i don't think im ugly, but im not the "barbie" that are every were. is there anything i can do that could help me?
2007-10-01 13:45:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this is honest your probably a really gorgeous girl. Beauty is held within the naked eye. Which means everybody is pretty in their own way. But anyways at the age of 13 ya you want a boyfriend but you shouldn't want to have a boyfriend i mean what every girl wants is to be married right and all a boyfriend is, is a distraction trust me i know I'm only 2years older then you and i need to take my own advice. Because really boy stress is the worst because it makes you feel really low about yourself and it makes you cry. Now that's bad because most girls cry over boys instead of getting to go out on the weekend. So my advice to you is keep it casual first i mean having boyfriends are fun but you want to save yourself so keep it very casual. And when you do have a boyfriend don't rush into things because you'll get tired of each other and you can always be friends with benefits that's an option. sorry this is really long but just flirt a lot and be open minded and have a lot of options before you choose =]] good luck
2007-10-01 13:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by shae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm sure you are beautiful but don't hurry to get into the boyfriend thing it sounds cool and looks cool to all your friend but believe me you have a lot of time to think about boys concentrate on you school work and out door activity keep yourself busy join a club and when it's time Mr rite will be looking for you not the other way around I know the market is tough out there and the peer pressure is on but you don't have to be like all the others girls to be cool or a boy on your arm to make you cute and complete you do know that the boys or later men do appreciate a woman with a good head on her shoulders good luck don't rush
2007-10-01 20:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is actually funny to see someone say that they are 13 and never had a boyfriend/girlfriend. There was a time not long ago when it would have been a bigger deal if you did have one by 13.
2007-10-01 20:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. sweetie.. most people havent by that age.
i used to think i was a freak cuz i didnt have a boyfriend until i was 15.. as i grew up.. i realized that everyone felt the same.
its fine i promise. I wanst a freak.. i was a pretty popular girl.. and i felt just the same!
now im so happy i didnt date any younger then i did cuz the guys i dated after i was 15 were enough trouble lol!
2007-10-01 20:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by la428282 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it im 14 and i don't care if i have one or not u still have lots of time frankly i think some guy ain't worth the hassle i bet u look fine u just need to be ur self and every thing will fall into place soon enough.
2007-10-01 21:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by cris cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember this- all the cool and popular girls grow up to have lame lives- the ones that dont have alot of friends and boyfriends grow up to be really well educated and have more friends as adults. it really does turn out this way. and you are too young to focus so much on having some boyfriend. its not worth the energy.
2007-10-01 20:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alex, Sweety chill out and enjoy being young ! Life gets really hard once you begin the boyfriend, girlfriend thing !
2007-10-01 20:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry itll happen soon I just turned 16 and I started dating my first boyfriend aboout a week ago. Trust me theres nothhing special about it you can wait.
2007-10-01 20:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by katiehorta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy your life. You're young and you need to focus on school. not boys. You'll have plenty of time for that in the future!:O)
2007-10-01 20:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don't worry i know people who are 15 and haven't had boyfriends and they are very pretty and amazingly nice. my advice is that you put yourself out there a little more. talk to guys more and maybe flirt??
but i hope that helps
good luck!!
2007-10-01 20:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋