im a 17 yr old MALE virgin and getting chances to have s-e-x over and over but have never took them cause of the whole ''save your first time for someone special'' crap.
should i just go for it ? im sensible n will use protection and all that but i just wanna be sure if i should.. im being offered so why not? and plus guys dont care as much about their virginity as girls right ?
2007-10-01 03:55:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember there is always a possibility of getting a girl pregnant, condoms aren't 100%. And you have to look out for those girls that once they get it they won't go away after the relationship is over...damn stalkers *shudders* Be very picky with who you lose it to, you don't want to remember your first time with the whore of the school
2007-10-01 03:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by sakrificetheory 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you had to ask the question here shows that you're indeed NOT ready! Do not fall into temptation and don't do what you really do not want to do....the offers will keep on coming and you'll be even more tempted, just wait ok? I waited for a long time (i'm a female though) and I really admire that you actually want to wait until you find someone that seems special at the time. A lot of guys have lost their virginity long ago and I am glad that you still have yours. It is really something special so do not fall into pressure and feel the need to lose yours because every guy has. You're doing great and that shows that you have high standards for youself and you love yourself as well. Tell those girls NO....then ask yourself "is she really what I wanted...If she can have sex with you that easily can you imagine how many other guys she has offered sex to as well?" Once you have sex, most likely feelings will evolve and soe people cannnot seperate feelings from just sex, besides, sex has high risks of diseases, pregancy etc, even when wearing a condom. No, you're wrong, there are many guys out there that are still virgins and DO care about their virginity. Once again, it's a sacred thing and once you lose it you can never get it back (for both girls and boys)...so before you have sex, make sure that this is what YOU really want and you're not doing it because you feel you have to or that you're not cool, or that you are less of a man, becuase you are neither of the above. You're actually special for waiting at your age. I really, really admire that, wish more guys were like you =) Yes, we all get horny but we can control our hormones, you can masturbate. Wait for love. Anyway, best on luck on whatever you decide to do.
2007-10-01 04:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why have a gift that's been opened and reopened so many times? That's been used over and over again? Don't you want an untouched present which is just for you?
You're 17. So of course, it's hormones and you're not an adult. But we all grow up someday and getting sex just for the pleasure of it is downright immature. Because when you're a grown adult you might feel sorry about the whole thing. Hard to beleive, huh? We all don't believe it could happen, but it does. There's a regret we feel, unless you're just...a non-caring person. I do hope that the girls you have sex with will find out later what kind of person you are. Have you ever heard of love? It is out there, you know.
And just to wrap it up, don't share personal things like that on the internet cuz it's your life, not ours, so therefore my opnion wouldn't even matter.
And 'save yourself for someone special' isn't crap. It's called waiting. True love waits.
2007-10-01 04:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by DragonLady 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I actually have only one question for you. Do you expect to marry or have a life long relationship with someone? Actually forget the life-long bit. Let's just say rather long and serious relationship. If yes, do you expect them to be a virgin. If you do then you better as hell be a virgin yourself until that time because it's a hell of alot of work for them to stay virgins for you if you're not going to return the favour. If on the other hand you don't really expect to her to be a virgin, or if you hope she's not, then you're welcome to do whatever you want provided you don't risk you're life or her's in the process.
2007-10-01 04:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true that guys don't generally value their virginity. But really, it's a once in a lifetime thing, you don't want to throw it away.
Whether or not you wait until marriage is one thing, not many these days do. But I still think it's important to at least save yourself for someone special. If for no other reason than so you don't regret it later. You will remember your first time your whole life, that should be a good memory.
2007-10-01 04:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing says that has to be true... That is just an old outdated way of thinking... Society is trying to tell you it isn't as important to guys. If you have waited despite offers, I say wait a little longer ( just masturbate ) for the right girl. I think it will be worth it, and you will make her feel so much more special and she will undoubtedly love you for it.
2007-10-01 04:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what is the sense of your question if you already decided that you should grab the opportunity and you also don't care to the virginity of the girls like me... I really don't know why you boys not really all but almost want to have sex at that age..isn't to early. Well isn't because you will. not suffer like us,girls . ohhh!!!!
2007-10-01 04:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is not like getting on a ride at an amusement park.
It changes who you are forever.
So in my opinion you should wait until you're with someone you love and who loves you......and most of all you're old enough to accept responsibility for your actions.
Condoms do not work 100% of the time......always remember that.
2007-10-01 03:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-10 02:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you've asked this here before (or copied someone else's post).
Use protection, do what works for you. The people here have no stake in whether or not you keep your virginity...just be responsible with your behavior. (and stop asking the same question over and over)
2007-10-01 03:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋