Friend got married and found out her husband was getting serious with his cousin which was in jail, and she was writing him back with the idea of hooking up, she read the letters.. and they are not blood kin, all happened before the marriage. After 7 months of marriage my friend finds a picture of this cousin in a sexual act.. unknown if it is her husband or some other guy.. the fact is it was a four-some, why would he keep that picture of this after the marriage. So they had a fight.. he burned the photo. Now the cousin is out of jail. My friend and her husband lives with his parents right now.. so she thinks this cousin will come to visit. My friend would love to kick the crap outta her, but that would bring the police and she would have an assault charge on her. I told her to make it clear to her husband that she would not be welcomed.. but the husband cannot see why.. he uses the excuse its still family. I think its BS. I ran out of things to tell my friend.
2007-10-01 10:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by leapfrog44 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is too stupid to know WHY, then she should not be with him. It's not having her over for RESPECT of his wife and tell your friend if her husband does want her over then it's her or the jail tramp. Tell him to choose.
2007-10-01 10:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've done a good job of trying to talk sense to your friend. But, sometimes stupid is a condition nobody can help with. I can't imagine my wife being silly enough to put up with this type of bologna. Face it, her hubby will probably socialize AT LEAST with his sweet? cousin. I agree his idea that he should be around cousin, cuz she's family is BS. But, it's bs that your friend is apparently buying. You've done all you can reasonably do. Wish your friend luck. She, and the marriage certainly need it.
2007-10-01 11:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help her any more and you shouldn't. It is now between her husband and her. You should stay out of it..
2007-10-03 11:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should cut her losses now! This guy is a sicko loser and has no clue...
2007-10-01 11:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋