Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

my fiance and i used to have sex pretty much every day. if not then just about every other, now he's got a new job. . he works 12-8pm..I might be crazy, but i always want sex, but when he gets home he always complains he's too tired. No matter what time it is. . but then he'll stay up till between 11 and 1 at night. how can i get him to wanna do it with me and not using "im tired" as an excuse.

2007-09-05 10:10:03 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was recently asked out to dinner by this lady at my gym. She has been giving me advice about working out for the last few months. She is very nice and very attractive the only problem is she is sort of intimidating because she is ridiculously built.

I am in decent shape around 6ft tall , 200lbs, i work out almost every day. But this lady is short maybe 5'5" or so but pushing 165lbs. I think her arms are around 15/16 inches. Her voice is also a little deeper than im used to.

Have any non body builder guys ever gone out with a bodybuilder chick?

2007-09-05 10:05:53 · 2 answers · asked by orod510 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband got got rid of his snake but wants a pitbull now im 5 months pregnant he just don't understand and all he does is call me names and ignores me what im trying to tell him we dont need anything like that right now he wants everything his way im stuck and i don't know what to do help

2007-09-05 10:03:08 · 34 answers · asked by tiffany t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it when your partner asks you with no ring

Or just when he asks you?

2007-09-05 10:01:14 · 36 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

Do guys only like outgoing girls? Cuz i'm pretty shy. Input from guys would be helpful!!

2007-09-05 10:00:24 · 8 answers · asked by LuvCottonCandy 1 in Singles & Dating

would like us to work it out before the families start...

2007-09-05 09:58:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend told me not to bug him (text or call) until after his freinds fall asleep!
I mean is he trying to get out? but why not just say that to me straight out ? so do i give him the boot first or just wait on him?

its a long distance realtionship and he still comes to see me every weekend and when he does talk to me he acts like he is all in love but now he says that "if i want to keep my friends then i cant piss them off" and that they get mad when he text or is on the phone with me.(is it just me or is that a little bit girly?) problem is that he lives with them and is ALWAYS with them.

ok and his friends like me i know this cause they have told me that they think Im the best thing for him and that they are really glad im "part of the group"

do all guys act like this with their guy friends? Im way confused he says he still wants to be with me but for me not to bug him what the hell??

2007-09-05 09:58:16 · 6 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 years old muslim guy living in usa and this girl she is soon turning 22 living in bangladesh. we really love each other, but our situation brought us somewhere , that we cant even imagine now what to do. she is getting married iwth someone else in less than one week. i dont know right now what to do. we talked yesterday and i think thats the last time probably we can talked. she tried to explain her parents but they didnt listen to her, because everything was set with the other guy. i dont know what to do. we talked yesterday and she was crying badly. telling me everyone has been invited, everyone knows now that she is getting married to someone. and if something happens, such as if we elope it will hurt her parents and its involve with their respect as well, but she cant live without me thats for sure, plz guys tell me what can i do. since we cant contact anymore, and even if i go to bangladesh , just by me what can i do. god plz tell me, plz give me ur best thoughts,

2007-09-05 09:57:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-05 09:57:00 · 4 answers · asked by Rebecca R 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 years old muslim guy living in usa and this girl she is soon turning 22 living in bangladesh. we really love each other, but our situation brought us somewhere , that we cant even imagine now what to do. she is getting married iwth someone else in less than one week. i dont know right now what to do. we talked yesterday and i think thats the last time probably we can talked. she tried to explain her parents but they didnt listen to her, because everything was set with the other guy. i dont know what to do. we talked yesterday and she was crying badly. telling me everyone has been invited, everyone knows now that she is getting married to someone. and if something happens, such as if we elope it will hurt her parents and its involve with their respect as well, but she cant live without me thats for sure, plz guys tell me what can i do. since we cant contact anymore, and even if i go to bangladesh , just by me what can i do. god plz tell me, plz give me ur best thoughts,

2007-09-05 09:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Our relationship , in my view, is utterly destroyed due to her alcoholism, depression, suicide attempts. Please don't judge us, I know it takes two to tango. I had affairs, turned into a workaholic, was un-supportive of her and generally hardheaded. Now we are finally at the end of a nasty divorce and she is laying the guilt on thick. She say's she's a changed woman but I don't see it. She claims I am abandoning her but I think we left each other a long time ago. She seems to think that I should automatically be totally in love with her, after all this time and thru all the ugly things, now that she has quit drinking. It goes on and on and it's driving me crazy.

Why would she want to stay with me and how can I get her to quit bothering me with text messages and the like?

2007-09-05 09:54:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First may I say I do not spend all my time on the computer, just so happenes got the use of one this early am. I would love to work again But I am disabled. Past judgement not, speak with a heart...I did not share all with Answers but will if you need all the facts by e-mailing me, You know I have owned 2 homes but my disabilty ate up my money. I never in my wildest dreams thought I would be homeless. Please let me say this to all out in Answer Land...It can happen to ANYONE in the blink of an eye. Look into a mirror and see if you could be next. Can't happen to me right!? Thank you for all your answers.

2007-09-05 09:53:49 · 1 answers · asked by Rukeann 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are having a destination wedding...meaning way out of town but still in the US. Question: Would it be bad ettiquette to register for gifts (and acutally expect ppl to bring gifts) since we are asking them to spend money traveling to our wedding?

2007-09-05 09:53:42 · 18 answers · asked by bellesnail 4 in Weddings

Here it is again for the people who mised it. Feel free to answer it:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ao4LOTidmpobqxsrdOkABvLsy6IX?qid=20070905130044AAYB6jr

For some reason, my last question never showd up. Weird.

2007-09-05 09:52:13 · 1 answers · asked by Randy G 7 in Singles & Dating

I am a nervous wreck and can not work or do anything. My 15 year old daughter is now living with me and my parents. She was living with her father from age 10 until now.

She started at her new school today and was not too impressed with it. It does not compare to her earlier high school.

I keep feeling like I am at fault and should have gone back to her father and reunited the family. He was willing to accept us both back and we would have restarted over in a new town.

I could not negotiate terms with him though as to how we would reunite. We are legally divorced. Yet, he still thinks he is married to me.

I can not move out into my own place because that was the agreement on which he sent her to me. He is also watching so see that she gets straight A's and if she does not, I will be in trouble.

I am a complete and total mess?

What should I do? Should I reverse my decision?

2007-09-05 09:52:06 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

This spring I had a small breakdown and was diagnosed with Bipolar type 2. I was able to get help and get on the right meds (took awhile) and finally feel like I'm on the right track, however, during that time I seriously neglected my relationship of six years with my boyfriend. This summer we started to fight and then last week I found out he doesnt think I'm "the one" anymore. We have decided to try and work on things, because he says he just doesnt feel that special connection anymore, and he says he still respects me and thinks I'm a great person and doesnt want to throw the last six years out in the trash, but he wants to be absoloutely sure. Do relationships come back from this? Or am I just hoping for nothing? Im still deeply in love with him, and am starting to feel great again about my life after a big depression, I just dont want to drag on the inevitable.

2007-09-05 09:51:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really rubbish at goodbyes because I always cry even if I barely know someone, literally by only knowing their name after being with them for about a week, is this bad and does anyone else get like or am I pathetic?

2007-09-05 09:50:52 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ Emz ♥ 6 in Friends

I've been engaged for several months, and we were planning on getting married next June, but I found out a few weeks ago that I'm pregnant. We're both really excited about it, as are our families. Sure, our families would rather us be married before having kids, but they are happy for us. We've been living together for a little over 6 months, both have nice jobs, are renting a nice house, and have been financially independent from our families for a long while. We were planning on paying for our wedding ourselves, so it's not like mommy and daddy or the government are going to be taking care of us, or our child. We were thinking about pushing the wedding back another year, my due date is mid April, that's about a 1 1/2 months before our wedding, things would be little rushed. Some people have been telling me how important it is that we are married before having a child, but should we rush into a wedding just so we don't have an illegitimate child?

2007-09-05 09:48:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-05 09:47:30 · 23 answers · asked by teacher 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I are have almost 4 month old daughter together. I don't work but I stay home with her all day. He works 3rd shift and I totally understand his need for sleep but I need more help and he ignores my wishes. Even on weekends when he is home I'm the one that does almost everything for her! I don't mind doing it but sometimes I get frustrated and need more help than he gives ..

I have tried to explain this to him but it just starts a fight ..

2007-09-05 09:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by Cole Marie' 3 in Family

do women really like thie and what is underneath it??

2007-09-05 09:46:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Saturday is my sisters bridal shower and i want to give a speech at it that just shows how much i love her and am thankful to have her as my sister and to wish her the best of luck in her marriage. I want to do this because my sister has not only been my sister, but also a mother to me. Our mother isnt in our either of ours lives and my sister is the strongest person i know and i look up to her a lot.
im really nervous to give my speech. but i know it will be fine i just want it to be really good. i have ideas on what all i want to be said. but just need some help on how to start it off, end it. And just make it a really great speech! AND I WANT TO TRY NOT TO CRY :(
any suggestions???
THANKS amillion =)

2007-09-05 09:45:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok I was at home and just decided to look through my husbands phone history (he has done stuff before) well I saw some 866 numbers. Then since we have internet on our phones I looked at his web history. He had a yahoo search for phone sex and several porn sites. Its my personal belief that porn is cheating. Well i confrunted him and he said that it was all pop-ups. Ok whatever our phones dont get pop-ups like computers. Later that day we went to a lake. I ignored him the whole time we were there. After we got back I took his phone and tried to confrunt him again for the truth. Both the phone history and web history were deleted. He claims he didnt do it and has no idea how it happened. The he said "when could i have done it you were with me all day today" So now I have no evidence to confrunt him with and he keeps saying he has no idea what im talking about and that he never got onto porn sites. Then we argued and he said "I'll admit to it even though i didnt do it to make you drop it"

2007-09-05 09:43:47 · 30 answers · asked by Worried wife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i just wanna know this. why are guys supposed to be the one to initiate EVERYTHING. why cant girls do this too?

2007-09-05 09:42:47 · 49 answers · asked by jbob30 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it just me, or is finding true love so incredibly hard and frustrating? And, no matter how hard I try I get screwed in the end...

2007-09-05 09:42:41 · 14 answers · asked by rcds23 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 09:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Florida-Fan1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 09:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by cyberdiva 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are some things that a shy guy wishes the girl he likes knew?

**thanks**

2007-09-05 09:38:43 · 32 answers · asked by umm hey 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my 3 sisters and mom.We have completely different interests and ideas.They are always opposing me. My mom and sister r always critisizing me.It's brining me down.I don't know how to draw anymore because I lack confidence in myself.I lost a job that I loved because of this. I feel like I hate them..I dont want to be in the same room with them.
I also don't have much friends. Although I believe I am a generally nice person.We've moved around alot so I havent been able to create bonds with anyone.I am a generally secretive person. It's difficult for me to open up to anyone. I finally managed to open up to a guy..we were together for two and a half years.. he proposed and we got engaged in the last year.Then he broke up telling me he wasnt ready for commitment.

Ive lost the only person I ever confided in. I don't know how to deal with my family.. I lost my job..and I dont have friends. I lost me.
How do I get out of this phase? I cry all the time. I'm desperate for help.

2007-09-05 09:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by Saritta 2 in Family

i just moved to a new town, and barely anyone talked to me. this one kid, lets call him josh, added me on myspace and we have been talking on there for a few days. i don't really know him a lot, but so far, i think we have a lot in common. and i kind of fell for him. so now im wondering if i should tell him i like him, and if so how to do it. we never actually talk in person, but i talk to him on myspace all the time. so what should i do?

2007-09-05 09:35:58 · 9 answers · asked by xsoccerxbabii92x 1 in Singles & Dating