Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

A guy can be single for god knows how long, but as soon as he finds someone his appeal to women is off the charts. Women start crawling all over you as soon as you get a girlfriend and then your like, where were you before?

Why does it take an other woman to prove to the others that your a good man.

Seriously, what wit that?

2007-09-05 05:39:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like 5 different guys but i don't know which one to choose , but also i don't wanna pick right now i love being single .. I've told them that and they accept it .. Would you do if you were in my position? What if you had to choose? What kind of guy would you choose to be Mr. Right Now... ????

2007-09-05 05:37:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When it comes to sex, I know a little here and there, but what I've wondered is if men actually like us women making noises while f**king or if sometimes they'd like us to just shut up. And if they do like sex noises...well, what kind?

2007-09-05 05:36:16 · 18 answers · asked by PaolaRossi 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is my situation
I left my husband in January because his drinking was taking over his life and our families lives. We agreed that by me leaving it would help him sober up. I never left to get a divorce. I left because I wouldn't let my daughters see that anymore and I wanted my husband to get better.
To make a long story short,my husband ended up meeting someone else and now she is pregnant. He never tried to get help. I am so hurt by this but I know I have to move on.Everytime I think about what he did to me I get so upset because I do everything for our daughters.Whenever I talk to him on the phone my heart races because of the anger I have towards him. He is coming this weekend to give me my stuff and I was wondering how should I act when I see him?How do I get over what he did to me?

2007-09-05 05:34:46 · 32 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my girl for 4 months. She is a divorcee, reasono being she cheated on her EX husband. She dated the guy she cheated on her husband with for over a year, they broke up because she said he couldn't commit. that was 9 months ago. Now she kept his cell # in the phone and recieved text and calls from him, including times when we were in bed together sleeping, and she would answer them, but not tell me who they were from (i looked over her should one day because she was secretive about it and saw who it was). Asked her to remove the # because it made me feel uneasy. She said she was still friend but that he took advantage of her and ruined her life. After the 5th time of asked and her putting up a fight each time, she caved and did it. only to add it back the next day and call him with a lame excuse to get a personal homemade DVD back that had sentimental value. But i asked her is she called him and she said no, but admitted it only after a 4th time of asking.

2007-09-05 05:33:47 · 15 answers · asked by hero 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ve been married for 13 years together for 17 years. we have 3 kids I have been un happy for 5 years and I see no happy ending hes negitive and verbally abusive to the kids. And quite frankly he does not know me he only sees and hears what he wants, we have not been together in over a year I sleep in a seperate roomI want out and have told him but he doesnt belive me How do I walk away He depends on me for every thing

2007-09-05 05:33:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-05 05:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 21 yr. old son bought a house when he was 20. I told him at the time, he was too young for such a responsibility, but he did it anyway. He has an $800.00 house payment, and never has any money now. His bank account is always overdrawn, and I am constantly giving him money. I see him staying home, when he should be out having fun with his friends on the weekends. I am starting to go broke myself. How can I stop giving him the dough, without him losing the house, and getting bad credit?

2007-09-05 05:30:23 · 19 answers · asked by Mrs. Pickles the lunch lady 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-05 05:29:29 · 14 answers · asked by Abdulla S 1 in Family

be text messaging some male or female who is sorta a friend all night long back and forth?

If you have done this or been through this, how did or would you react if you found out your partner did this?

At this point, you don't know what those 15 messages they went back and forth was about since he deleted it but you saw it on your bill. It was a night he had a little party. So basically 15 messages from 11:35pm to 3:18am followed by a 2 minute call from the other party at 3:19am.

You are not in town with the bf/gf.

Also, you caught your partner joking around with this same Person once saying "hey may be we should try those kama sutra positons LOL" when you were checking their phone (you weren't together however at this point) but he/she was trying to get back with you.

2007-09-05 05:28:55 · 24 answers · asked by Pudge_Monsta 3 in Singles & Dating

I was looking at invitations by dawn does anyone have any good stores to buy wedding invitations?

2007-09-05 05:28:49 · 21 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

Recently my grandmother was diagnosed with stomach cancer. This is in addition to a host of other ailments, Emphesema and Diabetes to name a couple. We recently moved her up here from NC and into a nursing home close to our home. Since she's been there, she's refusing some treatments, being verbally abusive to nursing staff, and has begun smoking again despite the home putting her on the patch. Our family is fed up with her behavior and lack of cooperation, but when we confront her about it she blames her memory, or says that smoking helps her "creativity". We've tried talking to her about the severity of her situation, and the need to cooperate with doctors and nurses. She just says that she does, and isn't doing anything wrong. How are we supposed to handle this? At this point, we just want to let her be to do what she wants, even if it kills her, but that seems cruel. We just don't know what to do. Any thoughts?

2007-09-05 05:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by Vbonics 6 in Family

I am trying to arrange a meeting with a guy I met though a personals ad. I am a women so I am trying to meet in a public place, ask for references..etc. He has agreed to meet in a public place but will not provide references(landline phone, home address, company he works for etc). His arguement is if I get references from him, then I should give him some. My arguement is no because I am a women and it is more dangerous for a woman.. He says that is not fair. He says there are lots of woman criminals. I have to admit I am being swayed by these arguements. So tell me, is it really not fair?

2007-09-05 05:19:33 · 13 answers · asked by meanpromqueen 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother has been depressed for a few months now and I'm running out of ideas on how to snap him out of it. I try taking him out and he goes and hangs out with some of his friends, but nothing seems to get him out of his funk.
It all started at the end of summer when his college advisor told him he probably won't be graduating in May like he planned. Then his boss cut the entire staff's hours significantly and he had to give up a car he was set to buy. Then his band folded on him and broke up. He didn't make an audition for a play, and even girls have been less than friendly to him lately so his self esteem is in the gutter. Now he just got called ofr jury duty and they kept him so he's gonna miss classes for at least a week for a rape trial! It goes from bad to worse with him every day!
I need some advice. The other day he got mad and said he can't wait to die. My other brother and I are really worried. What can I do for him? Can I do anything?

2007-09-05 05:18:48 · 6 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Family

We have been off and on again for 7 years. This time we (or I thought) had decided to stop going back and fortha nd just be together.
He brought up ideas of getting married one day, having kids, and said he would like to buy a ring.
Then last night he told me he does not know what he wants, and is scared if we break up, that he will realize later that he made a mistake.
What should I do?
Why is he doing this to me?

2007-09-05 05:16:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 05:16:01 · 23 answers · asked by phillip h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work from home most of the time, I don't fool around or flirt. However he has been questioning what I am doing A LOT lately. Yesterday we went together to get our hair cut, he wanted me to get my hair cut short....so I did, no biggie...however was this a way for him to make me uglier to others? Kinda bugging me today.

2007-09-05 05:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is not affectionate! Especially during the week. We are only intimate one time during the weekend. She always says she feels pressured if I ask to be intimate during the week. This is very frustrating. Ladies is this normal?

P.S. I do my share of the house work and help with the kids.

2007-09-05 05:13:09 · 8 answers · asked by akbar s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 33 and have been happily married for 7 years.My husband and I had a great marriage until my best male friend who I had known for ten years died In a car accident.I was devastated and just a complete mess.I couldnt think straight and made many,many mistakes during that time.I said some horrible things to people who cared about me and did drugs and anything else I could to try to escape reality.I ended up having a 3 months long affair with the brother of my deceased best friend.Getting caught was a huge wake up call for me and I'm honestly trying to get help and get my life back.I'm terribly sorry for what I've done to people and it just doesn't seem to be enough for my husband.He's contemplating divorcing me because he doesn't know if he'll ever be able to trust me again.What am I supposed to do?How can I make him see that I deserve anothe chance?

2007-09-05 05:11:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need an inexpensive idea of what we can do on our anniversary, nothing cheesy please, and nothing dirty either

2007-09-05 05:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by Sammi H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in an abusive marrage for six long long years. Then just before I was smart enough to get away i got preg with twins. He went to jail and didnt get out till three days after I had my daughters. 7 & 6.6 lbs at birth!! Obviously I let him come back breifly. Then tragity strikes and one of our twins died at 8 months old. Medical examiner could find no real cause of death just cold-sleeping no kind of foul play. As if that wasnt bad enough, i find out that he was with someone else during one of our routine separations. She was pregnant and didnt know if he was the dad or not. So I left him. we stayed separated for a year and a half. then in a moment of pure weakness i caved and we somehow ended up living together again.but he is still the same old him abusive in a lot of ways. tell me someone why do we allow these kind of things? I know part of it for me is because i feel like he might be the only one who knows how i feel about my baby. Just looking for feed back.

2007-09-05 05:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by Jynn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

woman. That I mean the world to him and am a million times better and worth more than any other women he's been with put together. I want to believe what he says and feel that our love is true, but a part of me holds back for fear that it could all come crashing down. He's my first everything (love, serious relationship, sex partner) and he's almost 13 years older than me so I kind of feel like he has all this experience, both positive and negative that I don't have. It makes me wonder how he can be sure about what he feels and wants with me, when with his experience he should be a little more wary since he knows how relationships can fail. It's kind of like I should be the naive one that thinks this will last forever since I DON'T know how things can go wrong. Am I just being negative? Should I just take what he says and run with it, hoping for the best and not questioning so much?

2007-09-05 05:08:38 · 2 answers · asked by ConfusedHMD 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I are getting married at the end of this year and he would like a prenup. This is a second marriage for both of us. He had a business with his ex-wife that he had to buy her out of and does not want the same situation with me. He would like to protect his business in the event that we would get divorced. He is also wanting me to quit my job some time next year and either work for him part time or find somthing that is less time demanding then my current career. I haven't thought much about prenups before so not sure how I feel one way or another. I certainly would not expect half of his business like his ex wife was entitled to, but I want to be certain that if I quite to stay home and take care of his needs as well as our three combined children that I'm not going to be finding myself unemployable or completely broke. What type of a prenup could be drawn up that would meet both needs and be completely fair.

2007-09-05 05:06:51 · 15 answers · asked by sweetnsexy46530 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-05 05:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by butterfly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I got 4 free football tickets from my boss today. Me and my fiance are going. My parents are normal, sane people. His mom is a psychotic nut job, but his dad is really cool. I would have more fun with my parents, but if I don't take my fiances parents, she will nag me to my grave. Seriously, she will take this personally.

What do you think I should do???


I have to bring our parents cause my fiance let the cat out of the bag, so to speak

2007-09-05 05:03:07 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

2007-09-05 05:00:11 · 20 answers · asked by big pappy 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do boys heat fat girls? Or they don’t take them as there gf?

2007-09-05 04:59:36 · 9 answers · asked by L0lo 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently had a new flat mate move into my rented place (my old one wanted to move home). I met him a few times and turns out he knows lots of my friends etc, we got on great, so felt happy about him moving in.
Since he has been living there we have got on really well and I feel really comfortable with him being there - it's like we have known each other for ages.
However, at the weekend, someone let slip that he does something he shouldn't. I was a little shocked, but at first thought I would turn a blind eye. Talking to some mates at work though, I have realised that if anything comes back on him - I'm probably likely to get in trouble too aren't I?
Awkward one - what to do for the best?

2007-09-05 04:59:17 · 20 answers · asked by RachyC 2 in Friends

I don`t come into the equation.She shows me no affection and there is next to nothing on the physical side.
What can I do to make her realise that I exist !!!!!!
confused,
Michael

2007-09-05 04:56:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm now married, would it be good to phone him up and tell him or should I just ignore his phone calls

2007-09-05 04:56:12 · 23 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Marriage & Divorce