this helps not all girls look on the outside. Me from what you listed thats what I look for. The way you carry yourself, your self confidence. Its more attractive then bicepts although they may add to your appearence but it doesnt define you. Anyways good luck. email me if you have any questions
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2007-10-01 18:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by seximami110206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone my friend. I am 35 years old, single , never been married, and no children. I have been on the same trail as you. I am nice, very well educated having graduated from a top tier University and have been an executive for a Fortune 100 company for nearly 6 years. I seem to have very good looks becuase I have been told that by many women who were very attractive as well as some actresses that I grew up with that are on prime tive television now. I have escorted them to events before. I still have not found a girlfriend or at least someone whom I could get that close to. I have gotten close to a few girls but we always end up in the friend zone. I won't lie to you it kind of sucks when you put any effort into a project just to see some LOSER get the girl. They always want to date a loser for some reason. It's alright though I know I am a great person with a lot going for me. If the LORD means for me to have someone in my lifetime I will if not SO BE IT !!!! Some of us are put on this earth for greater things and can not stop the evolution of ourselves or what the LORD put us on this earth for. You might be the next President of the U.S. 30 years down the road. You might be a great entertainer like ELVIS 20 years down the road you just never know what the LORD has in store for you. Hold your head up high, shoulders back, and chin out be proud of who you are. Because there is only one of you on earth and that makes you special. Remember I am in the same boat. Hope you find the one you are looking for and I don't have much FAITH in AMERICAN WOMEN for the most part anymore. Remember you just aren't LOSER ENOUGH !!! :)
2007-10-01 18:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Joe A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre looking in the wrong place, or more likely, at the wrong kinda girls. do the online dating thing. maybe you can get more into a conversation that way and really get to know them first. maybe youre not confident enough. i mean, girls like a guy whos respectful, but they also like to have their butt grabbed when the time is perfectly right. lol, just dont get that time wrong or youll hate it. maybe get some new clothes and a new haircut. just get the brad pitt hair, and some button down shirts or something. get some cologne. girls look for your attitude and personality more closely than guys do at first. try not to come off as a rejected type guy. if youre confident, they will sense it. join a gym and jerk off more. get that testosterone pumping and take some pride in how you look. you dont wanna "think youre and ok looking guy"
you wanna be looking gooooooooooood. but yea, personality is the main thing, girls dont like guys who care too much. youve gotta loosen up and act more casual or they will feel the tension. but yea, felling better about yourself will help, i vote, haircut, gym, and maybe some new clothes. then look int the mirror and say hmmm, im looking a lot better lately, then go meet some girls when you feel like that
2007-10-01 18:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ricardus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont act too pushy on things or try and act like a friend.You have to be a gentleman and also hold a good conversation!! i love when guys are funny and know how to talk well. i dont like to be the only one talking. Dont be shy on things when a girl asks you things or try and ask for number right when you meet someone at a bar or wherever. And if a girl is busy she is busy dont go o yea ok, and other rude comments!! just be yourself and dont lie or be dishonest about anything , be up forward in everything so nothing is held in!
2007-10-01 18:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sxyblonde S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your trying too hard. You need to take control of your relationships and bait women into wanting your approval.
2007-10-01 18:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know you sound great whats you football team mine sucked this weekend
2007-10-01 18:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you dont alllow me to IM you so i wouldnt know....secound is because you are not with me...
2007-10-01 18:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to shy
2007-10-01 18:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋