Why is men are so into boobs? I notice that if I used photos with cleavage showing off men would send me message but if I used a friendly photo and wearing a descent T-shirt or blouse, clothes they wouldn't send any messages.
2007-10-01 08:11:36 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because we don't have them, and they look SO NICE.
2007-10-01 08:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so there are a lot of guys that are slezy in the world but there are also a lot of decent guys. But let's look at this.
Slezy guys only care about clevage.
Decent guys will respond to both decent and revealing photos.
So if there's 4 guys, 2 decent, 2 slezy, then you might get 4 responses to a revealing pic.
But with those same 4 guys, you'll only get 2 responses if you use a decent pic, however those 2 guys will be the two you cared about anyway.
The percentage changes because the slezy guys have nothing better to do than hang out online all day, so it's probably closer to 9 slezy guys to 1 decent guy, but the concept is the same.
2007-10-01 08:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, don't act so innocent. Women do the same thing. You can deny it all you want. Some women like the appeal of toned muscles or a sculpted butt, others look at more. And both parties are to blame with want goes in and comes out at bachelor/bachelorette parties. I used to develope film for a living. I have seen it all. The point is that sex sells. I'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot you would message the same way.
2007-10-01 08:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'll be the only one to offer the scientific reason..
It's actually psychological. Have you noticed that in some animals, the males have some large, vibrant part of them to prove to attract a mate? Like how peacoccks have bright tail feathers, and the proboscis monkey has, well, a large proboscis (nose)? Well in humans, it is reversed. No matter how crazy this may sound.. men will naturally choose women with larger chests because psychologically, they think of women with larger chests as more motherly, and that it represents reproductive fitness.
Also, men are more stimulated by images than women are. So that's also why men choose better looking women. It's a very sad truth :(
Hope this helped :)
2007-10-02 16:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by :) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By showing skin, you may get a few more initial contacts, but you have to ask yourself are they liking you for who you are or just the skin. It sounds like this is in reference to some dating site, and my best advice I can give you is to read through some of the other female profiles, and look for ways to improve yours. A well thought out profile with likes and dislikes, what you are seeking will go farther in the long run in my opinion. The problem with photos is do you really know that it is a true photo of the person? Just some thoughts.
2007-10-01 08:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by zippo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just more into the physical appearance. Even you are probably more likely to click on the picture of a guy who has his shirt off and looks like he works out a lot, right? Unless you're totally above that kind of thing and some people are, but it doesn't mean that the guy is bad. It just means that he liked what he saw. Physical appearance is the first thing that attracts us to members of the opposite sex. Personality comes after wards. Ask any guy and most will tell you that if a woman has a smoking hot body, but a crappy personality they won't ask her out on a second date.
2007-10-01 08:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are. I personally couldn't care less about boobs. It's the woman's feet that attract me. Every man is different. You should never send men lewd photos of yourself. How will you know who the insincere ones are. The ones who reply to your 'normal' photos are likely to be decent.
2007-10-01 08:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
because men naturally find a woman's shape attractive. A woman's body in general is attractive to them, but certain parts are just head-turners. thats just the way it works. Boobs and cleavage automatically catch a man's eye and it does make a woman feel like an object sometimes, but you just gotta find a man who isn't just in it for your lovely lady lumps! good luck!
2007-10-01 08:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can show a little boob you just have to make sure you do a good job at selecting the right man. You will know when it is the right guy for you. When you show a little boob i like to call that pea-cocking, just like a peacock shows his feathers to attract a mate as to the same when you show a little boob. I hope that made sense, GOOD LUCK.
2007-10-01 08:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by fairtaxcrusader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up, it really means that men find it attractive to have a meaningful relationship with a full figure woman. The American male has been brain washed since infancy about breast fixation. This is the way it is in the homeland.
Spartawo...
2007-10-01 08:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a sister in advertising. She e-mailed me a sample of a billboard with a picture of a smiling girl looking over her shoulder and her hand on her butt; she was saying "Lets face it men, you'll buy anything advertised here". So true!!! However, there is hope; in Russia I understand a centerfold is usually a picture of a tractor; here in the Montana the centerfold is usually of a rifle or a pickup truck.
2007-10-01 08:16:46 · answer #11 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋