I work from home most of the time, I don't fool around or flirt. However he has been questioning what I am doing A LOT lately. Yesterday we went together to get our hair cut, he wanted me to get my hair cut short....so I did, no biggie...however was this a way for him to make me uglier to others? Kinda bugging me today.
2007-09-05 05:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That was definitely intentional. He doesn't want you to be attractive to others and thats wrong. If I were you I would make sure he is not the one doing the fooling around behind your back. If it's out of the ordinary I would be concerned.
2007-09-05 05:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by besitos111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice to please your husband but not to the point that you do things just cause he says so and you do not want to, like cutting your hair. This is how he is displaying his insecurity and since you gave him his way you will find he will begin to now tell you how to dress and maybe he will request you not wear any make up. You must have a serious talk to him before his jealousy will begin to create more problems into your marriage.
2007-09-05 12:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, its the same thing my Mama is going through. When he tells or asks stuff, just say what you were doing casually, and ask the same to him. And that was a qrong mistake to cut your hair short just because he said, if you keep doing what he tells you just because he is so insecure, then your life will be aliving hell. Trust me, I'm living it my parents!
2007-09-05 12:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him so that what ever you are doing that bothers him you may try to stop doing. Talk about what each of you do while working. Can he not sit at the pc and see where you've been not of the day.
2007-09-05 12:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy it sounds to me like HE has guilt and is hiding something. I'd be asking him what he is doing.
2007-09-05 12:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find that when people accuse you of "things' it's because they are doing it themselves. i wouldn't be surprised that if you start snooping around you will find him doing some inappropriate things in his day to day activities.
2007-09-05 12:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have too much time on your hands don't you.
2007-09-05 12:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋