She is more then a crush. We actually have a date tonight.. but in class there is another guy totally hitting on here (sits on one side of her - I sit on the other) and she seems to be laughing at his jokes. Towards the end of class he got her number..
What do I do?
2007-09-05 04:16:56 · 20 answers · asked by Joel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I would say definitely don't whine about it or get on her bad side. That will ruin your chances and send her packing for the comedian. Try to ignore him and show her attention but don't fawn all over her. Be a little coy too. Just be a gentleman and fun, I Mean FUN, on your date and she will be forgetting that guy for the whole night. Don't bring him up in conversation either. If she does ignore it and move on. IF she is way more into the other guy than you, then that is it you can do nothing about it. Turn to the other side of your desk and hit on someone else. Good Luck Lover Boy!
2007-09-05 04:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by ultimatefitnesswithchristie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is competition, and may the best man win. Be confident, and don't show that it bothers you, we girls like the funny, charming guy, but at the end of the day, it's the one we feel safe and secure with and who will treat us like a lady. Usually funny charming guys think they can get by on that alone --- so do the damn thing, and don't let a little competition throw you off. . besides, who would want someone no one else wants? You're going to have to deal with people coming onto you if you're attractive all the time-- whether you're married or single, that's life.
2007-09-05 04:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing much you can do. Except, of course, watch for every opportunity to make her laugh and uplift her day in some way. Be as cool and bright and funny as you can, and if she goes out with the other guy and likes him more than you....well, just wait until the friendship between them ends, and then make your move again.
Nothing else works, and there's no sense in carrying it around like a heavy burden. Years ago, I was a dumb *** and did not follow this advice. I wish now that I would have.
2007-09-05 04:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by SaturnMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch that sucks. Since it was you seeing her interface with this guy and not her telling you about it - I might be inclined to move on right now. You could get out of the date based on the face that this happened right in front of you and that you don't choose to compete - since there are other fish in the sea. Or you can do the date and just have fun and act like it doesn't phase you in the least. Ouch. Tough one. Kinda takes the fun outa thinking about your date. There's always dudes who will hit on your prize. But there are also tons of girls waiting for a date with you : ) You just don't know it yet!
2007-09-05 04:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Delay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering you're not actually dating her yet you really have no place to be upset, she has every right to give her number out to whomever she chooses. You can control other people's behaviour. I think you should go on the date and if it works out then she'll most likely stop flirting with this other guy. But at the moment she is fair game.
2007-09-05 04:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rita F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yeah, now ya got some competition! Just show her a great time, let her choose who she wants, be yourself. Do the little things for her(hold open door, etc.) Just treat her with respect. If she chooses the other guy, then wish her the best, she'll remember you when he's humpin the new girl and you'll get ur second chance! Nice guys finish last bud, trust me, I know!
2007-09-05 04:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to pick up your game! May the best man win! Don't show her that, this other guy is affecting you even though it does; Find out things about her; show her that you're really into her without looking desperate; be more imaginative; sometimes girls like spontaneous guys.... Most importantly.. Be yourself!!
2007-09-05 04:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Pröƒé§§ôr♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely gues you need to have informed us a lil extra. Like what made your new bf mad enought to punch the ex. Ya understand did the ex make a impolite are r smart remark to him approximately u are regardless of. B/c if that's so then be delighted he stood up for you chick. yet now in case you and ur new bf have been in basic terms jogging down the line all peacfull and stuff and ur ex pop up and out of the clean blue ur new lover punched the ex then Yeppers i could say you have have been given a warm head on ur arms and u could desire to wont to observe out cuz u could desire to be his next aim.........
2016-10-18 00:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as he comes over to her, you quickly stand right next to her and say, "hi, we're still on for tonight right?" The guy should get the message that you two are going out on a date and that he should back off.
P.s. She shouldn't have given him her number. Those are some minus points for her.
2007-09-05 04:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by n_garcia83 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
be yourself and focus on how you are going to impress her and not him. She will ultimately choose who she feels is best for her, if you are not the one then at least you tried and besides there are plenty of wonderful girls out there to crush on, God didn't just make one. Good Luck
2007-09-05 04:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Survivor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋