I like this guy only thing is he has a gf at mo which i wouldnt do anything bout unless he was single. Shes in uni at the mo so were just friends. Anyway hes had three relationships in total 2 lasting a year each and 1 for the latest one 2 anyway he has been asking me if theres any guys in the pipeline or if i want kids when im older which is a personal thing to ask someone. I havent known him long been to lunch with him in work twice and went to look at his new flat. Is it his way of checking im single? He just came out with it walking down the street
2007-10-01 06:32:55 · 9 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he's seeing if you're single. Your response should be simple- "That's a really personal question and it doesn't matter because you have a girlfriend".
By the way- if you want people to be able to give you good answers, try and use some punctuation and watch your spelling. Your question was very hard to read.
2007-10-01 06:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by P&Rsmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he want´s to get into a new relationship, but doesn´t want to waste anymore time, you say he´s had 2 fairly long term relationships, that ended! The girl he is with now is at uni, so perhaps she is career minded! What I´m getting at is, maybe he wants kids, he finds you attractive, but doesn´t want to start anything, before he´s sure you want the same things as him! I know all of the above seems pretty heavy, but that's how I read whats going on with him!
I think yours is the next move, just be up front, ask him if he is interested in you, or don´t!! Your move!!
Good luck!!
2007-10-01 06:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by speedboat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are lunching and chit chatting together then maybe he's just being polite. It's OK for friends to discuss each others lives you know. He's probably just curious on whether or not you're involved at the moment or if you're looking, but it doesn't mean he's necessarily in to you, sorry. Especially if he has a girlfriend.
And it seems to me that you know A LOT about his relationships including all of his past ones so isn't it fair for him to at least ask if you're involved right now?
2007-10-01 06:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ivana Cracker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to mess with your mind. He's saying what guys say when they want some on the side.
Ditch him. He wants to cheat on his gf, and if you take him on, he'll cheat on you, too.
2007-10-01 06:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's fishing all right. You should tell him you only give answers like that to people who are serious about dating you.
2007-10-01 06:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes intrested in you for certain. Just be careful what you do when he has a gf.
2007-10-01 06:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by =Mark William= 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How many times do youy need to ask.
I suspect you will do your own thing anyhow!!!
2007-10-01 07:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get bent!
2007-10-01 06:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dwain A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yup u got it
2007-10-01 06:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Changed4the Better :-i 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋