I have this situation where ive been seeing this guy for 4 months on and off. It's basically fwb and he stays over once a week. For the past 3 weekends I have either text him or called him, only to get a voice mail and he doesnt return my calls until after the weekend. He tells me he has been taken his son on the weekends and not going out, when i call him its usually after 10 and you cant tell me his 2 yr old son isnt sleeping. I decided i would just keep him around until someone better appears but i'm finding it difficult to keep my emotions out of it. And i'm thinking he has another arrangement on the weekends. Why is it guys can handle these arrangements without feeling hurt? Do I just keep using him like he's using me? Should i not answer his calls during the week to see how he likes it? or should i just end it? Really, I know alot of you are gonna say get a back bone and dump him, but the s e x is really good. And no.. a vibrator wouldn't even compare. What should i do?
2007-10-01 04:24:16 · 3 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Again, this is why FWBs don't work. Women always get attached and men are capable of keeping their emotions separated. Women assume that men feel the same way or can't separate emotions from sex. If you want to keep going with this guy purely for sex, then you have to suck up the fact that he's not giving you the attention you want because he doesn't have to. If you aren't afraid of getting hurt and you know you wont get attached (which you are already starting to), then go for it. If not, it's OK to be single.
2007-10-01 04:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the casual sex isn't enough for you any more. So, it's time to move on. Either you need to get your "friend" to commit to you and start a real relationship, or you need to dump him and start looking for a permanent replacement. I personally don't understand how anyone can keep their emotions out of relations like this. However they do it, you've obviously reached your limit. So now it's time to take control and go forward.
And don't bother with little games to show him what it's like. If he's really just interested in the sex, it won't take him long to replace you and move on. So find out now what he's after and live your own life.
2007-10-01 11:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is that good keep him for sex only
2007-10-01 11:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by cj10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋