Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

when did you lose your virginity? was it worth it or do u regret it? why? why not?

2007-09-05 21:53:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

man my parents are so strict. sometimes i feel i'd be able to do more things in life if they just stop bugging in everything i do. I'm already 17 and never in my life did I experience a sleep over in a friend's house because they always think i might be visiting a girl's house (i'm a guy BTW). When going to the mall with my friends it takes quite a deal of talks before they agree. It might be ugly to hear but my family isn't exactly the best family in the world.

I really hate how they see other people as "bad" people. They always see the worst in other people even for my friends (even me!). One time they even said "hey , you better be sure that best friend of yours doesnt smoke weed , he looks too thin". They didnt even consider my thoughts and he's my best friend , i couldnt accept that they would talk bad things to their own son's friend.

Do you guys have any suggestions? If I pass the exam I'll be studying at Singapore , i think it's one way of solving this.

2007-09-05 21:53:49 · 6 answers · asked by unreachablestar 1 in Family

it seems like my boyfriend barely likes spending time with me, tonight we were suppose to chill out but he said he doesnt feel like going out..yet an hour later his friends called him and he was ready to go, its now 2am and he's still not home..and im crying because i dont know is it me who has the problem or is it him all i want is to spend time with him because i miss him but hes too "tired" to go out with me but hes up and ready when its his friends im i needy or is he the one with the problem?

2007-09-05 21:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends (who don't work with me) think that he might had some feelings for me, which he didn't express by words. I'm still as single, friendly, & available as I used to...Why the sudden change in him? He's making my work life hell. I am perfectionist and he's not deligating tasks to me (totally ignoring me) :(

I love what I do, but I'm starting to hate it!

Changing jobs or departments is out of the question as I have some obligations this year.

I need short-term solutions to survive!

2007-09-05 21:46:39 · 3 answers · asked by HopeH 4 in Friends

I got a problem. don't want to make this to long cuz then people won't read it, so I'm going to make this as short as possible.
Love my bf but he seems like he lost love for me cuz he don't call like he use to anymore.
Fell in like... not love just really 'like' with another guy who seems to care for me alot.
Got 2 many memories with bf and can't let go.
Don't want to break anyones heart.
The other guy knows I have a bf and says 'do what your heart tells you to do'. Don't know what my heart wants.
My brain ain't listening, ran out of options need advice

Sign
*Confused with another...*

2007-09-05 21:43:07 · 4 answers · asked by demon 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I always have a good laugh when we go out, but last month we both got a bit drunk and had a Passionate kiss, we never spoke about it after or the next day.

Then last saturday we went out and again an we ended up kissing again and going a bit further.

Im confused tho cos she has a really great boyfriend, so why does she keep kissing me? (i'm single by the way)

2007-09-05 21:39:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't sleep, i keep thinking about girls. I want to date them soo bad but i just don't have the time. But i want to be with them. HOW HOW HOW?

2007-09-05 21:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2 in Singles & Dating

I just can't help but think that he is BSing me. I am not sure if it is because I was deceived after a 12 year relationship, or what. I feel so insecure and even jealous. I hate insecurity and jealousy, and have never been this way before. I am always looking for him to deceive me. I guess what I need is to know is if I should just fully trust him, or continue to be suspicious. We live an hour apart, and I realize that long distance relationships are hard, but that isn't very far. He always tells me that he loves me, and talks about us eventually moving in together. Am I being unfair? Am I just to fragile right now to have a relationship with anyone right now?
It has been almost two years since the split, and I have not gotten involved with anyone else since. I would really love to have someone by my side. I am very attracted to him both physically and mentally. By the way, he is 9 years younger than me, but neither of us are really young, and I look young for my age.

2007-09-05 21:37:09 · 2 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 21:26:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been living together for almost three years, shouldn't his status be "commited"?

2007-09-05 21:13:11 · 21 answers · asked by Helena a 2 in Singles & Dating

I have liked her for a year, and I finally confessed today and had my heart broken yet again.

She said she doesn't like me and it's nobody elses fault, just the way she feels. I replied saying "That's perfectly fine, I knew that anyway, just wanted to tell you myself - i admire you, so consider it a compliment"

I just don't know how to move on but. Now that things are less awkward, we will probably develop a better friendship (and i'll be less nervous etc). I'm kind of hoping she might somehow change her mind -considering we are nearly finished final year of school and things might change once school breaks eg see each other more/non-school activities.

What should I do? Should I act a certain way that might somehow attract her to me? Or might things change over time/after school?

:(

I have never liked somebody so much. And she is so unique, it will be hard to find anybody that comes close to her beauty.

2007-09-05 21:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by t@bles 1 in Singles & Dating

Have fun with this one!!!

2007-09-05 21:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Kamp 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Dad had a really bad stroke in May, and he has other health problems, so it's no big secret to anyone (including him) that his time is almost up. (They gave him 3 weeks-it's been 4 months, but he's not getting better) I really love my Dad, and I don't want to upset him, but I do want to tell him how much I appreciate the things that he taught me, and let him know that I will be okay. My stepmom doesn't want us to get upset when we are around him, because she is afraid that he will become depressed. He is not mentally disabled other than not being able to get his thoughts to come out of his mouth. Although I don't want to depress him, I think that it would give him some comfort to know that we (my siblings and I) aren't in denial and that we will all be okay. He has been a doctor for the better part of 45 years, so he is very well aware of what is happening to his body. Has anybody else been in this situation? What did you do, what do you wish that you had done?

2007-09-05 20:58:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I get married 2008 . I love my mother but she has ideas on how the wedding should go and is taking over what sort of food we should have and opening her mouth about it and when people say they would like to come, she says they can. She does not even consult me. I wanted a small garden wedding with no more than 20 people. She has brought the number up to 60. She also will be there on the day helping me dress and telling me how to do my hair. I hate that. I want her to come. But I also want to do it my way. I know she will talk too much and embarrass me as well. She will also drink wine and take over conversations and want to be the centre of attention. I love her so much but I don't want to hurt her feelings, but it is my day. At my 21st she took over and handed everyone cake because nobody would get off their backsides and get it. I want it to be a small simple wedding but the little things she would do and the people there would drive me crazy. What can I do?

2007-09-05 20:45:08 · 19 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Weddings

and my husband-to-be has left to go see his family for a week. I know he needs his space and some time alone with family and friends will be good for him. However, he neglected to mention before he left, that one of the 'friends' he will be visiting is his EX of 7 years. I don't know what to do with myself, please help....
could he fall back in love with what was the love of his life.
HELP

2007-09-05 20:35:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He comes tired from work n we hardly have sex once a week, i dont reach orgasm most of the times, ive told him many times but he does nothing for it. Both of us dont masturbate. Otherwise he is very loving and caring.

2007-09-05 20:24:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm just interested to see what everyone else chose . i can't decide what color to pick , at first i was thinking pastel colors like light pink, or light blue . but then i thought i should have a brighter color. i really like pastels but i think it draws attention away from my dress . having brighter colors for the bridesmaids dresses would make my dress stand out more, what are your thoughts ?

2007-09-05 20:19:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I found out today a friend I had lost touch with died in June, I had searched his name on yahoo today after he was in a dream of mine & his face looked a bit messed up. When I came across an article & obit that he'd died in a car crash. I feel so sad that we never got back in touch before he died. Do you think this dream was his way of letting me know he'd passed & that he was still my friend even though we had lost touch?

2007-09-05 20:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Death Girl Am 6 in Friends

I am 14 years old.
I am thinking about marriage and even though alot of people say I am too young to make a decision, I hve already made my deciscion, and I feel I have already found the person.
What do you suggest?
I mean I have thought about this alot, anyone else been through this before?
I mean I am like 100%sure, and I want to make this person extremely happy.
Thank you.

2007-09-05 20:03:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it is really awkward. I just have to keep saying to myself "He likes Kayla He is your friend. What are you complaining about? You get to hang out with him like ALL the time!!!" but it isn't working!!! :S

2007-09-05 20:03:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-personality
- hotness
- popular
- money (rich or poor)
- friend circle
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2007-09-05 20:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so you met this girl when you were in 7th grade (she was in 5th) she used to be really shy around you until now (go to same school) shes now a freshman & you're a junior (obviously)

both of your parents are friends with one another & both of your younger brothers are best friends. since you are neighbors you carpool together for school activities (or just school)

would you be interested in dating her if you found her attractive? or would you not want to ruin anything since you are family friends?

2007-09-05 19:52:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this problem with my boyfriends parents everytime i parks my car on a public road outside there house (old bus stop) they start on my boyfriend to move it . I told my boyfriend that i pay road tax and that its my right to park it on any road i want as long as its not private. I dont see the problem because they never park there they have there, they have there own drive.

2007-09-05 19:42:28 · 11 answers · asked by dolphin 1 in Singles & Dating

the guy hadnt contacted me for over a year and when i finally contacted him, he told me that he had a baby with another girl and that the baby was with her. he took my virginity and after that, he started hinting that he and the baby's mother were still together? the thing is, he keeps coming to me. what can i do?

2007-09-05 19:41:06 · 22 answers · asked by esmerelda c 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this girl I'm "kinda" going out with. I say "kinda" because it's not official between us, but still. We don't really get to hang out alot because our jobs. We hang out and I go over to her house pretty much sometime every weekend. But when she calls me on the phone, I'm just a bit shy on the phone and I'm not really a phone person. So I feel she gets bored after a while of talking to me on the phone. I mean, when we're together it's different, but on the phone it's this way. And I don't want her to start to get so bored talking to me on the phone that she stops liking me. What can I do? (NOTE: It's hard for me to really become a "phone person")

2007-09-05 19:32:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

- wasn't that great looking, maybe average, but had a great body and personality?

2007-09-05 19:28:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy says he is not ready for a relationship because he needs to be focused on his schooling but is seeing someone to the point of basically dating them without a title, Is his excuse real or is someone getting played?

2007-09-05 19:27:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 15 girl and he is 16 boy. We are best friends for more than one year. We never miss each other even a day. Mostly we spent time either at our home or his home. Cool, now is the concern.

He is great at studies (me too) and he is really good at Swimming, Rowing, Skating, Foot Ball, Fencing, Chess, Tennis and ........ Of all he is great in Bible studies. He plays guitar, Piano, drums and of course great with key board. Its just amazing to have a friend like him. He speaks English, French, Spanish, Arabic a little and Hindi a little.

I am equally good in studies and music with him. I am good at vocal too, where he lags. I speak English & French.

Still I feel I am nowhere near him. He has learnt all those things through his child hood tho. Am I compatible with him to be his "BEST" friend? It is only my feeling deep inside me. But he is always happy with me he really likes me and my family, the same way I do like him and his family.

2007-09-05 19:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we've been together for almost 3 years (will be 3 in Feb). I'm 28, divorced with 3 girls part-time. he's 29-never been married. he comes from large and very close family (6 siblings)

we've had our ups and downs due to me having PMDD that was just diagnosed 3 months ago and is now under control. keep in mind that he's had to adjust to dealing w/my issues along with getting to know my 3 girls (who he loves very much and even watches the 2 older ones for me when i pick up my youngest from school).

we've talked marriage before and the past 8 months he's hinted about a proposal so i know his heart is in the right place. we've discussed me and the kids moving in after xmas of this year.

we talk everyday and he sees the kids at least 1-2 times per week. i'm close w/his whole family and babysit his neices often (they go to same school as my 2 older kids).

i have a key to his house and we tell each other everything.

am i waiting too long or should i be patient?

2007-09-05 19:22:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

calling you every other night at a certain time, and then all of a sudden stopping?

Its been three days

2007-09-05 19:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating