Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

finally accepted him.We've been together going on 2 years and she hates him.In the dream we became engaged when suddenly a girl was telling my sister and I about her boyfriend and a recent pregnancy scare they had.Turns out her boyfriend was my boyfriend.I called him (in the dream) and confronted him about the girl and he brushed it off saying it wasn't a big deal and he was leaving her and marrying me.I screamed at him that he said he would never hurt me and that everything he said was all a lie.I woke up to find myself crying and my boyfriend shaking me awake and holding me until I calmed down.I told him about the dream and he says until I stop doubting him and his intentions with me (he wants us to get married) I'll keep having these types of dreams (this wasn't the first time).What do you all think? I somewhat agree,but also think that my mothers feeling towards him might be part of my problem because she makes me feel I should be wary with him despite him not giving me reason to.

2007-09-05 04:55:55 · 5 answers · asked by ConfusedHMD 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is in this relationship (has been in it for almost 5 years now) and is living with the guy, and is planning on getting married someday and stuff. I like him for her too, he seems really nice and sincere and I know he adores her, which is cute, ya know? It seems like they get along and stuff, and before she met this guy she was the type that never had a serious relationship so I know that means love for her. Anyway, my friend just got her Master's degree and that has me wondering how important a partner's level of education is because her man is a high school graduate only. I think this used to bother her but then in the begining, but i guess as she got to know him she decided what was important was who he is not his education level, but i do think now it is begining to bother her again...she says that she would ideally want him to get his BA but he doesnt seem that interested in going to school. i do hope they can make it work, but what do you think are their chances?

2007-09-05 04:55:33 · 13 answers · asked by mama2be 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So, hacked into my fiance's e-mail account because we're having problems and I suspected he was emotionally cheating on me with his co-worker. I found some stuff that was questionable and I fessed up to it and asked him about it. how wrong is this?

2007-09-05 04:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been living with my bf for more that 2 years. and things change lately and he told me that we need sometime alone.i cant see the problem but because i love and respect him i gave the space he needed.however, 3 weeks later i went back to out apartment i saw a girl.then i ask alot of question if whats going on, he said nothing but im not satisfied.i ask what happen now and what he wants..and he said he wants me.Because i love him im trying to forget everything without asking, i rather stayed with him after all of this.i want to let him go he might be happy with that girl but i cant.what should i do? please

2007-09-05 04:49:11 · 19 answers · asked by need_help 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 04:48:49 · 25 answers · asked by cupidsbow b 1 in Singles & Dating

why waist ur time tryin to get ur ex bak if they moved on? obviously if they moved on they want nothing more to do with u,so tha best thing fo u to do is to jus get over that fact right now. yes it does hurt but u cant hold on forever,u do need to let them go let them be happy n move on as well. dont start **** with ur ex's new partener cuz that will only make u look dessperate n really pathetic. dont get mad get a new man/woman n try to start sumthin new.

2007-09-05 04:48:38 · 1 answers · asked by monkey_lover05 1 in Singles & Dating

I really don't have any problem meeting girls, but my last ex-gf walks around punking ppl for their money and hitting guys all the time, and doing "other" things. The one before that just kicked a pregnant girl in the stomach and killed her baby. NEED HELP!

I'm a 20 year old student in LA without a car yet, i'm also a fan of "delta 9 tetrahydrocannabinol" (DON'T JUDGE ME, I keep it in moderation at home with only certain friends)

2007-09-05 04:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by dezimotobol 1 in Singles & Dating

but i wanna do everything the right way make my family proud since all my cousins got pregnant young first and than tried to get with the guy and everybody counts on me i dont want to disappoint anyone but im afraid i colud end like my cousins i know im kinda young to want to have a family but i love babies and when i do become a mom im not ever going to regret it because i believe a baby is a gift from god

2007-09-05 04:44:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 04:42:48 · 14 answers · asked by Angela W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I tried ignoring him completely, but then he started letting the door slam in my face and things like this. This is a problem, because we have to work together. He's cool with my husband, and his wife was cool with me, but now she gives me dirty looks. I don't know why because I don't like him! How can I show this??!!!

2007-09-05 04:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My niece who is 18 year old turning 19 years old in the upcoming weeks wants to get pregnant so her 15 year old boyfriend he turns 16 i think at the end of the school year will have to marry her?I am very concerned her parents are divorced have been since she was 10 yrs old .Since then she has gotten kicked out of 3 different boarding schools and caused so much trouble failing classes,getting arrested for assulting her step mother, and a DUI neither of her parents want to deal with her.I was asked by her mom (my sister) to take her in for her senior year of highschool.Its been a year and half since she's been living with me. I got her to graduate HS through a lot of nagging and even got her to sign up for classes at the local community college.She seemed to be turning around till i found the ovulation kit and when i confronted her she said she wanted to ensure her bf would have to marry her?Saying he was a good catch and already promised to marry her when he turns 18.What do i do?

2007-09-05 04:35:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I have this friend who, whenever she gets a boyfriend, can never seem to talk about anything else. I know almost as much as she does about the guy and I haven't even met him!
It's so annoying! I just wanna tell her to shut up or change the subject. When I try to change the subject for her, all of it just ends up going back to him! It's one of those "all roads lead to Rome" kinda things. I'm happy for her, but really it's getting old! I don't know if I feel this way because I'm really tired of the topic or if (secretly) I'm kinda jelouse, because I don't have a boyfriend. Though I don't think her guy is attractive, at all (not to be mean, just honest).
What do I do?

2007-09-05 04:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by Annie 4 in Friends

made you fall in love?

-when did you realize this was the one?

-what were the circumstances behind the relationship? (just got out of another, met through friends, etc)

- What makes them different than the others?

2007-09-05 04:32:15 · 16 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is obsessed with the show and now has been reading the book. Is this strange behavior for a married man of 11 years? Is it strange that he would take up such an interest in the art of picking up women? We have had problems in the past with going out with random women and almost divorced because of it. But is he now on his way to attemt to live the best of both worlds, again? or is it just a book and just a show? should i be concerned? i think it's wierd...what do you think?

What would it say about me if I were so deeply interested in the art of picking up men?

oh, he also plays in a band and play at the bars every so often.

is he just an attention whore?!

2007-09-05 04:31:32 · 3 answers · asked by goodtalkin' 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the girl am with right now had been cheating on her ex with me for over 6 months... i dont understand her, cuz she've alwayz done it... even with the boy she loved the most. when i asked her why she continues to have sex with me, she said she likes me... but before i got the feeling that she loved her boyfiend cuz when came from a long holiday she stoped seeing me for some two weeks and she was with him!!!!!!!!!! then he started treating her bad then she came back to me and started cheating again......

2007-09-05 04:30:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam quite close to this girl in my drama group and me and her really do get on quite well whenever she has a prblem she would tell me and we woulld sort it out and vis versa . but now i realsie how much she stands out from the other girls and how cool she actually is . i really want to ask her out but iam a wimp so i havent but for a while now she has really tryed to be with me so does that mean she likes me to or is she just trying to be better friends so someone please help

2007-09-05 04:30:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question for both guys and girls

2007-09-05 04:28:54 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first he said that he only had one relationship with a girl and she left him for someone better, then he said that she was not the only one that he had several relationships with a lot of girl mostly for just having sex with them and today he says that they were all lies and the truth was that he was a virgin when he met me and i was his first real relationship. i dont know if i should trust him anymore..

2007-09-05 04:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by lonlie 2 in Singles & Dating

in turn lead to infidelity?Since you don't know what you're missing and aren't happy with what you've got aren't you even more likely to stray than if you had something to compare your spouse's performance to?I'm really glad than I didn't wait and "shopped around" so to say before settling down.Why anyone would willigly deprive themselves of one f the best things in life is beyond me.

2007-09-05 04:27:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

54 year old woman now homeless. Left my guy several weeks ago. I have tried the Mission, 1 night at a time with different friends and the Mission for woman in S,F., California. Was told I would have to stay 6 months getting to stay three nights a week then onto the streets of the city the other 4 nights a week. Wow I vote every year,am a good person just ran into hard times.Spent the night in a BED at a friends last night now off to find a safe campsite for the next 2 months. Winter is coming, lots of snow here. Does anyone have a clue what or where I can go? Thank You all very much for reading my story on my scarry life. I know things could be worst, it's just so hard getting myself together and causes MUCH depression! Well like people say...such is life!

2007-09-05 04:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by Rukeann 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past year my boyfriend and I have had a long distance relationship. I live in TX and he lives in CA. We are ready to take the next step in our relationship. He wants to move to TX with me but not until March. I had surgery about 4 months ago, so my time limit to have children is closing in, so we want to be closer together so that we can work on getting pregnant. However, I've mentioned to my mom before that I want to move but she has let me know she doesnt approve. She believes that once I move, I will never come home. I have a very close relationship with her and just the thought of leaving her and my nephews breaks my heart, but I want to start my life also. I just dont know what to do anymore. How do I break it to her and my sisters. This is so hard my heart hurts!!!

2007-09-05 04:25:36 · 10 answers · asked by lorimtx2204 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

And please dont say wait til I move out bacause I cant wait that long! Thank you in advance

2007-09-05 04:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How to live with this kind of marriage?Cant allow blue films.I dont want divorce him as I love him.?
We are married fro 6months now. Ours si a love marriage. He lied for everything and cheated me.He gave me nothing from time of marriage.He showed me imaginary married life and world to me before marrying me.He doesnt earn he has no home so My parents supported us and gave a home to live. I am from very rich and high class family with masters in education. I started working also and he takes all my money and spends it of.He has never given me anything but knows how to take it from me. He made me sell my gold and ask money from my parents all the time coz i love him.He smokes, watches blue films, tv and playing cards and snookers on yahoo.he enjoys his life. He slaps me on my face if I argue.I love him and I am suffering. His family left him never supported him financially also at time we got married. My parents are my strenght.But now he is cheating and lying to me and meeting his family and giving them my money if they ask.Which is not accepted by me. Please advice.

2007-09-05 04:24:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

twice this has happend, first time new yrs eve, hubby calls in the afternoon and his brother informs him they forgot they had made different plans, but two wks before they accepted and just recently we had labour day bbq party they said they were coming and didnt show and didnt call to cancel or anything, im at wits end, my hubby thinks im always down on his brother, but this to me is extremely rude, but when his brother gives him some lame excuse why, hubby usually responds with oh no problem no big deal, i disagree, other times just asking them over for dinner he says he'll get back to us and then we have to chase him down for an answer, should i say anything to him or is it up to my hubby, be cuz im at the point where i cant be bothered trying what should i do

2007-09-05 04:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by marcelo F 1 in Family

Like in Trainspotting with Renton and that schoolgirl.How would you know cos sometimes females look older than they are and younger than they are.

2007-09-05 04:23:43 · 12 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter's dad moved to U.K. 4 years ago. Until then we shared custody on a week on week off basis. Since he moved she has been going to him on hols. 6 months ago he broke up with the mother of his 6 yr old and now lives in a van so for the last couple of visits my daughter has been staying with his ex. I have become very frustrated by his lack of input into my daughter's life, schooling etc. I wrote him a letter outlining this and asked him specifically to come over here to Ireland for a couple of weeks around the time she was starting secondary school as I really believe his support would be good. He's come over alright but has lined up so much work he is hardly going to see her. How do I get across to him how important it is to have more input? Am I wrong in thinking that a 12 yr girl needs her dad around more than a 6 yr old? Am I wrong in thinking that she would be better off staying with me on hols rather than his ex and that he come here in term time for a few weeks instead

2007-09-05 04:23:39 · 3 answers · asked by maeve k 2 in Family

Would you date someone that has difficulty reading. I have said that I wouldn't "But". I have said it's not ashame when a person can't read, it's only ashame when you do nothing about it.

2007-09-05 04:23:16 · 3 answers · asked by deb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex broke it off with me two weeks ago. On occassion she emails me to tell me to tell my friends not to email her. My friends don't know her email addy so I know it's a way of keeping contact with me. She also on occassion told me not to bother her. Well, she's been emailing me on and off still. She emailed me all day yesterday with the same bs and so today I emailed her and said "I hope you have a beautiful Day". She hasn't responded. Should I bother anymore? Do you think she's playing games or stringing me along? What should I do?

2007-09-05 04:18:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 04:17:04 · 15 answers · asked by North Carolina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he's a sort of sci-fi action weirdo that LOVES school and he's not very mature he acts like a little kid sometimes but its so cute . and he's not much to look at that y im a little embarrased. but i really like him help!!!!!!!!!!!!! :c(

2007-09-05 04:16:59 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating