Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

What do I do? my husbands son is my age basically and last Christmas I took home movie tapes of his (when I had been drinking etc - and i normally dont drink) none the less its wrong. I have said sorry few times etc.. but I guess he just really cant stand me I guess. My husband doesnt thinks he said to him when it happen that he didnt want me in his house.. which i can understand i did take precious something.. But im not like this really.. Im such a good person, i dont take things .. dont know why i did it.. I really dont.. But I am thinkin of just clarifing and sending him a text seeing if it would be a problem if I did come for Christmas? OR is it too early to even worry? I guess I jsut want to know if Im not welcomed or if its ok.. its buggin me thats all. I dont have family here they live overseas.. its bad situation...

2007-09-05 13:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by RAIN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It is possible depending on exactly my husband returns home that we will only have 4 days to spend together before his family wants to come a visit. I am afraid that my husband will not understand my need for alone time and I am worried that if I talk to him about me wanting more time with him, he will say no and of course that would hurt me. Any suggestions or help you can give? Oh we are planning a trip to see them for the holidays about a month after they want to see us.

2007-09-05 13:04:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl i have a crush on has been acting strange around me lately. She rarely ever talks to me(This summer she talked to me all the time), but she will talk to all of my friends. In class when she sits by me she is always either playing with her pen or fixing her shirt or something of that sort. We were leaving school the other day and she and her friend both rushed to go with me in my truck instead of the other kids. Her friend has started talking to me more lately. Someone asked me what i did this weekend and she replied quickly he partied all weekend and kinda noted how i was probably drunk. Then later on that day, she made the remark how someone over the weekend called her drunk at a party and was talking about how beautiful she was. The funny thing is though is she knows i dont really go to parties and i dont drink.Why is she acting this way, and was she sort of wishing i was the one that called her?

2007-09-05 13:03:27 · 6 answers · asked by mason b 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that guys only have a particular interest in skinny girls??? Heavier but not fat girls are cool 2. what do u guys be thinkink and why is it this way???

2007-09-05 13:01:08 · 11 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Today my boyfriend told me we had been together for a whole week. I was like yea...that's right. I knw I am not a bad girlfriend i just wanna know why he told me...why not wait till we have been together for a month? What am i to think. Is he really exited about our relationship or counting down till we do it..

2007-09-05 12:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by jkwm04 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 12:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by maureen m 1 in Family

I need to know every girl is wondering, like smarts, looks, funny, or even if you like them athletic?? whats on your mind about your perfect girl??

2007-09-05 12:56:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy who rides my bus and live by me and he like never talks and People are always saying sorta jokingly I think that he likes me is it true?

whenever they say when he's there he says no to them or says whatever and then usually looks down or away

2007-09-05 12:54:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey everyone.. i wasnt going to sit here and pour my heart out, but i need to tell someone or speak to some1 because all im doing is building it up.
Its been year and half since i broke up with my boyfriend for my parents, its because he was a different race 2 what i am. as my parents found out about it and said they would never accept it. i made a wrong desicion and broke up with him to make my parents happy. ive tryed to move on, but its not working. a big mistake that i regret but its happened. but not only that he texts me like every 4months down the line, saying the same as me, how he still wants to talk to me etc and still thinks about me. but recently he tells me, he got married but now is trying to get a divorce as its not working out :|,he tells me that he wishes he could turn bk time and do so much different to what happened then. its killing me, im fed up of coming back and 4th with him. and because i care so much i want to be there for him, let alone still be loving him?

2007-09-05 12:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My answer: I only want to lose it to one girl and I love her.

2007-09-05 12:53:19 · 5 answers · asked by Live&Learn 2 in Singles & Dating

Just say you find a woman and you connect with her and you really are attracted to her, but she travels by bus because she doesn't drive and the trip for you is 40 min on the freeway, how would you pursue that interest? or would you.......

I like a guy , not sure if he's interested, I have rare opportunities to see him, but have had some positive vibes of possible attraction on his part.. I don't know if the distance thing will kill any chances of at least getting to know him more...any advice would be really appreciated.

2007-09-05 12:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know when to be serious and when to cut loose. I laugh a good bit actually. I just dont want to give guys the wrong impression that I actually "like" them just because I laugh at some of the stuff they say. Do you know what I mean? So should I just tell them upfront, I laugh alot but I dont like you just cuz I laugh ? Advice please?!

2007-09-05 12:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by *Livin the life* 1 in Singles & Dating

I caught my husband in bed with my best friend twice. He said he wanted her body so bad. I am going to oblige him and make him very much more feminine looking so that no woman will ever want him again. I already threw out all his clothes and I control all the finances. I revoked the insurance on his car cancelled his credit cards and since I have signing authority on all the bank accounts he has no money whatsoever. He doesn't work. He married into money so I have complete control. His friends are all my friends so he has no support there and nobody would dare cross me.The thing that pisses me off is he is more upset about me cutting him off financially than he is sorry about sleeping around. WOMEN GIVE ME SOME HELP HERE. I HAVE AN ORIGINAL IDEA FOR PAYBACK AND INTEND TO CARRY IT OUT.

HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED

2007-09-05 12:47:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even after they broke up they had feelings for each other for a long time. But now they dont at all. She is about to be engaged and him and I have a great connection. My mom is hating this though and tells me its wrong that we would even think about dating. This has become a big problem because I dont want to let him go, but my mom is going to make my life extremely hard if I dont. Do you guys think its wrong?

2007-09-05 12:45:12 · 18 answers · asked by runningbarefoot 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in second year of college and just feel so alone and empty.I have no friends there and don't have the motivation to keep going.Having a life of only going home,going to work,school and sleeping...that's all I have.My family is poor and couldn't afford to pay for my school,so I live at home and work to pay for it myself.meeting ppl is impossible.I'm starting to wonder if I should just get in debt and live in the dorms of a different school and start fresh,but I'm 20 isn't it too late.I've joined clubs but ppl seem to think I'm something I'm not and ignore me.They all seem to think I'm a party going whore...heh I'm still a virgin,have never dated,never even kissed,and never went to highschool parties,flat chested and my only makeup is mascara.But even strangers call me a slut or a whore as they drive by(how is wearing a t-shirt with loose jeans and old runners whorish?)I just feel so lonely,so pathetic and hated...

2007-09-05 12:43:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

SORRY DONT HAVE 2 READ IF DONT WANT TO

I hate it. I mean,i am always the last to know things or am forgotten altogether. I am sick of it.i could be watching tv and my dad come down to tell me we are leaving to go out and im like what? so i get 3 minutes to change from pjs and frizzy hair to something cute and presentable and everybody is yelling at me to hurry up like its my falt that nobody told me. also i have no talent like no afterschool thing to da. i love to read a lot but all that brings me is people teasing me (though i dont really mind it much when its my class mates) and im noy very outgoing. im not completly shy but i dont really have many friends and its hard to hold a conversations like all the time. i just run out of things to say.i also watch a lot of tv and get practicly yelled at for doing it but i love to watch movies. i learn stuff from it. im pretty smart like high Bs and As straight As i just wish i had someone to talk to about movies and books and things like t

2007-09-05 12:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-05 12:41:36 · 15 answers · asked by Cake17 4 in Singles & Dating

like mens like mel gibson, brusewill. with no beard and they have flat abdomen and they are above 45 waw they soo hansome and cute.

2007-09-05 12:40:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iyour man looked at porn and you are very attractive yourslef is
it normal?
if you say yes in which circles?thnas !

2007-09-05 12:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok soooooo i like a guy .
uhm he kinda sorta LIKES a freak in the grade higher then us.
but then why is he staring and looking at me all the time, and playing with my hair, annd like hitting me with stuff so i pay attenton to him i mean he tuches my leg and for 43 mins he starerd at me while the teaher ws reading a book i mena i like this guy but i dont no if he likes me back
confussed

2007-09-05 12:31:15 · 9 answers · asked by brittneey 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys like it when girls talk about there problems to then and do they like girls that like camping four wheeling and stuff? also what is there favorite thing to talk about.

2007-09-05 12:27:36 · 5 answers · asked by ♥↔♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 12:26:16 · 22 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so a new school has startet and with it a lot of people have changed or had a lot of stuff happen over the summer. And today, I heard something truly bizzare. I was at lunch and I was talking to a few friends and they brought of the topic or a gay friend of mine, let us call him, Mike.

So this guy named Mike is nice and everything but a statement was said that he is in a relationship with a 32 year old guy, like more than just friends, or friends with benefits relationship. I really don't know what to believe, because it may be true, it may not be, but it just struck me as a bit strange.

Should I be concerned about this? It bothers me a person a little younger than me is in a relationship with a grown man.

2007-09-05 12:26:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't you just hate when people are fakes to you! I hate it so much it bugs me! What do you do to these people?

Theres some girls when there around you and they act all nice and then when they leave they start to talk about you!

2007-09-05 12:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by Vendela Joy 1 in Friends

I was sitting by the window seat and this girl (this is a campus bus that takes you from north to south, which is all there basically is here) saw one of her friends sitting behind me and she sat in the vacant seat next to me. She sat by the side with her butt facing me. I only took up half the space (as you're expected to) but when she sat the side of her butt was firmly touching my hip and her body was pressing on mine. I thought it was kind of hot, so I left it there, but do you think she realized what she was doing or was she like "oh it's just a guy, why not?"

2007-09-05 12:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by Rickyyy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married and really dont want kids at the wedding. I would be worried about them getting hurt and gettting into trouble or breaking something. How do I say now kids allowed at my wedding without it beening rude?

2007-09-05 12:21:05 · 33 answers · asked by sweetlips2485 2 in Weddings

The truth is, his mother is a manipulating, ridiculing, abusive, spawn of the devil. And he thinks she is God's gift to anything- she's always right, and nobody is ever right who opposes her. I believe she's tried to break up our marriage (luckily we moved two states away before she succeeded) But now that i'm in my 8th month of pregnancy, he's going to pay gas money for her and her daughter to come up here when I deliever the baby. When i asked, he said he was thinking of bringing her up around my due date!! OUr house is tiny! And she eats like a horse. She ridicules my house-cleaning and cooking. She is the type to literally take the baby away from me, and I know it. How can i tell my husband that I want at least a week with the new baby before either of our parents decide to sleep in our livingroom?! HELP!!!!!

2007-09-05 12:18:51 · 15 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single mom that works full time, gets child support, and still has a hard time paying the bills. I work all day, come home and mow the lawn, fix dinner, get the kids in for a bath, read to them, then do the laundry before bed. And never get the dishes done. I just feel so tired and used up, what can I do to feel better?

2007-09-05 12:17:48 · 14 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I know somethings about kissing, but, when you're kissing without your tounge, do you just constantly put your lips like, Her top, His top, Her Bottom, His bottom(or vice versa), or is there else you do? When you're kissing with your tounge, what do you really? Just like have a seizure in her mouth haha?

2007-09-05 12:13:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well my friend who is 10 years older than me that I only talk to through email is probably not going to come thru with what she told me, AGAIN!! I got her 2 new baby outfits and have asked when I can come to her house and give it to her in email for the past 3 weeks and she always reschedules on me. She told me last week that she wanted to reschedule for this week and that she would email me on when she wanted me to come over and she still hasn't. I cant take the stuff back either b/c I marked the prices out with sharpie. She told me her AC broke last week and I asked her husband if they had got it fixed yesterday and he acted like he didnt know what I was talking about. I feel she is lying to me for some reason, I dont know. But what do you think? What should I do? And I cant really call her either. Since I work at the same place as her husband does, you think I should just give it to him and let him take it home or what?

2007-09-05 12:13:20 · 19 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1 in Other - Family & Relationships