My step-dad interfers with everything, he gives me a hard time finding a job, and mostly to do with my boyfriend.It gets me real down and I dont know what to do.
2007-09-05 07:53:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your step dad is just looking out for your best interests and shows concern with the path you are currently following. Most parents would see your boyfriend as a negative while you see them as a positive. The reason is you are more than likely not working or being productive because you are too wrapped up into your boyfriend. There is no denying this.
If you are so young as to worry about what your step dad thinks perhaps you should step things down a notch with the boyfriend and start working on making your life better and more productive. It works out in the end.
2007-09-05 08:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I believe you a hundred%. i could make some variety of dinner plans with all 4 of you (how stunning) and all of you're taking a seat and talk this. perhaps if his mom sees her husband, her son's father and step-mom all accumulated jointly in his ultimate interest she ought to alter the way she is seeing issues some. i could propose a dinner of kinds with some wine so she does not sense cornered attempt to maintain it gentle hearted. i could say that the 4 of you status jointly suited now is the main severe element you're able to do for you son. as quickly as the 4 of you're woking jointly then you certainly can start to foucs on his grades. As for his grades i could ask him what got here approximately. he's obiviously an smart newborn and those grades are actually not the norm. i could talk to him and see if there become something that must be completed. My daughter is particularly plenty a straight away A student besides and whilst she delivered living house some undesirable grades we talked together with her and he or she admitted that she felt over helpful and did not learn. She become very upset because of the fact she knows she broken her GPA and that i could be stunned if it got here approximately returned.
2016-11-14 06:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by mangiafico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a step dad too. Im 23 now but he has been in my life since i was 4. althought my real dad was alive until i was 10 my step-dad still "interfered" in my life. they do. He is only doing this as he want to be a father figure to you. im actually quite glad mine was the way he still is today! Yes its a pain in the **** but i bet you something......................listen to him, dont be rude or shout (much) and agree with him now and agin and i guarantee you he will lay off just that little bit more.
2007-09-05 10:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by loz9484 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and support yourself, then you can get your own place and your step dad wont have a say in anything you do x
2007-09-05 08:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a control freak. I'm a step dad and this is no way to get on.
2007-09-05 07:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's trying his best, in his own way, to be a good dad. cut him a break and talk to him
2007-09-05 08:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he cares and wants to treat you as if you were his real daughter
2007-09-05 08:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him he can't tell you what to do unless you want him to.
2007-09-05 08:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is scared that you don't accept him as a dad.
2007-09-05 07:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Hahaha! 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because he can....Why do you have a boyfriend? Don't you have television or something?
2007-09-05 08:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Contorted Brains 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋