Lately my friends have been really bitchy 2 me. They r 3 boys called David, Jack and Dan. I've been friends with Jack n Dan 4 3 years n at 1 point Jack liked me loads but I didnt go out with him coz Im not alowed bfs, n he was OK with that. I met David about a year ago we liked each other LOTS anyway we got over it and everything continued as normal. David is also friends with Jack and Dan. Lately David has started being really nasty to me (called me names, blocked me on MSN, ignored me at school etc). Anyway we made a band David on guitar me vocals Jack on drums Dan on bass. Weve only done a few songs and we were always giving each other tips and stuff, but today they kicked me out of the band n Jack says its coz I wasnt a gud singer but they said I was gr8 b4. Also Jack has been sayin realy snidey stuff like sexist comments, now Im just sick of them n its gettin really annoyin also Dan keeps asking me out its drivin me crazy. Shud I ditch them n get new friends who appreciate me? x
2007-09-05 08:05:22 · 1 answers · asked by Poppy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm Afraid to say that, thats the way its looking for you. You could try and talk to them, but your dealing with CLASSIC male group dynamics, when insecurities are put into the mix. They all got something for you, but neither can get you, and instead of being adult about it, there doing what they can to blame you, and get rid of you. Dan stop respecting your wishes, david even went the extra mile to disrespect you (blocked you), and it doesn't seem Jake is trying to change anything. So call them on it, leave them be, if this is true friendship they'll be back asking for forgivness. Now if its just 3 guys lusting after you, you'll proubly never hear from them again.... time to test them, huh?
2007-09-06 09:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋