well u c if been at it for about 7mnths. & His Daughter caught us well u know.....& she Threated to tell my husband who i have been with for 6 years. what should i do?
2007-10-01 04:16:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
File for divorce. It's merely a matter of time before your husband finds out you're cheating. Why stay when you say you love another guy? He (your lover) is obviously scum, or he wouldn't date married women.
2007-10-01 05:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Falling in love with someone else when you're already married is fundamentally no different than falling in love when you're single--when you feel those feelings for someone else, your heart doesn't really care about the ring on your finger. A lot of people think that a wedding ring is an on/off switch to your heart and it simply isn't. It's difficult to understand that unless you have been there yourself. I am a member of an online support group for other women and men. If you contact me I can give you the site address. It has really helped me navigate our relationship. There are members there from all over the world in extramarital relationships of all kinds, from beginnings to endings and healing.. Some members are in the process of dealing with their married man's divorces and some have actually married their affair partners. (Rare, but it does happen) The site has a lot of rules which keep it very very secure.
2016-05-18 00:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my husband the truth.....then I would leave him and file for a divorce. Nothing will ever be the same again in your marriage if you even try to stay. Your husband will be humiliated that his daughter caught you and besides the respect issue that his daughter lost for you....... he will only think you came forward with the truth because you were caught! I suggest that you leave this marriage because no one will be happy here and you know in your heart that you would not be either.
2007-10-01 05:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're not "in love", you're in lust!!! Love is not selfish, and would not influence you to ungodly behavior. Tell your husband everything (not part of the truth), or all that he wants to know. He deserves that much. Are you really sorry for what you did or are you sorry for getting caught? And now your secret has been threatened and all of a sudden you feel it's necessary to tell your husband.... Whatever's done in the dark will be brought to the light.
2007-10-01 04:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Face it! You got caught up in your lies! Tell your husband and stop playing games! Stop sneaking around like a little kid, up to no good, and grow up. Let your husband be free while you run off with this other man instead of having him stuck with an unfaithful women like you! Remember, the grass isn't aways greener on the other side. What goes around comes around and I really hope you turn away from your wicked ways before you have to pay the consequences of your actions.
2007-10-01 04:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by HOPEFUL 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Start making comments about how much of a lying little snot your lovers daughter is and how she hates you for absolutely no reason and how nice you have been to her that way if she tells you have your tracks covered, men will believe anything if you throw them the right bone.
2007-10-01 04:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well if you love your husband and want to honor your vows with him then you'd better end it with the lover quickly and then tell him its ended.
You can also suggest to your husband that you and he enroll in a counselling workshop to work on your relationship so that something like this doesn't happen again.
If you want a divorce, then keep having the affair and tell your husband when you're ready to move out.
2007-10-01 04:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Petunia 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stop having the affair and things will most likely calm down. But if you can't, then you might as well tell your husband and deal with it. Better yet, just get a divorce, its obvious you don't love him.
2007-10-01 04:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your relationship with the 47 year old man will be over in 5 years. You will then regret it but you are not worthy of the institution of marriage.
Your are just a parasite that is only interested in your self. You are too selfish to be in any real relationship. And when you are 47 years old you will be too ugly to attract any men.
P.S. I will bet you anything the 47 year old man is not in love with you. He only wants to have sex with you. You are probably stupid enough to try to trick him in to marriage by getting pregnant. Either that or you will get pregnant by your current husband to get extra money out of the settlement. Have a nice orgasm you skank.
2007-10-01 04:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by eric l 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
The same way ALL women do it.You tell him it's his fault because he worked to much and didn't spend enough time with you or anything to make him feel really bad about it then you take all his money and the house,his car and give it to the other guy.Easy,women do it everyday.I hope the new guy does the same thing to you someday soon.Good luck
2007-10-01 04:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by notagain49 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋