My wife is not affectionate! Especially during the week. We are only intimate one time during the weekend. She always says she feels pressured if I ask to be intimate during the week. This is very frustrating. Ladies is this normal?
P.S. I do my share of the house work and help with the kids.
2007-09-05 05:13:09 · 8 answers · asked by akbar s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I should add that she is a educator!
2007-09-05 05:26:47 · update #1
Also, she will do/say things that will irritate me so we can argue and she will have an excuse to say no. I know I should be quiet, but the little things she does or says are things that I need to confront her about and not just be quiet!
2007-09-05 05:30:07 · update #2
Yup. That's married life. LOL As for doing the housework your wife got you good there. Women use that old "I need help with the housework... I'm too tired for sex... blah blah blah" line to sucker their husbands into doing chores they wouldn't otherwise touch. They know men are dumb enough to do anything if they think they might get sex for it. Truth is you could do ALL the housework, cooking and childcare for her and she still wouldn't be in the mood! LOL Look on the bright side though. You're at least getting it once a week. That's still more often than a lot of poor old married chumps out there. Some sad sacks do everything for their wives and never get anything in return.
2007-09-05 08:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not normal for me, but everyone is different. I do hear a lot where people mention that after marriage or a certain age the woman does not want sex as much, well that's not for me. I enjoy it a lot and I love my hubby so whenever he wants some even just a quicky I'm there for him. Once a week is not enough. Honestly I think that lack of sex is one of the reasons why a lot of married people seek affairs. Sad to say, but true. Sex is honestly an obligation to each other.
2007-09-05 13:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by why ask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal for me. I like to be intimate at least 3 times a week. What pressure is she talking about? Doesn't every woman want to keep her man happy? And who doesn't appreciate the attention? No, I wouldn't say this is normal.
2007-09-05 12:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she work in a stressful enviroment? I think that she must have something else going on that she is dealing with. And I mean it might not be someone else. Maybe it's family or friends, or maybe she is going through depression. To me I dont think that is normal at all, You should take a night and send the kids to family or friends and dicuss how you feel and find out what it going on. Best of luck
2007-09-05 12:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by brandy G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal to me. I feel your pain. Make it more romantic for her. Housework and babysitting are wonderful foreplay for ME personally (ha!) but make her feel beautiful. I don't get people who deny their spouses affection. I really don't. I'm praying she's more frequent with you soon. Be patient.
2007-09-05 12:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were completely attracted to my husband, I would never be too tired or I would never feel pressured. There's something missing.
2007-09-05 12:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahaha!!! Maybe shes in love with another man cause her b/f knows she always gives kisses ....!!! hummmmmmmm you must be vile to her !!!! Sorry buddy ...truth hurts ...find another woman!!! Maybe I'm wrong.... Sounds like maybe she does just enough to get by.... or maybe shes just tired.... Sometimes men do not realize your actions or lack of affection could mean her loss of affection....and then you have this negative reaction...
2007-09-05 12:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, so don't ask. Just do. Then remind her that she is a wife AND a mother.
2007-09-05 12:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋