about being shut out?

Question

ing changes. I am going crazy because I feel that because of all of this I could fall out of love with her and I see other women and am tempted because I feel so lonely and unloved but I love my boys so much I do not want to loose them or my beautifull house I built with my own hands. I have this cloud of saddness and dread hanging about me. I know what is happening in my life right now is alot and is very hard but why does it have to me so hard. how to get back on track and stop fighting in front of my beloved children and stop the negative compounding spiral driving us apart. I feel lost and hopeless at times. I feel as if she does not listen to any of my needs wants or desires and puts the children way before our relationship. even the dog before it. I am an attractive full of life person and I am suffocating under this stress. I need her comassion and love but it is as if she has nothing left to give

Answer 1

TALK to her. Having young children (or teenagers for that matter) makes a woman VERY tired. Tell her you are concerned that the marriage is falling apart. Tell her you want to save it. Ask her what she feels. You can turn it around but YOU will need to WORK at it. Good luck..

Answer 2

Print out a copy of this question and show it to her! You need to make her listen to you. If she cares, then she will try to work things out. Does she act like she wants a divorce?? If she is willing to speak to a counselor or a minister at your church, maybe that would work. I always find that if it is hard to say something out loud, then maybe you should write it in a letter. Take your time with it so you can be sure to include all you want to say
Good luck!

Answer 3

WHAT?? SHE PUTS THE KIDS NEEDS IN FRONT OF YOURS??? THE BITCHH! LOL

Answer 4

pal when you find out let me know . my honest opion?