I really want a boyfriend, am I asking to much out of a man.?

Question

I want a man who's: 1.) Be nice to me, and be a gentlemen, not a player whos looking for a booty call. I want him to be nice to everyone else.
2.) I want him to talk about his problems to me, I want a man who doesnt mind crying, someone i could talk to about my problems. I want him to release his emotions not keep them all bottled up inside. I want him to be sensitive to women.
3.) I want him to treat me like his friend not his sex toy.
4.)I want him to be really funny.

I'm sorry, I just want someone to be with, and someone i could talk to. Everytime someone has a crush on me, it makes me think, wait I must be beautiful if someone loves me.

Am I asking too much from men?

I'm only 17. I wanna get married one day.

Answer 1

You're only 17? You'll be lucky to find a guy like by the time your 40. Why don't you start with what you won't accept. Like felons. It's easier to go with what you won't tolerate then looking for a guy from a list that doesn't exist. And it takes A LOT of time to even get half that stuff in a true relationship.

That list alone will scare off any guy, and if you can recite it by heart, try and accept you may be alone the rest of your life. Talk about scary to a guy. Yikes, it freaks me out.

xxx

Answer 2

No, you're not asking too much from men because you don't want to settle for anything less-especially when it comes to men. What's the point on dating a man who doesn't have a job, is considered lazy, wants nothing out of life, and is using you for a booty call? Those are excellent qualities to have because you don't want to date someone who doesn't respect you! Just be yourself and remember, good things comes to those who wait and don't act so desperate! Good luck and hopefully you'll find the right person!

Answer 3

I don't feel you are asking too much but you are asking for the wrong thing in a man.any man who is trying to date you should be nice to you.He should be a gentleman to YOU.If you don't want a player then don't look for a MAN in a night club. Look in more of a gentle setting like a library. You do not want him to be nice to everyone. He should be able to take care of himself and you. that means sometimes being"NOT SO NICE" Men don't talk about their problems. men feel they don't need help taking care of their "business" Gay men cry about their problems. You don't want a GAY man do you? Real men don't release their emotions. Gay men cry.Men are sensitive but not to everyone and not all of the sudden. You will have to build a relationship for a while for him to be sensitive towards you.If you want a man to be your friend that too will take time unless he's GAY then all you can be is his friend. I thought you wanted a boyfriend and not a "friend" When you love someone and they love you you SURE DO want to be treated like their sex toy. Really you want them at times to treat you like a WHORE! Do you want a man that jokes all the time or do you want a serious type MAN?..Personally I don't think you know what you really want. Until you search yourself and decide Even a perfect guy like myself couldn't make you happy.... Good luck!

Answer 4

Honestly, I am not trying to be funny here but it sounds to me like you need a gay guy friend.. You may find a guy with some of those qualities but the chances of finding one with all of them is very slim. I do think you are in fact asking for to much and if you keep your standards as specific as they are then you may end up alone forever. I also think that you if found a straight guy with all the qualities you want that you would not be happy with that person for long because he would get VERY annoying talking about all of his problems to you and crying all the time, which wouldn't leave much time for you to tell him your problems and cry on his shoulder when you needed to.

Answer 5

i dont think u are asking to much ov men but there is a massive problem a man can be sensitive to there feeling but some men dont like to cry :) thats the only problem i think there is there :) u will find ur soul mate soon im sure i was like u thinking i would never have anyone to hold me at night have no1 to watch tv with none to talk to about things going wrong in my life but i did. only when i stoped looking and then there he was. i feel for u, but a bit ov advise dont go looking for love, love will find u. i was told that at a young age and never understood untill now :) i hope i have help u a bit if u would like to talk mail me plz :)

Answer 6

No you are not asking too much. You just need to hold out till you find that perfect guy. Dont just date anyone and make them worthy of dating you. Be friends first if you want to know more about a guys intentions with you. There are such guys out there, but unfortunately you have to weed out the good ones from the bad ones.

Answer 7

No you are not asking to much, you set high standards for yourself, and that is a wonderful thing, many women lower them selves just for the sake of not being alone, you will find the man you want/need sooner or later, give it time, just remember there is alot of trial and error in relationships, you will see more of what you like and what you don't. But never give up. your dream man is out there. Good luck :) I wish you the best.

Answer 8

ur not asking 4 alot cuz thats what every girl wants in a man

but sometimes its hard 2 find a guy that is like that

Answer 9

if you get rid of number 2 then you should have no trouble finding one... no guys are gonna open up to girls right away, that takes time.. yes i think you are asking for to much in that area!!

Answer 10

Not asking too much. You want what you want and do not want to settle. That is an impressive quality.