2007-09-05 09:47:30 · 23 answers · asked by teacher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A leader is a good motivator, and can encourage others to help him get things done the right way. A bully is just a punk who thinks he's tough and wants to push others around by insulting them and picking on them.
2007-09-05 09:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A leader is often the reason a bully becomes a bully. It's the person who gets the bully to pick on others, so the leader doesn't get in trouble the bully does.
2007-09-05 16:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by crymeariver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....
A leader in my opinion is someone who is willing and able to take the reigns, but still be courteous, and thoughtful to others, and their feelings. A leader is also willing to take responsibility for their actions.
A bully is someone who pushes people around because they can, and enjoy being BOSSY, RUDE, and OBNOXIOUS. A bully finds that everyone else is the problem and takes no responsibility.
BIG DIFFERENCE!!
2007-09-05 16:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A leader leads people/ helps them understand things also a leader doesn't boss people around saying "do this do that". A bully is a person who likes to see people unhappy so they bully you (steal things from you, pick on you, tell you what to do).
2007-09-05 16:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the difference is how they make you feel. Do you feel like the person takes initiative and likes to make decisions etc. or do you feel bad when they ask/tell you to do something? I think it's all in the interpretation. If you feel like you are being bullied, you have to stand up for yourself. If you are a leader, you can not always take to heart how a non-leader responds to you. You may need to adjust, as to not make anyone uncomfortable.
2007-09-05 16:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A bully is someone that makes a person feel bad about themselves, a leader makes you feel like an equal.
2007-09-05 16:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by catlover80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leader - inspires
Bully - scares
2007-09-05 16:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jenster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A leader earns respect, a bully demands it.
A good leader can control bullies but bullies cannot control good leaders.
2007-09-05 16:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by ©2009 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A leader makes everyone feels as if they too can be a leader. A bully has to use violence or negativity because they aren't smart enough or compassionate enough to realize everyone has a contribution to make!
2007-09-05 16:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Really now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bully gives orders and is bossy and only wants things done their way. A leader takes control, but still listens to other peoples opinions, and tries to make the best decisions that make everyone happy.
2007-09-05 16:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋