lately he was getting angry for no fault of mine...he would get furious and initate a fight ...maybe he was doing it intentionally coz he din have the guts to leave me or maybe he really wanted out but the worst part is we made out day before yesterday.But today he kept on saying how miserable his life is coz am a part of it and how much he regrets asking me out 3 years back. I felt horrible and wanted to throw up at that moment. And now noone is home and i have been crying all day. I know it will heal with time but right now i feel like a loser.
so help ???
2007-09-05 03:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I am really sorry for what you're going through right now. Your so-called ex-boyfriend has no respect for you or for himself. He used you to make out, he tells you that you make his life miserable, and he puts you down. You don't deserve to be with someone that says these kinds of things to you. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and doesn't put you down- not to mention being happy to have someone like you in his life. Don't talk to this loser anymore. You will find someone worthy of you. I promise. In the meantime, give yourself an opportunity to heal your wounds and keep yourself occupied by doing things that you enjoy doing. Good luck and I hope my advice helps you. By the way.... you are NOT a loser. He is.
2007-09-05 12:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Star...He was probably fighting feeling for a long time. He wanted something else and at first did not want to go through with it. Now it has come to a head and it needed top get it out. He did not mean to hurt you. He just did not want to leave any oppurtunity for you to beg and plead... he wanted it to be final so he could just leave. You will heal in time and little things will remind you of him...but you have to be strong and know that someone higher is watching over your well being... he was just a person in your life for a season, now comes the person for a reason!
2007-09-05 03:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello Star,
Its normal to feel that way when coming from a broken relationship and sometimes you would feel you not good enough to deserve it. I have felt like that as well when my girlfriend fall pregnant for another man after being in love with her for 2 years. I have lent to learnt to just let go and try by all means not to think about it.And besides time is the best healer. Ask God's guidance and i know he will see you through this.
All the best
Misheck
2007-09-05 03:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Misheck 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well darling, if i wasnt married I'd ask ya to dinner ;) Did you know that there are millions more men in the world who would probably die to be with you? Yes thats right, its hard to get over it and get back into the dating game but you can do it, know why? Most of us have and look at us now. You'll probably be happier in the long run and fid a guy who will appreciate u more later..give it time k? Please stop crying, smile...bigger....bigger..see, the healing has begun. hope this helps, and if you need a shoulder, you can always email...Otis
2007-09-05 03:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Otis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So why can't you see that he did you a big favor? Are you so needy and desperate thatyou want to be with someone who makes your life miserable by fighting and arguing? He has no respect for you and it has started to affect your self esteem. Pick yourself up and get involved with other people. Join clubs, volunteer, get into church work and sports or whatever you can do to meet new people.
He is the loser, not you. Open your eyes.
2007-09-05 03:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You aren't a loser, but were certainly involved with a big loser!
He started fights? Used you for making out? Puts you down by saying you make him miserable? further puts you down by saying he should never have gotten involved.
The guy has NO dignity!
If he wants to break up, he needs to do it in a respectful way.... putting you down and treating you like crap isn't very dignified.
I'm sure you're hurt.. I would be, too.. Please don't even associate with the guy anymore.. you will heal in time...
And when you meet someone else you "like" in the future, first time he puts you down, dump him!! You dont' need it.
2007-09-05 03:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to move on with your life. Life is full of ups and downs and losing a bf is not the hardest thing to get over no matter how long you have been in the relationship. Star, you will find someone a lot better after you get over your bf and start living your life. Forget him and do something constructive to keep yourself occupied.
2007-09-05 03:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get the f*** faraway from him! RUN, do no longer stroll! (Calling somebody what he referred to as you for being 5 minutes previous due, no longer to show breaking apart, is the hallmark of a egocentric, egotistical and probably violent nutso!)
2016-10-10 00:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K., so this guy is an A**hole right?............and who needs an ****** in their life, find someone who will treat you with the respect that a person deserves and stop crying over him, he is obviously not worth it.
2007-09-05 03:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by Hercules 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him he's a loser then leave him and never talk to him again.
oh, and tell him his privates smells like rotten eggs, it would kill him
2007-09-07 04:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by lukas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋