Ok i love my girlfriend. she means more to me than anything. Just recently i asked her to marry me she said yes. Anyways i feel really happy she said yes but after that she's been talking to guys and not telling me. She just dont tell me so she lies to me about everything little thing u could think of and it hurt me to know thats she does but i really love her. so i be mad at her and brake-up or just forget it?
2007-10-01 03:46:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my man are going through the samething. He's sticking around, I really feel bad for what I did. I love him with all my heart.
2007-10-01 03:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both the things u want to do are common mistakes of people I really think u should talk to her about it I believe that this is the only thing that can help you for example If u talk to her and she gets mad then there is something wrong just get her calm and ask her why she is lying don't make it look like an interrogation or something if she says u never trusted me and that she will go then for your sake don't go after her there is something going on I don't now what really , but if she sits and speaks to u normally she may even tell u why she did all that Oh and don't forget tell her that this whole thing hurts you and that you love her ok?
Bye and Good Luck : )
2007-10-01 03:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Answerplease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with her for now and tell her why, that she isn't ready to make a committment to you. There is nothing wrong with her talking to other guys if she is honest about it but the fact that she lies about every little thing means that she is not ready for a serious relationship and you should be glad that you found this out now instead of after marriage.
2007-10-01 04:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You SHOULD "be mad" and "let" HER "go"...!
Do want want a marriage filled with "lies"???
When you're 'in love', the general rule is, for all the happiness and joy you feel, there can come an EQUAL amount of anguish and sorrow! Do you want to 'ride that wave' on a regular basis???
If you're going to 'give out' your love, it should be returned to you with the same SINCERITY....NOT a 'smile and a lie'!!
'Marriage' means 'vows' -if she "lies to you about every LITTLE thing", do you think you could believe her 'LIFE-LONG pledges' to you ??!!
As they say, "breaking up is hard to do"...but so is living a life of misery -it's not worth it!! As they also say, "Life's too short"; drop her and find someone HONEST!!!
2007-10-01 05:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really really annoys me when my husband tells me lies, and when we argue the more he does it. And I can't make him stop and its a vicious circle because i nag make him angry then I'm angry and i never speak to him and the more we do this the worse it gets, i love him too and i know he must love me but its awful sometimes i wish i never married him because he doesn't care when he's hurting me when hes lying. if any of my friends were in my position i would tell them to leave but it's easier said than done, so follow your heart and have a talk to her hopefully she'll listen and understand unlike my husband
2007-10-01 03:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Linz 2Boys Due A Girl 23/07/10♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and discuss the problems ,as you will never have a happy stable relationship until you trust each other .If you can`t do this then break up and get a better g/f
2007-10-01 03:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad at her just break up with her, she isn't the one for you. Don't waste your energy being mad at her because she isn't worth it. If you go on and marry her chances are she is going to keep doing the same thing and keep hurting you. At least you found out know instead of after the wedding, be glad you did.
2007-10-01 03:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you shud talk to ya gurl and work it out before you make any major decisions
2007-10-01 03:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy601~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...i dont think u should brke-up or forget it...well not yet i think u should talk to her and see if she says somthing about it and if she doesnt tell her how it makes u feel that she's talkin to other guys and then not tellin u about it
2007-10-01 03:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by sasukehottie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
discuss it with her! Be honest and try to come to an agreement on what is acceptable in terms of friendships with the opposite sex friends.
2007-10-01 03:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by love2utam 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋