Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

Me and my boyfriend were on msn last night, then we got into an argument,he called me an ungrateful b***h, which really hurt me, we've argued before, but he's never ever called me names like that before. Then he just signed out, so i txt him saying he was out of order to call me an ungrateful b***h and that i dont know whats gotten into him. He replied, that maybe was cos he just found out tonight that one of his friend's had died while he was on holiday and for me to just leave him alone. Now for the whole night not once did he mention this to me, this hurt me too, cos he obv felt he couldnt share this information with me...yet he says he loves me. What should i do now....do as he says and just leave him alone or what?

2007-09-05 00:15:34 · 20 answers · asked by Sparkle 2 in Singles & Dating

we used to paly a song game on orkut, we started talking on phone after that , we met once and he proposed me. I like him but cant just get into this relation as i cnt lie to my parents and secondly and then i have all this cat stuff coming up....
I dont know what to do

HELP ME

2007-09-05 00:09:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and a week later he siad he really wanted to go back out and was very interested but now it seems as though he has lost a bit of interest but he still tlaks to me all then time. the thing is i still have feelings for him alot and i would go back out with him if he asks but i told him its all up to him on what he does because i want him to work a bit at it so i know. do you think i should ask him whats going on with everything or would that be a bit forcing?

2007-09-05 00:07:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

go to a dance without you there. Just say you, yourself couldn't go. I'm not very comfortable with her going without me. Should I tell her that i'm not comfortable or am I overreacting?

2007-09-05 00:07:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean in terms of the other partner's attitude, feelings, responsibility, cheating, parental duties, etc. What is you expect from your boyfriend which you don't from your future husband and vice versa. Is a husband conceptually different from a boyfriend (except in legislative affairs)?

2007-09-05 00:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by Copol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was divorced in 1989, I grabbed the "bull by the horns" so to speak and went to college, graduated with a nursing degree and have worked full time to raise 2 kids for the last 13 yrs. My ex did not pay child support or help me.
Now I date a 54 yr old man who has a daughter who literally sits on her rear end, doesnt work, can never pay her bills, mooches off her dad and thinks she has the authority as his daughter to treat me like a dog. I stand up for myself unequivacably and refuse to let this 25 yr old mooching, unable to pay her bills, never worked a full time job in her life kind of nobody treat me bad. She talks to her dad like I am a dog and has never been successful at anything except pregnancy and sitting on her rear and letting other people supervise her children.
Am I being sensible or should I let it go? I dont intend to marry him, but I do intend to stick up for myself and what I have accomplished in life. No one especially not her is going to treat me bad.

2007-09-05 00:03:08 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We are married fro 6months now. Ours si a love marriage. He lied for everything and cheated me.He gave me nothing from time of marriage.He showed me imaginary married life and world to me before marrying me.He doesnt earn he has no home so My parents supported us and gave a home to live. I am from very rich and high class family with masters in education. I started working also and he takes all my money and spends it of.He has never given me anything but knows how to take it from me. He made me sell my gold and ask money from my parents all the time coz i love him.He smokes, watches blue films, tv and playing cards and snookers on yahoo.he enjoys his life. He slaps me on my face if I argue.I love him and I am suffering. His family left him never supported him financially also at time we got married. My parents are my strenght.But now he is cheating and lying to me and meeting his family and giving them my money if they ask.Which is not accepted by me. Please advice.

2007-09-05 00:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Divorced for 2 months. Haven't seen her. Been together for 10 years before that. I am a recovering addict. I went to rehab when she divorced me. We love each other. That's not in question. She wanted me to be responsible. She wants children. I've been sober 40 days. I know that's not long. I don't expect her to trust me right now. I'm Not trying to jump back into a relationship. I just want her to see me trying. Her family is a problem. I understand their feelings. I don't blame them. I have a good job. I don't want to know whether I should try to get her back. I already know that I'm going to try. I'm willing to do whatever it takes and wait. I'm patient and I love her. I just want a unique way to make first contact. I don't want to seem like I'm coming on too strong, but I do want her to know that I still love her and want her to see the actions I'm taking to make myself a better person and someone who can meet her needs and start a family. What should I do to get her attention?

2007-09-05 00:00:39 · 3 answers · asked by B. Nowlin 2 in Marriage & Divorce