I believe I am ready to move on with my life with my kids. My husband is playing games with me telling me he wants me back, but he isnt tring to work on anything. He left Friday with his friend to Michigan and never called to say good bye to our daughter and I am not sure he is comeing back. Should I fight to get him to come back to me and the kids or just let my life go on?
2007-10-01 11:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by crystalr45683 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes he cheated on me and no we are not divorced yet
2007-10-01 11:24:59 · update #1
If he hasn't made the move, then don't bother. Why are you going to give yourself to someone who isn't giving you the respect you deserve? He doesn't even man up, and call his own child; before leaving town. What a looser...
2007-10-01 11:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point he didnt call and let you know that he was okay, you think that your husband is playing games why would you say that. Are you still in love with your husband and is he still in love with you because if you are the only one that is still in love its not going to work. I dont think your ready to move on because you dont have closure and you need this in order to move on. Lets face it you want him back because of the kids listen no child can live in household where there is not love they can sense these things. What ever you do it because you are inlove with your husband and want to spend the rest of your life with him. The choice is yours not mines.
best of luck
2007-10-01 11:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to decide if "the fight" is worth what you will get if you "win"
Frankly, I think any man who leaves his daughter and doesn't even say goodbye is the same sort of man who would never be good to his wife. If he doesn't love his daughter enough, he'll never love you enough. A parent like that is a messed up person. He'll regret it soon enough when his kids won't have anything to do with him.
2007-10-01 11:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is having fun playing games and doesn't really want to be part of your life. I would say move on. You cant force someone into commitment.
2007-10-01 11:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time and past time to move on. The sooner you make a clean cut, the sooner you and your kids can begin healing.
2007-10-01 11:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by Saphira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go through the same old BS again? You should get on with your life without him...
2007-10-01 11:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get on with your life.. he definitely knows that he has you right there just waiting.. and if he does call.. don't answer... he will start to worry... and guys think we play games??haha
2007-10-01 11:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by wenwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you guys get divorced? did he cheat on you or anything like that?
2007-10-01 11:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on baby. life is better than this.
2007-10-01 11:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worth it. move on and be happy
2007-10-01 11:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nessaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋