Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

She is more then a crush. We actually have a date tonight.. but in class there is another guy totally hitting on here (sits on one side of her - I sit on the other) and she seems to be laughing at his jokes. Towards the end of class he got her number..

What do I do?

2007-09-05 04:16:56 · 20 answers · asked by Joel 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a Christian and my boyfriend is a Muslim. We've been together for three years and his asking were we are going with the situation. He gave me time to ponder, but i don't think that i need any time to think, he knows that i love him to bits and he loves me too, but i don't want to change my faith and neither does he want too. I never once gave him a option as to change his faith for me. I really think that his family is busy putting pressure on him and then as for my family again, they say what ever decisions i make they are with me all the way, i'm a grown up and so is he. What do i tell him? His waiting on a answer.
How do i go about the whole of the situation? Please help me! What answer do i have to give him? At the end of the day the two of us will be a family on our own...

2007-09-05 04:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by Leila 1 in Family

My husband has started walking in the afternoons. I could use some exercise myself so I thought that he would not mind if I tagged along, though he always would get up to go at times when I was in the middle of something - cooking, bathing, helping with homework. And then the times that I did get into my exercise attire, he made up some reason why he was not planning on walking that day. Anyway, one afternoon after he left, I glanced out the window and he and another woman were walking right in front of the house! I realized at that point why he was not enthusiastic about me walking with him. I let him know that I was not happy about it. They stopped walking together and he stopped walking completely. I tried to get him to walk with me but he says he is tired. Anyway, I told him he should start walking again and he went yesterday and came back and said that another woman neighbor asked if she could start walking with him. Should I be concerned that he does not want to walk with me?

2007-09-05 04:15:30 · 23 answers · asked by emily1980 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend has lived with me for almost threr years. i recently bought a houde and now i have to pay a mortgage. he was not paying me anything at all . now he is leaving and moving back home.he said that he has to hel phis family , and he has not helped his family in the whole time that he has lived with me.he has said this before and never did it, he ended up comming back to my house? he all of a sudden said that there is no future for us. than he saw me crying and than said dont cry.? ? than after he got sex out of me he kicked me out of rooac because i was crying, and he said that he needed to sleep? that rooac was sappose to be the word rrom..room. i dont know what to do i am steaming right now. i dont believe him about his family

2007-09-05 04:14:59 · 20 answers · asked by stephanie a 1 in Singles & Dating

all I think about is sex!!!!

2007-09-05 04:14:46 · 15 answers · asked by medgy17 2 in Singles & Dating

A young man was walking through a supermarket to pick up a few things when he noticed an old lady following him around. Thinking nothing of it, he ignored her and continued on. Finally he went to the checkout line, but she got in front of him. "Pardon me," she said, "I'm sorry if my staring at you has made you feel uncomfortable. It's just that you look just like my son, who just died recently." "I'm very sorry," replied the young man, "is there anything I can do for you?" "Yes," she said, "As I'm leaving, can you say 'Good bye, Mother'? It would make me feel so much better." "Sure," answered the young man.
As the old woman was leaving, he called out, "Goodbye, Mother!" As he stepped up to the checkout counter, he saw that his total was $127.50. "How can that be?" He asked, "I only purchased a few things!" "Your mother said that you would pay for her," said the clerk.

2007-09-05 04:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have kid and would do anything for them but when if any time are marrages (are sposes) to became more important is there a time? you are soppost to spend the rest of your life with them so are they (your spose) ever more important than anyone else in your life?

2007-09-05 04:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by Jene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say im at a bar with my friends and theres an attractive women standing next to me. Are all pick up lines doomed for failure or are there some that work out there. lol

2007-09-05 04:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by Balrog 2 in Singles & Dating

hello,
just wanted ur opinion on how long should u wait to sleep w/ ur bf/gf? i figured that for myself, if im going to go on a 2nd date w/ him, then theres something about that i really like. looks, personality, i dont know. but why waste time going on the 3rd and so on dates? if he's not good in bed, then at least u found out fast and got rid of him. And then meet another guy/girl....

2007-09-05 04:10:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband just got me my own Xbox Live account so we could play against each other. Well now when i play everyone knows that I am a Girl so a ton of guys keep requesting to be my friend. My husband is way mad, but i dont think he should be cause i decline all there requests. Do you think he has the right to be upset?? What should i do?

2007-09-05 04:10:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I will make a long situation short. I have a 19 year-old daughter who is married and lives two hours away from me. Her father, my ex-husband, lives 30 miles from me. When she and her husband come to visit for a weekend, they 'always' stay with her Dad. She says her Dad is doing this and and that, has already made plans with them, as well as cooking a dinner for them. She will call me a few times a month, but it is always when something is wrong or she needs money. When they are in town, she says they will come by and visit, but they don't. I try calling her (and emailing), but I always get her voicemail. Until the age of about 14, she and I were inseperable and I worship the ground she walks on. We're attending an event in a couple months. She called me 5 days in a row to make sure I had bought the tickets. Maybe it's me, and while I know she has to balance her married life and working, I don't know what has happened to our relationship. We never get the chance to talk.

2007-09-05 04:10:17 · 16 answers · asked by snowman68 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-05 04:08:46 · 4 answers · asked by North Carolina 2 in Family

2007-09-05 03:58:32 · 15 answers · asked by catchup 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 03:57:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been avoiding him alot. He has been geting on my nerves. I also dont no why he broke up with me.

2007-09-05 03:57:12 · 4 answers · asked by pink_money012196 1 in Friends

I've been with my live-in boyfriend for a total of 4.5 years. We've known eachother 6 years and had a break in our relationship for 1.5 years. We are very serious and are probably going to get married. I still feel unhappy though, although it isn't really his fault. I find that I cannot really turn to him for that much emotional support, he doesn't understand deep human emotions (like if someone moves far away they get lonely and may become depressed), I don't enjoy the sex and am not sexually attracted, and beginning to feel like he cannot help provide a comfortable life because he is pretty cheap. The good things about him are that he is trustworthy, a nice, happy person, cute, simple and usually easygoing, never yells at me or acts like a brat. I do love and care about him because I have known him so long... but lately I feel like my needs are not being met emotionally and materially. Don't know if I am just taking him for granted. What do u think? I am 25 y.o.

2007-09-05 03:56:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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dancer girly
S I nedd serious advice.?
i need advice. what should i do with about this...(plzzz read)

i just started middle school and everything is going wrong with my friends. there is this girl named tanya and she is really nice but she became friends with the wrong ppl.

the ppl she became friends with are preppy and idiots. there is this girl named jessica someone who tore me apart in 2nd grade. she stabbed me in the back and i just have hated her ever since. tanya knew about this and doesnt care. i know when jessica finds a new girl and becomes bff with someone her tanya is gonna get seriously hurt.

ive triends taking with her alone but she justed doesnt listen. i dont want to even bother with her anymore but then again she is one of my friends and i cant let that happen, :[

2007-09-05 03:55:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN CAUGHT LYING TO ME LOADSA TIMES. ITS NEVER REALLY SERIOUS (THAT I KNOW OF). THING IS, I WORRY THAT IF HE LIES AND EXAGGERATES ABOUT SILLY THINGS WOT ELSE IS HE LYING ABOUT? I THINK HE IS LOVELY AND EVERYONE LIKES HIM BUT HE SEEMS TO LIE FOR NO REASON. WE HAVE HAD A VERY INTENSE RELATIONSHIP FOR ABOUT SIX MONTHS AND HE SHOULD KNOW THAT HE HAS NO NEED TO LIE TO ME. I WANT TO MAKE A DECISION ABOUT OUR FUTURE BEFORE I GET IN TOO DEEP. MY FRIENDS SAY TO GO WITH THE FLOW AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS BUT IM BEGINNING TO QUESTION EVERYTHING HE TELLS ME. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-09-05 03:55:08 · 51 answers · asked by pinkchick 2 in Singles & Dating

"What are you thinking?"

2007-09-05 03:53:09 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 29 years old and both my parents are in kind of bad health. My mom's diabetic and has trouble moving around and my dad is in the hospital getting a feeding tube inserted in his stomach. He had a stroke and can't eat food so easily anymore.
I made travel plans last month for a trip to Asia. I haven't gone anywhere in 2 years. I want to go but I feel guilty about leaving my parents here while they are not in good health. My mom almost cried when I told her I wanted to travel.
What should I do?

2007-09-05 03:50:27 · 13 answers · asked by johnlert22 2 in Family

See, he lives in another town and we spend time on the internet and phone talking. We used to be very much in love but I screwed it up on purpose because I was so young. What does it mean now when he says he wants to see me, then in another email he says there is nothing between us, then in yet another he says the sky is the limit when talking about us meeting face to face again. He's only been divorced about 6 months from a woman he married on the rebound--he says If I hadn't have broke things off with him, he would have never gone through this. Sometimes he acts as if he wants to care about me and sometimes he acts as if he is mad at me still. Any advice? I really love him and I always have but I was young and stupid when I was with him before. Any advice on what to do, or how to show him I truly care would be greatly appreciated.

2007-09-05 03:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda T 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-05 03:48:16 · 19 answers · asked by Kat T. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

before my dad death I was in a very bad situation because I lost my job and my love betrayed me and because of some problems I couldn't register for MS degree.I got a job and then after 40 days working for them they told me sorry. they had some financial problem so couldn't extend the contract...everything was terrible that time...I felt like a big looser.meanwhile my dad was sick and old. but I was very mad and unkind. I was so nervous and desperate and during the last years of his life we just had fights...BUT I DO LOVE HIM...he was the best father.he did whatever he could to raise me and send me to university. I was the only kid so when he was sick I was in charge of life and so I felt my life is ruined.now its two years that he has passed away while I even regret that he died caz of heart stoke but when he told me he has pain(like so many times) I didn't take it serious and when I came back he was dead.what can I do to tell him I love him?know so late but I can't forgive myself

2007-09-05 03:48:15 · 3 answers · asked by negin 1 in Family

If you've told your husband that you dreamed of being an at home mom, raising your kids, with a nice house...do you then complain and give your husband a hard time about what it takes to provide for that dream? When he says I have to work, do you complain about the extra hours and missed events at school or are these losses balanced by the fulfillment of living life as you wished?

2007-09-05 03:47:10 · 10 answers · asked by bigitalyguy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is very clever -- the only time he could possiblly be cheating is during the day when he is doing "field work"; he is a Project Manager and has to visit all the work sites. He has two cell phones (the second one is suppose to be for his project field work - but I have no access); I use to have access to the other cell phone details, but recently haven't been able to access them. Then there is the computer - I am an above average user and I work partly from home. Routinely I have to clean the house computer and I find things he has attempted to conceal (i.e. his profile with statements regarding our personal sex life); saved profiles of women 1/2 his age; and fore a most of 2006 and part of 2007 he had to work late the same night each week. Make me wonder about the annual trips for 3-5 days two times a year.

2007-09-05 03:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by TEXAS LADY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend lost her baby a year ago this friday, she doesnt really like talkin about it because i think shes not ready to yet, what can i say to her to let her know im thinking about her and that im there for her. I was goin to say, babe i know today is gonna be tough for you and i just want you to know that im here for you. is that ok or shall i say something else. any suggestions ? thank you

2007-09-05 03:44:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have raised this boy since he was 3. He is now 15 and he told me last night that I have made is life miserable for the last 5 yrs. Its because i keep catching him hiding his school work that he has flunked. when I ask him to show me is school work he says he has none to show me he hides all of is flunked papers. Should I stop and let his Dad handle this witch has never happened. Or continue to get him threw school and he will end up hating me. What to do?

2007-09-05 03:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by Cowgirl lost seahorse 6 in Family

well i been with charleton since valentines day, he cheated on me wit like 4 girls, but i still love him, i went to his house, n out of nowhere he kisses me in the mouth, n tells he he is in love ewith me, (afetr we broke up, do he really love me, r did he jus say dat beacuse, all his bitches, kno about his cheating, might i mind you i never, kissed his as long as we were 2getha, but dis momerial weekend, things were different

2007-09-05 03:43:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

all my in laws do is start trouble, they are a bunch of troublemakers what should I do to keep them away. they are ruining my marriage

2007-09-05 03:40:35 · 20 answers · asked by kris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lately he was getting angry for no fault of mine...he would get furious and initate a fight ...maybe he was doing it intentionally coz he din have the guts to leave me or maybe he really wanted out but the worst part is we made out day before yesterday.But today he kept on saying how miserable his life is coz am a part of it and how much he regrets asking me out 3 years back. I felt horrible and wanted to throw up at that moment. And now noone is home and i have been crying all day. I know it will heal with time but right now i feel like a loser.
so help ???

2007-09-05 03:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating