This spring I had a small breakdown and was diagnosed with Bipolar type 2. I was able to get help and get on the right meds (took awhile) and finally feel like I'm on the right track, however, during that time I seriously neglected my relationship of six years with my boyfriend. This summer we started to fight and then last week I found out he doesnt think I'm "the one" anymore. We have decided to try and work on things, because he says he just doesnt feel that special connection anymore, and he says he still respects me and thinks I'm a great person and doesnt want to throw the last six years out in the trash, but he wants to be absoloutely sure. Do relationships come back from this? Or am I just hoping for nothing? Im still deeply in love with him, and am starting to feel great again about my life after a big depression, I just dont want to drag on the inevitable.
2007-09-05 09:51:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also, he's told me that he has feelings for a girl at work, 8 years younger, but hes not sure about those either.
2007-09-05 12:05:50 · update #1
Since he told you he has feeling for someone else, then I would have to say he is not 100% IN love with you or commited to your relationship.
I have Panic Attacks with Agoraphobia and know so well how it can strain a relationship. If he truly loves you he will be there for you.
I think the relationship is over and you need to move on.
Esp. since he has confessed his feeling for another lady.
My best to you and glad you are doing better.
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-06 17:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋