Family & Relationships - 5 September 2007

My boyfriend misses his vacation to Mexico over the summer SO MUCH he has a hard time concentrating on his life back home. Things like almost getting into car accidents and not getting his work done on time he claims are all linked to him constantly wishing he was back in Mexico. How do I help him????

2007-09-05 08:19:24 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi girls

My wedding is only a couple of days away - 10 days to be exact :-) I'm going crazy looking for a template in order to have my seating chart done. I fell in love with having the seating chart framed, but I'm having difficulties starting this project. I want to have it done by this weekend, and finally get it out of the way. Do any of you know how much it would cost to get this printed either at Kinko's or Staples? What's the typical size if I'm having 150 guests? I've seen some examples done with PowerPoint, however, I can't seem to edit it and put my information. If anyone has a template I can use that would be great, or any suggestions on how I can start...?

Also, I'm doing my menus, and for some reason my appetizer is 'fresh melon' (don't ask), how can I word that in the menu card?

Thanks in advance girls

2007-09-05 08:19:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My wife has a spending problem. To give you a litte history, during a six month period during 2006 she alone spent $10,000 with vitually nothing to show for it, but maybe some clothes. If your doing the math that's $1700+ per month. She only make $1400 per month. Since she's working we have to pay $700 per month in day care, so she's really only bringing home $700 per month. Add that all up and she's at negative $1000 per month... now it's 2007 and she's gotten better. I gave her a seperate checking acct and control how much $ goes in. The problem now is that she consistently bounces the acct and every chance she gets she spends money behind my back... what do I do???? we have a kid, I can't leave!

2007-09-05 08:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by nate1013@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How long should a woman keep you at bay before having sex with you? I mean it, I know some guys are going to answer 5seconds or something like that... But do you form an opinion about a woman based on how long she waits to have sex with you? Like what would you think if she had sex with you after3 dates, or 5, or waited 3 months?

2007-09-05 08:17:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 08:17:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

That they are that low and no matter what is said to them as far as compliments and such......they can't pull themselves out of the low self-esteem bucket?

2007-09-05 08:16:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Been married for almost 10 yrs, and Im so sick of my husband not "listening" to me....how do you get a man to actually pay attention, and hear you, instead of "selective" hearing?

2007-09-05 08:16:08 · 34 answers · asked by hasegirl1978 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend wants to get his onw apartment and does not want to have anything to do with me anymore. Im hurt but at teh same time Im ready for the big move in my life. How do I move on? What should I do?

2007-09-05 08:11:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The new ipods are so sexy!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-05 08:11:16 · 2 answers · asked by GO LAKERS! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 08:09:38 · 5 answers · asked by dutchgirllb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 5'10, attractive, cool attitude and can't get a date with anyone remotely close to my height. Men who approach me are 5'5 and shorter. Honestly speaking what is it? Do men not really like tall women? I always get looks and/or hello's from all types of men but never any convo its starting to become discouraging. Please give me some insight.

2007-09-05 08:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf doesn't like it when i talk about sex. She is NOT a virgin and we havent had sex yet even though we have been together for 3 years. She wont really tell me why. I know she doesn't have any std or anything because we both got tested before college. Im thinking she may have gotten raped and is too ashamed to tell me. What else could it be?

2007-09-05 08:06:57 · 31 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately my friends have been really bitchy 2 me. They r 3 boys called David, Jack and Dan. I've been friends with Jack n Dan 4 3 years n at 1 point Jack liked me loads but I didnt go out with him coz Im not alowed bfs, n he was OK with that. I met David about a year ago we liked each other LOTS anyway we got over it and everything continued as normal. David is also friends with Jack and Dan. Lately David has started being really nasty to me (called me names, blocked me on MSN, ignored me at school etc). Anyway we made a band David on guitar me vocals Jack on drums Dan on bass. Weve only done a few songs and we were always giving each other tips and stuff, but today they kicked me out of the band n Jack says its coz I wasnt a gud singer but they said I was gr8 b4. Also Jack has been sayin realy snidey stuff like sexist comments, now Im just sick of them n its gettin really annoyin also Dan keeps asking me out its drivin me crazy. Shud I ditch them n get new friends who appreciate me? x

2007-09-05 08:05:22 · 1 answers · asked by Poppy 4 in Friends

Is that grounds to break-up? I dont want to end it, but its making me sexual fustrated and I REFUSE to cheat. I'm thinking its his problem to figure out, whether it be medication or aroma-therapy. But its been some months now and Im losing hope for us. Help please!!

2007-09-05 08:04:55 · 17 answers · asked by Curi-us 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been seriously dating this guy for 4 months now. For some reason we can't get along, but I dont wanna give up. He's faithful, supporting, gorgeous, great in bed, financially secure, great with my kids (im young...) and almost everything i think ive ever wanted. but theres just one thing lacking... its like we are never on the same page. i know how to take **** from someone,and to an extent i enjoy the bantering... but its like thats all there is. i want a little time where i feel loved... like deeply. am i asking for too much too soon? i really like him. maybe even love him. but im scared to tell him anything like that, even scared to tell him that i care for him, because i dont want to push him away. i think he might feel the same way, or really hate me... i dont know. im really confused, and i dont know whether to leave or stay.... my GOD ive never been so confused... and i feel like im causing it for myself... i just dont know how to clarify...

2007-09-05 08:04:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I suggested that it'll be another man and he declined that offer. Will this really work?

2007-09-05 08:03:47 · 78 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

he's had loads of gf, he never really talks to me, not interested to meet up, all he wants is sex and if im on msn he doesnt wanna talk what can i say to him i want this boy bad!

2007-09-05 08:03:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she wants a car to save her walking the 5 miles to the shops ...i keep telling its nearer if she cuts across the fields as it will save time

2007-09-05 08:03:40 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone. I need you're help once again.

Ever since my mother and father divorced, my father has been bringing to his house some really fat lady. I see her when I'm going to my father's house and many times she and him stay the entire night in his room--with the door locked. He says "Oh she's just a friend" and "She helps me take care of my daughter (his lovechild)". Me and the lady don't talk--at all. Even when I came back from Japan from my six week homestay program, she didn't say anything to me except hello.
Bored, I went into my dad's (or their depending on how you want to call it) room and saw two condoms in their room. Not knowing what to do, I took one of them, tore out a page of one of her sleezy trashy sex novels, rapped the condom in it and left it in the book (I didn't know what else to do).
So, what do you think I should do:
Am I just being an overreactive teen?
Should I confront him about what I saw?
Should I just leave it alone?

Thanks a lot

2007-09-05 08:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Cheesecake 3 in Family

My husband and I are in the middle of a divorce. We have five children together and they are living full time with me in my parent's home.
Yesterday, I asked a question about an 'incident', concerning my soon-to-be ex, Cooper, and another girl. I ended up calling my lawyer and discussing my action plan, and after having a fight with Cooper, I called up my lawyer again.
He invited me to come up to his office to work a few things out for my case.

So I went over there, leaving my parents to babysit. But after about 3 hours of discussing the case, I don't know what came over us, but we started kissing, which turned to making out, which turned to crazy sex. We did it everywhere, on his desk, on the floor, even in his sink.

I think that I may actually love him, but I am afraid to show my face anywhere near him again. I haven't dated in 6 years, so help me out, please! How do I know if he feels the same way? What should I do about our relationship? How will I work out my divorce now?

2007-09-05 08:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-05 08:00:42 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it normal to take three years off from dating seriously after having heart smashed to bits. only have been going for casual hookups and flings.

2007-09-05 07:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hum,my stbx called last night becouse he wanted someone on the phone becouse his little slute girl's boyfriend got out of prison yesterday!!!!!! AND HE CALLED ME!!!!!!!!! I say let his *** get kicked!!!! I am I confused here or what???what is the deal?????

2007-09-05 07:56:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been asked to stand up with a friend and when I asked about music they had no idea. Can you help?She does not want the wedding march. They need a first dance too.HELP!!! They like easy rock and country.

2007-09-05 07:55:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Heres the story: Theres this girl that I work with, I have really liked her for a while but I never really talked to her. When I found her profile on a social networking site called nexopia a few months ago, I decided to talk to her so we start talking on MSN and whatever. We would get along but I never really had the courage to talk to her at work and rarely we would talk but we would still talk on msn. Then one day she deletes me off her friends list and removes herself off mine on Nexopia and Myspace and blocks me and apparently she blocked me on msn too. Im worried, could she hate me or could I have wierded her out or something?or is it possible maybe shes upset that I dont talk to her in person???Please help!!!
Keep in mind Im blocked an ignored too so shes pretty much shunning me
And yes she knows shes talking to me on msn.

2007-09-05 07:54:42 · 33 answers · asked by absolutebalderdash1 2 in Singles & Dating

i have low self confidence, and i dont know how to approach girls very well, actually, i really get nervous and totally screw up when im around girls, cause i dont feel good about the way i look, what advice can u give me girls?

2007-09-05 07:54:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy with long hair and i like this gut with short hair and i don't know which one i should get my friend to ask out!!!!!

2007-09-05 07:53:58 · 11 answers · asked by LouLou 1 in Singles & Dating

My step-dad interfers with everything, he gives me a hard time finding a job, and mostly to do with my boyfriend.It gets me real down and I dont know what to do.

2007-09-05 07:53:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

girl and him twice every six months. do you think this is a good practicle idea?

2007-09-05 07:53:47 · 16 answers · asked by NEMESIS 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw my ex and we were together for five years and i havent seen him in five because i re married but now i saw him all the old feeling came up is that normal i love my husband but i cant stop thinking about him

2007-09-05 07:52:04 · 26 answers · asked by A 1 in Marriage & Divorce